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"Yue Laozu said that if she had to bring her only son to the battlefield, then she would rather stay and be a living dead and ignore everything in the mansion. In this way, even if the son still resents his father, he can save his life.

The first generation of ancestors scolded her for having no ambition. He said that her husband can no longer be relied on, so she should learn to rely on herself, after all, the child has not yet fully grown up, and she needs to be strong and play a positive role model.

He also said that he was already old and had no way to use forceful means to suppress his already fledgling son, so he could only feel sorry for her daughter-in-law and grandson, and pointed out the way out for her to break the situation.

The reason why he asked her to bring her only son was not because he didn't fancy his only grandson, but because he had already noticed her thoughts of dying, and he didn't want to lose this daughter-in-law he fancied more than his son who was obsessed with love and disregarded the overall situation.

Second, if the grandson stays in the house, I am afraid that because of the father's partiality, he will compete for favor with useless people, and lose his peace of mind. He didn't want his grandson to be lonely one day, with no one to rely on and no one to rely on.

It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish.

He started by military exploits, and he fought countless battles in his life, and all he could leave to them was the countless experiences of the enemy in his chest. As long as the mother and son can learn a thing or two, they can save their lives on the battlefield and even make a name for themselves in the four directions.

In this way, even if you are disappointed in love, you can be proud of the battlefield, survive in the world, serve the country loyally, and never live up to the surname given by your ancestors. ”

Shen Jingyuan said this in one breath and hugged her tighter.

Yue Lao Zu thought about it again and again, and finally under the arrangement of the first generation of Lao Zu, he quietly left Beijing with his only son. The external news is that you need to recuperate when you are sick. Internally, the first ancestor directly told her son what she said to her, and then she also threw up her sleeves and left the house and went out to travel.

Because at that time, the first ancestor was still the patriarch and couldn't control his son, but he said nothing about clan affairs, plus Yue Laozu had been in charge of family affairs for many years, filial piety to his in-laws, fair and gentle dealings with people, and won the reputation of all parties, so even if the second generation of ancestors tried to disagree with everyone and wanted to give Miss Gu Cousin a concubine or even a flat wife, he couldn't get any benefits from the clansmen, and was even reprimanded by the Queen Mother for this.

failed to offer tea to the main mother, even if she got the heart of the second generation of ancestors, Miss Gubiao did not have a serious reputation, no different from the outer room. The child she gave birth to was not included in the family tree, and was not even recognized by the clan as the bloodline of the Shen family.

Even her mother's family thinks that it is a shame for her family to leave the family temple without permission, go to the frontier to join the second-generation ancestors, and combine them privately, and finally go home with a big belly to go to the funeral. As soon as the mourning period passed, she was removed from her mother's family and severed her relationship.

Miss Gu Cousin couldn't stand the criticism of the Shen family, let alone the hatred and rejection of her mother's family, after giving birth to a son with a crooked mouth and nose, and a daughter who bled as long as there was a wound, she collapsed within a few years, and finally killed her two sons, and was found and subdued when she was about to kill her daughter, and lived like a madman for the rest of her life.

The second-generation ancestor turned white overnight, and he originally planned to return to the battlefield but later fell seriously ill, his teeth were loose, and he would tremble with chopsticks in his hand, let alone hold a sword or a bow.

The emperor dismissed the second generation of ancestors from his post and let him live at home.

The first ancestor did not go back, he said that he was traveling, but in fact he went to the battlefield to teach his grandchildren, and later died in a large-scale war, because it was too tragic, and even the body could not be recovered.

Yue Laozu did not return to Beijing, she overcame obstacles on the battlefield for ten years, killed countless enemies, and made great achievements, but her true identity is not known to the world. After her only son, that is, the three generations of ancestors, was able to stand alone, she quietly retired and ended up in the Yue family. In accordance with her last wishes, she was not buried with her husband after her death, and all her ashes were scattered into the sea.

The third generation of ancestors and the second generation of ancestors have never seen each other again in their lives. Even if he entered the Beijing Saint, he would pass through the door and not enter.

The emperor took pity on the plight of the second generation of ancestors, and once ordered him to go back to see his father, but the third generation of ancestors said that loyalty and filial piety could not be achieved since ancient times, and he would rather die on the battlefield like his grandfather than be drunk and gentle like his father. ”

Hearing this, Yan Shunhua also sighed.

"Ancestor Yue is sad after all, right? There is no love for no reason in this world, and there is no hate for no reason. She refused to see her husband again until she died, and even would rather die in ashes than live and die in different holes, and her heart is far from what people can imagine.

It's just that her response is so fierce, I'm afraid the reason is that she can't see through her love, so that how much she loves her husband at the beginning, and how much she hates it later.

If she really felt relieved about this husband and wife fate later, she should go back to the Shen family to enjoy her old age before her death, even if she was unwilling to go back before her death, she should leave a will and order someone to send her bones back to the Shen family and be buried with her husband.

But she didn't. As a mother who loves her children deeply, it is impossible for her to think about the immeasurable impact such an approach will have on her children, but she can't care about them when her children grow up.

I guess her life in her later years must have been very lonely, even if there were many relatives and friends around her, she was lonely for half of her life.

Three generations of ancestors have been growing up by her side, and later on the battlefield, mother and son worked together to die nine times, which must have been a lot of feelings.

It's just that he doesn't want to see his old father until he dies, and it's too harsh and unkind. ”

Shen Jingyuan kissed her face when he heard this.

"I thought you would feel sorry for what happened to Yue Ancestor, and at the same time scold the second generation Ancestor for being a bastard, I didn't expect you to complain about him.

The first time I read about these lives of my ancestors from my family history, I was very ashamed of the actions of the second generation of ancestors, thinking that his heart was not strong, so that he was tired of the whole family.

Since he accepted the marriage, even if he had to accept it, but since he prayed to heaven and earth and worshiped his ancestors, he should treat his wife wholeheartedly.

As a man, even if he has no love for his wife, he should be responsible, not to mention that there is a whole family standing behind him, and he needs to bear it.

But in the end, because of his emotional infirmity, he destroyed his home, harmed two women, and also harmed several children.

When my grandfather heard me say this, he was disappointed. (To be continued.) )