Yan Shunhua had a headache.

She never thought that Shen Huayuan would have such a stubborn time.

He lowered his head, obviously knowing that doing so would disappoint her, and he was uneasy, but he still persisted.

"Brother Yuan'er, in my mother's opinion, the matter between you and Brother Ping is not a matter of principle, and there is no need to be so stiff. After a long time, the originally good relationship will slowly become dysfunctional due to rigidity. This is completely unnecessary. ”

"The child knows. But the child just didn't want to forgive the second brother so easily. He was the most stubborn of the three younger brothers. If I don't teach him to respect me this time, he will ignore me as an eldest brother in the future.

Dad said that outsiders need to hide their emotions, and they don't need to be so condescending to their own families. If you are angry, you will be angry, and if you are happy, you will be happy. As long as I seriously express my true emotions, I can make my younger brothers treat me seriously. ”

Yan Shunhua supported his forehead.

"Yes, your father is right, it should be like this, and my mother has no intention of not letting you do this. It's just that you have to pay attention to the method of doing things.

You can teach your younger brother, scold your younger brother, and even beat them when necessary, as long as you have a legitimate reason and measure, you can do it, and your mother will support you. The question is, this time you have been in a cold war with Brother Ping for a month, and you haven't said a word to each other, and even eye contact is getting less and less, is this too much?

If you don't do it right, you won't get what you want.

If you want to win in this contest and let Brother Ping have a longer memory, you should use a way that Brother Ping can accept. But obviously, Brother Ping is a person who does not eat hard and soft, and he has to choose between two ways, whether it is soft preaching or cold and hard refusal to communicate, he will continue to mess with you.

You can turn a blind eye to him, and he can be heartless and heartless when you don't exist, you are uncomfortable, he is also uncomfortable, you don't show your discomfort, he can also not show his discomfort, and in the end it will only get more and more stiff, and in the end the relationship is really rigid, and if you want to speak, you don't know how to speak, and even if you do, it is difficult to go back to the past, so why bother? Isn't it contrary to the original purpose?

Shen Huayuan clenched his hands into fists.

"I'm going to make him uncomfortable. He is always like this, bullying Kang Ge'er mercilessly. Knowing that Kang Ge'er liked painting the most, he finally drew a satisfactory one, but the two had an awkward quarrel and had to destroy other people's paintings. I'll say two fair words, he is still angry and says I don't care, saying that he wasn't born by me, so I can't care, only my father and mother can point fingers at his affairs, do you say it's angry?"

"Angry, of course angry, you should beat him up. ”

Yan Shunhua has not been able to ask what happened, Shen Huayuan is reluctant to say, Shen Huaping is even more stubborn, she watched coldly for a month, and also held back her internal injuries for a month, originally thought to let the two brothers solve it by themselves, but seeing that neither of them cared about anyone, no one looked at anyone, and Shen Hualiang and Shen Huakang were uneasy, she couldn't help but have a headache.

But Mr. Huang still thinks it's interesting, sitting on the mountain and watching the tiger fight, teasing this from time to time, and teasing that from time to time, making the two little guys more and more angry, and always refusing to reconcile, the little face is getting longer and longer day by day.

She euphemistically proposed to Mr. Huang to calm things down, but he bombarded him instead, saying that the kindness of a woman, the children are still young, they should strike while the iron is hot, let them hurt to the bones, and in the future, they will cherish the hard-won brotherhood even more, and let her not interfere with the children's decisions.

Well, she really planned to not interfere at all at first, and she did not intervene, but unfortunately, things got worse and worse, until the last one got out of control, and even Mr. Huang was a lobbyist, and there was no way to get them back together, and things became big.

The problem is that she still didn't really understand what the specific content of the quarrel was until this moment.

"I can't beat him, he's better than me. ”

Speaking of this, Shen Huayuan was a little aggrieved. Obviously, he practiced martial arts earlier, and he was obviously older and more powerful, but Shen Huaping was stronger than him in all aspects, and he couldn't compare to his younger brother's quick thinking and broad memory, and when it came to martial arts, he couldn't compare to his younger brother's roots and bones, and he was flexible, whether it was the master or Mr. Huang, they all agreed that he was inferior to Shen Huaping.

He can't be as open-minded and fearless as a real adult, so he has been sad for a long time in private, and in public, he also tries not to compare with Shen Huaping, whether it's cowardice or narrow-mindedness, he just doesn't want to listen.

He hopes that his younger brother is a good person, a powerful person, a manly man who can protect the Shen family and protect Daqing, a real hero, a real man, but this does not mean that he hopes that he will be compared to his younger brother.

He is the eldest brother, and the eldest brother is like a father. Their father has always been the heaven of the family, the pillar, the backbone, the indispensable existence, and the majesty that cannot be ignored. He also wants to be like his father, to achieve the kind of height that can protect his family, protect his family, and protect his family and country.

The problem is that Shen Huaping is smarter than him now, and he is also more powerful than him now, and he will only be smarter and more powerful than him in the future, so what kind of face does he, the eldest brother who is righteous, have to be the prince of the Dingguo Mansion? For the sake of the future of the family and the future of Daqing, shouldn't he give up his hand to Xian? The person who is really smart and can really have great ability is Shen Huaping, not him.

Shen Huayuan was extremely depressed, his shoulders drooped, and he was extremely depressed.

Yan Shunhua didn't know his inner activities, but after listening to his angry words, he could guess a thing or two, which was distressing and funny.

"It's because of my brother's words, so I'm sad, right? Obviously, we grew up together and were close, but he had to be angry and say something heartwarming, although it was hateful, but you, as the eldest brother, still had to bear it, and it was wrong to want to teach him this, but there was no better way, so he was angry and ashamed?

If it were me, in that situation, I could have gone back.

It's like this - 'You Shen Huaping was indeed not born by me, but my Shen Huayuan is not born by you Shen Huaping, what I say and do is taught by my father, I have grown so big, my father and mother have taught me for so long, and I will always be taught more than you Shen Huaping. I'm not qualified to care about you, and you're not qualified to talk to me like that. If you are not convinced, let's go to my father and mother to evaluate the theory. ’

If you talk about this, you have to shut up if he is not convinced, and I will never dare to speak against you again. But now that things have happened, we are angry, annoying things have been said, and our hearts are broken, so let's think about what to do next. What kind of results do you want? Think clearly, and then think about what to do. ”

Whether it's a scolding or a hard fight, it's better than ignoring each other. It is better to communicate at any time and in any way than to treat each other as strangers.

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