Chapter 249: Refusal
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But most of the people who don't take concubines are not very well-off, like some big families have three wives and four concubines, and few don't take concubines. This Huang family is already one of the upright families. Therefore, Zitao, you have to think about it well, if you want to marry someone who doesn't accept concubines, then the family you marry should not be too high, you have to be prepared for this. ”
Hearing Zishu say this, Ziluo and the others were also silent, what Zishu said was very realistic, if Zitao wanted to marry a big family with a good family, then it would be impossible not to take concubines or anything.
Ziluo originally wanted to express some opinions, but thinking that this was Zitao's life after all, and the eldest brother meant to let Zitao decide for herself, so she was silent for the time being.
"Big brother, I know this. I'd rather marry a poor man than marry a rich family, and then guard the house and many concubines, and make a move through the house or something, it's disgusting to think about it!" Zi Tao said without hesitation.
"I agree, although our family is not a big family, the silver is still enough, and we don't need to let Zi Tao and Ah Luo marry into a big family or a rich family to live a good life. We have the money to let Zi Tao and Ah Luo live a good life!" Zi Xuan immediately agreed with Zi Tao after hearing this.
"Ah Luo also agrees with the second sister's statement! Let's not say that our family is rich, just our three sisters' Caiyi Pavilion, we don't have to worry about eating and drinking, this is for a false name to marry a big family or an official family, it is not necessarily that the life will be richer, where is it worth it. Seeing this, Ziluo also said her thoughts.
In the end, it can be seen that Ziluo and the others unanimously decided to reject this family business.
So, when the matchmaker came to listen to the letter again, Zishu rejected this family business on behalf of everyone.
Of course, Ziluo and the others said it beautifully, only saying that they were scared and felt that they couldn't reach the door, and besides, their Zitao was just a country girl, and I was afraid that she was not worthy of the little master of the Huang family.
Although Mrs. Ma was very surprised, she saw that Zishu's attitude was serious, so she had to go back to the Huang family truthfully.
After the Huang family heard about this, Master Huang didn't say anything, but Mrs. Huang felt a little unacceptable.
However, this Mrs. Huang didn't agree much with this family affair, but the words of Mrs. County Ling, as well as this old man Huang, also agreed, and she didn't dare not listen, so she reluctantly agreed to this family matter.
Now seeing that Ziluo and the others took the initiative to refuse this family matter, although they felt a little embarrassed to be rejected, but at the same time they breathed a sigh of relief, which is also true.
"Even if they are a little self-aware, they also know that our family is not something they can climb. Mrs. Huang walked back in the Ma matchmaker.
"What are you talking about!" Master Huang scolded.
"Isn't what I'm saying true, I don't know what kind of wind my sister-in-law is pumping in her brain, this actually wants our junior to marry this country girl, you must know that our junior is also okay to marry the eldest lady of the county family!" Mrs. Huang argued unconvinced.
"Okay, okay, just like you said, you can let Xiaosi marry this official lady, but this must also have a suitable one! What's more, how can we explain this matter to Xiaomei!"
"It's just that Xiaosi can't marry this official lady, but it's okay to marry someone with a comparable family background. Otherwise, this little four married a girl from a peasant family, and in the future, these brothers will be the most rich and powerless in his foreign family, which will definitely be looked down upon. Master, will you bear with it?" said Madame Huang.
"Hey! What Madame said also has some truth, but this Dong family has been in the limelight lately, and it is not certain that it will be very promising in the future! Also, the little sister has tried so hard to mention this to us, and we can't make it and it is difficult to explain. Master Huang was also a little shaken by Mrs. Huang's analysis.
"Snort, just these little orphans, a few poor and sour talents, sir, think about it, how big is this show talent, there is still a big hurdle between this show and lifting people, how many people are just a poor and sour talent for a lifetime. ”
"I also heard that the two brothers of the Dong family were admitted to Xiucai four years ago, and now I haven't seen them go any further, and I don't know if they have the fate to take the exam and come back. If you don't have this, you will be a poor and sour talent all your life, and you will not be able to live like this, wouldn't that be a pit for our little four! Also, where can this sister-in-law take care of our family in everything. And it's not that we didn't mention this matter according to her intentions, it's just that the Dong family brothers and sisters don't agree, what can we do. Sir, don't worry, I will definitely go and explain it to this sister-in-law in person. ”
When Master Huang heard this, he also thought that it would be better for his youngest son to marry the daughters of some of his family friends, so he agreed.
The next night, when Yu Xianling returned to the backyard, he saw his wife walking into the house angrily, and couldn't help joking: "Ouch, who dares to make my wife angry with someone?
"Go, it's not serious! Who else, this is not what my mother's uninformed sister-in-law did. Didn't I tell you before, let my little nephew marry the second lady of the Dong family......"
"Then is this done?" Yu Xianling became serious when he heard this, and it didn't mean that Mrs. interjected after saying this.
