Chapter 1357: Family
Yan Shunhua has a very good understanding of Yan Zhang's mentality, but understanding is understanding, it is not easy to really convince the other party, just as Yan Zhang's herself knows that it is not good to go on like this, and she herself cannot reverse it immediately.
"Let's say the same thing, Dad, don't accuse my mother. As children, we can get into trouble with our mothers because we are angry or something, but you'd better not be a father.
My mother will always forgive us for anything we do, she will find a suitable reason for us to explain the reason for doing so, even if what we do is ridiculously wrong, she will still choose to be tolerant and choose to understand.
But you are different, you are her husband, the person she admires and has made up her mind to rely on for life, if you accuse her, you are expressing your distrust and dissatisfaction with her, which will break her self-confidence and make her wonder if she is marrying the wrong person. ”
Yan Yucheng saw that the more her daughter talked, the more serious it became, and she couldn't help but have a headache.
"You women are trouble. It's just telling the truth, just thinking about the west, a series of messy, and the richness of imagination simply makes men breathtaking, willing to bow down. ”
Yan Shunhua frowned in annoyance when he saw him and smiled.
"Dad, don't be so nervous. As long as you don't care too much and always point out the mistakes made by your mother, she will naturally not go against you, and the tension will make it look like a confrontation between the two armies. If you are relaxed, she will slowly transform, I have a lot of confidence in my mother.
Although the fierce medicine has a miraculous effect, but the scale is not easy to grasp, you got such a show today, and now it seems that the effect is very small, and it seems that the opposite effect is more obvious. ”
Although it didn't have no effect at all, Yan Zhang was obviously frightened, aggrieved and afraid, not so much that she still didn't want to see Yan Shengguo and his wife tonight, but that she and Yan Yucheng carried it.
"Your mother was not like this before, to be honest, I have some doubts about whether I opened my eyes after coming to the capital, so I was impetuous, arrogant, and forgot the duty of a countryman. ”
Yan Shunhua couldn't help crying and laughing when he saw that his brows were frowning and he could kill flies.
"Dad, you can't say that.
What happened to the countrymen? The countrymen were not able to get ahead and make great achievements? Many great achievements in history were created by the villagers, and in particular, many students from poor families were more down-to-earth than the powerful children who were born in rich and noble villages, understood the people's weal and woe, and were diligent and conscientious as officials, and truly asked for the people's lives.
My mother is not a frivolous person by nature, but the most proud thing of a woman's family is to marry a husband who is capable and good to herself, and the children she gave birth to are all promising, and they can glorify their ancestors.
The daughter's family business, for the mother, is worth showing off to outsiders for a lifetime, and it is her pride as a mother. I have a good life, which proves that her motherly heart is not in vain, and she has achieved twice the result with half the effort, and has obtained far more than expected. In fact, she is just simply happy, in the past few years, even the birth of Brother Liang'er has not overshadowed the joy brought to her by her daughter's family business.
Father, my mother, just like the thousands of women in the world who have broken their hearts for their husbands and children, the difference is that the man her daughter marries is too high, higher than she imagined, so her words and deeds cannot keep up with the so-called standards in the eyes of the world.
But from a mother's point of view, my mother couldn't have done a better job. ”
Yan Yucheng glanced at her and couldn't help but smile bitterly, "Come on, my father knows that he is too anxious and doesn't care enough about your mother, so he will be in a hurry and directly scold people and cry." I'll keep an eye out for it later. If you still make such a mistake, you will be like this time, don't care if it's a big night or not, just come and wake me up. ”
Yan Shunhua shrugged his shoulders, "Dad, I don't dare to take this." Even if I dare to scold Shen Jingyuan, I don't dare to scold you, father, let's just talk about heaven and earth between father and daughter, and talk about some considerate words by the way. ”
Yan Yucheng teased, "Do you just dare to scold?" Just shouting your uncle's name anytime and anywhere, I'm afraid that punches and kicks are indispensable in private, so he has a good temper and always lets you."
You, don't be in the blessing and don't know the blessing, although the old husband and young wife, the older party, especially the man, will always let their little wife, but since they are husband and wife, if you want to go longer and get along more harmoniously, you should be considerate of each other, and you don't always bully your aunt with a good temper. ”
Yan Shunhua was almost speechless, "Dad, even if I really punch and kick him, it is impossible to hurt him, Shen Jingyuan can knock me down with one finger." He doesn't care whether I care about him or not, I can't do anything with him in terms of force, there is no comparison at all. ”
Yan Yucheng glared at her angrily, "If you are also a martial artist, is it possible that you are really ready to shout and kill your uncle?" What I asked you to pay attention to is to make you be gentle and dignified, not too domineering." ”
Yan Shunhua raised his forehead, "Got it, Dad, it's true, you are the same as your father, and today I also asked his old man to speak earnestly." ”
Yan Yucheng was stunned, and then asked, "What did the fourth brother say about you? He also thinks that you are not good enough for your uncle, so you should learn to be gentle?"
The corners of Yan Shunhua's eyes twitched, and she couldn't cry or laugh.
"Pretty much that. Why do you always think that I will lose Shen Jingyuan? I don't seem to have done anything to embarrass him, right? You always emphasize this, I am about to wonder if I am really an unqualified wife. ”
"No, it's just that you occasionally act really different from ordinary wives, and it gives me the feeling that you are too self-ego, too strong. My uncle is in a high position, so it's better for you to be obedient in front of him.
In private, whatever happens between the two of you, as long as your uncle has no opinion, it's nothing. But on the occasion of outsiders, it is still necessary to cover it up a little, after all, my uncle will not feel anything, but people who do not know the way you get along with your husband and wife will find it incredible, and then make some bad speculations. ”
Yan Yucheng is really worried that his daughter is young and ignorant, even if she has become a mother, there are too many young sons-in-law, and she can't keep up with her knowledge, and there are no serious elders in the house who can teach her, even if he and his wife are there, there is no corresponding content to teach, so they can't help.
"Dad, don't worry. Of course I wouldn't be so casual in front of outsiders, and only in front of my family would I call him Shen Jingyuan, and of course I wouldn't call him by name on a serious occasion. ”
Yan Shunhua smiled and groaned, and Yan Yucheng was stunned again.
Family.