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It's just that some people will quickly choose to face the difficulties, concentrate on solving the problem quickly, and turn the big things into small things; some people will react slowly, and may slowly swallow or passively solve them because of dependence or procrastination; and some people will subconsciously choose to escape, until there is no way to avoid it, and then face the problems that have been infinitely magnified because of procrastination and cannot be avoided anymore.

No matter what kind of people they are, they all have their own responsibilities and choices.

Yan Shunhua is convinced that he will be the same in the future, even if he is not married to Shen Jingyuan, there are small things that he can solve at will, and there will be difficult things that make him anxious but can barely solve them in the end, of course, there will be big problems that he can only do his best to obey the fate of God and leave time to solve.

Yan Shengguo doesn't like his daughter to defend an outsider like that in front of him.

"There's no comparison, how do you know he's a better fit for you than someone else?

Our family is a unique existence in Yanjia Village, and there is still some status in the county, and when we go to Fucheng, the older generation of people still know it, but when we meet those who are not long-sighted, people don't know who our Xilong Yan family is at all.

Dingguo Mansion is so high, but if you mention a word, let alone those powerful families, even illiterate ordinary people know that the Shen character is the unique Shen family.

It's not the right door, you say, how can I not worry about being a father?

It's not just that I dislike him The Shen family is too far away from the Yan family, after all, no matter how far away you are, you don't have to die to embarrass your parents to marry a foreigner, he is still from our Daqing, and he is not much farther than the Bai family.

But the problem is that the Bai family's court is not as unattainable as his Dingguo Mansion. If something happens to your second sister, your father and I will be able to speak, and we can also put pressure on the Bai family through the Fengtong Yan family, or with the help of your aunt's husband's family or mother's family, to put pressure on the Bai family. For your second sister, we are a proper backer.

What about you? It's good that he doesn't bully people by the government, but if you have any problems that are difficult to solve, it will be a big problem.

Of course, our Yan family will help you, and we hope to be able to help, but the problem is that with our own strength, I am afraid that we will only hit the stone with an egg, or at most use the mantis arm as a car. Even if all the connections are added, it may only be a verbal reprimand from the people above, and there is no way to put pressure on the Dingguo Mansion at all, let alone let it hurt its muscles and bones.

There is no way to overpower the other party or even just be evenly matched, for you, it is already good that the Yan family in the future can not become a burden and drag you back, and if you want to give you support and rely on, you can't do it at all. ”

Seeing that Yan Shengguo became more and more sad the more he spoke, Yan Shunhua burst out laughing, making his face black in an instant.

"You stinky girl, your father and I are so worried about you, and I will analyze the pros and cons for you, but you are the wind in your ears, and your left ear goes in and out of your right ear?"

Yan Shunhua hurriedly shook his head with a smile.

"Dad, don't worry, I've heard things like this from your mouth no less than ten times.

Not only you, but my mother also mentioned this, and my aunt clearly said that she was here to help propose, but when we met, she also bitterly hoped that I could think about it carefully. Even the eldest aunt, although she felt that Shen Jingyuan's nephew was so good and strong, she was also worried, and asked me if I wanted to think about it carefully and confirm whether I really wanted to marry into the Shen family.

To be honest, I've been thinking back and forth in my mind for a long time before I know for sure. If I hadn't really identified him, and confirmed that he really identified me, I wouldn't have mentioned it to you so categorically and said that I wanted to marry him.

Dad, if I marry him, compared to marrying someone who knows the roots in the village, it will indeed cause many, many additional problems, but I am willing, and I am also confident that most of the problems will not be problems, and he can help me solve some of the remaining problems. If even he can't solve it, he can only leave it to God, it's not a big deal, as long as it doesn't involve life and death, everything can be done slowly.

In fact, the reverse is the same, Shen Jingyuan marrying me, compared to marrying other so-called well-known ladies, he also has to spend more effort and take more risks.

After all, as you feared, even if I had the confidence to stand on my feet quickly, the initial period would have been fraught and even full of mistakes. After all, I am not a real family girl, and I will definitely not think about many potential problems, even if he is there, he is a man after all, and he looks at problems from a completely different perspective than a woman.

But knowing that he will definitely support me and be my backer is already a good foreknowledge in advance, isn't it?

Knowing that I will definitely work hard for it, to be a qualified wife and mother, I will not stab him in the back, I will not act willfully because of the problems that may arise between me and him, ignore the safety of the Guogong Mansion, and destroy all the foundations of the Shen family like a time bomb, just with these alone, I am enough to compare with those so-called ladies.

You must know that the marriage of the children of the family has always been family-oriented, all of them are political or at least money-based marriages, and there are many and complex factors to consider in all aspects, but only they will not consider the emotions of both men and women too much.

And at this point, Shen Jingyuan and I are much better than marrying or marrying those people of the opposite sex who have never met, even if they know each other, they don't know each other, and they don't have a heartbeat.

Even if we don't have exactly the same family interests, at least they don't go against each other. Personally, it would be a great benefit for both of us to be able to combine with him, and it would be a great blessing to be able to find someone who is mentally and emotionally compatible in this life.

Not everyone is so lucky. And I met him, although it was too unexpected for me and my parents and you elders, but this still can't change the fact that his appearance is a blessing for me, and I am irreplaceable for him. ”

In order to dispel his father's doubts, Yan Shunhua once again condensed the thoughts in his heart into a long story and bombarded the past with a bang. (To be continued.) )