The Dong brothers and sisters said that they were from a low family, and they were country girls or something, so they refused this family affair. ”
"Then let your eldest brother mention it again, after all, there is a difference in this family, and this person can't see our sincerity, but it's normal!" Yu Xianling said when he heard this.
"I don't say the same thing, but my sister-in-law said that this made this country refuse, and it would be embarrassing and embarrassing to come to the door again, and she refused to live or die, and said that my eldest brother did not agree with my nephew to marry the second lady of the Dong family. I don't know what my good sister-in-law said to my eldest brother, so my eldest brother changed his mind. Mrs. Yu said angrily.
"Master, will these Dong family brothers and sisters really have a great future in the future?" Mrs. Yu saw that Yu County Ling did not speak, so she couldn't help but ask.
"Who is right, but it is true that they received the emperor's reward and entered the blue eyes of the prefect. Yu County ordered.
"It's a pity that our eldest brother and sister-in-law don't open their minds, hey, it seems that we have to win over the Dong family brothers and sisters, but we have to change the method. However, sir, you also said that the Dong family brothers and sisters may not be able to excel anymore. When they really come out, it's okay for us to have a relationship with them again, and now we don't offend them and continue to have a good relationship with them. Mrs. Yu said.
When Yu County Ling heard it, he also felt that it was, people should not marry this girl, and they could not force others to marry it, so they had to listen to Mrs. Yu's words and continue to have a good relationship with Ziluo and them first, and I will talk about it later.
And Ziluo and the others were also a little worried that this matter would make the Huang family unhappy after rejecting the Huang family's relatives, and more seriously, it might also be disliked by the county, so Ziluo and the others were also a little worried that they would not like it in the county seat, so Ziluo and their attitudes were also to avoid meeting Mrs. Yu and them in the county seat.
So, Ziluo and the others were almost busy with the affairs of the county seat and went back to the village, and only sent people from the county shop to inquire about the news of the Yu county Lingjia and the Huang family.
Soon, Ziluo and the others received news from the county seat that they and the Huang family did not feel uncomfortable with the county order, and when Mrs. Yu also went to their Caiyi Pavilion to spend hundreds of taels of silver, Ziluo and the others were really relieved.
Although, Ziluo and the others felt that their previous refusal was reasonable, and besides, with the identity of their family, although they were not prominent, Yu County ordered them to move them, and they had to weigh themselves first, and they would not do such a thankless thing. This is also the reason why Ziluo and the others can go back to the village so freely.
Now seeing that Yu County ordered them to delay their actions, and they also went to Caiyi Pavilion to spend money to show favor to them, Ziluo and they were completely relieved.
And following the Huang family's proposal, there are many more people who came to Ziluo's family to propose to Zitao.
In fact, since last year, there have been people who have come to Zitao to propose marriage, but it is not as concentrated as there are so many now.
Come to think of it, Xiaoliu took the first exam in one fell swoop this time, which made many families look at Ziluo and them with admiration, otherwise, how could there be so many more people who came to the family to propose relatives after Xiaoliu took the county exam, and the family of the people who came was generally much higher than the previous ones.
The family who came here to propose relatives has these famous wealthy families in ten miles and eight villages, and even the rich families in the town, and the family background of the people who came to propose relatives can be said to be much better than the families who proposed to Ziwei back then, and they are also a lot more reliable.
However, Ziluo and the others still haven't chosen the most suitable person.
So, Zi Tao said that her family affairs are not in a hurry, and she is now busy with her Caiyi Pavilion.
couldn't find the most suitable person who could make Zi Tao nod, and Zishu and they had to accept Zi Tao's statement for the time being, but Zishu and they still said that they still had to continue to pay attention to this family matter.
On this day, Ziluo and the others were all at home, and Xiaoliu was in the backyard in Zishu, and under the guidance of Zixuan, they were preparing for the next government exam.
Only Ziluo and Zitao were in the front yard, and it was not time to make lunch, when there was a knock on the courtyard door of Ziluo and their house.
Ziluo opened the door and saw that it was Zhou Yuan who arrived in a carriage with his close entourage stone! This stone was added by Lao Zhou when Zhou Yuan started his own business.
"Brother Zhou, didn't you go to transport goods, when did you come back?" Zhou Yuan went to the south to buy goods after the spring, so Ziluo asked this question.
"Ah Luo hasn't seen her for a few months and is beautiful, and she is a lot smarter. Didn't I come back yesterday, but I went to the south this time to bring you a lot of souvenirs, didn't I send them to you? Ah Luo, Brother Shu, where are Zi Tao?"
In fact, Zhou Yuan wanted to ask Zi Tao more, but he was embarrassed to ask directly, so he asked Zi Shu casually.
"The second sister is embroidering things in the hall, the eldest brother and the younger six are reading in the study in the backyard, and Ah Luo is going to call them. ”
"No need to go to the backyard and call Brother Tree to them, let them continue. I'll just be in the front yard with you and Zitao. Zhou Yuan hurriedly said when he heard this.
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