Chapter 379
According to reason, "Mo Ming" could have called for wind and rain among the younger generation, although his father is a soft eater, he himself is not awesome, but he has a big background, and in layman's terms, "there are people behind him"!
His mother is the most powerful elder of the Yan family, and among the contemporary Yan family leaders, she is second only to Yan Buping, the head of the Yan family.
Of course, it is necessary to exclude those older figures, after all, those people are the precious wealth of the Yan family, and now they are no longer responsible for the various problems of the Yan family, they have paid for the Yan family for decades, and now it is time for them to focus on themselves.
And "Mo Ming" also has a sister who is a talented girl on the first day of the Yan family.
To put it bluntly, one of these two people is a bigwig-level figure in the adult generation, and the other is a bigwig-level figure among his peers.
But what do you say about it......
Mo Ming didn't want to tell his family about being bullied outside, and he didn't dare to say it.
Needless to say, the former is not too much to say, normal children of this age are reluctant to tell their parents about some of the things they have experienced outside, not to mention that Yan Ningxue is not his biological mother!
In fact, there are often restructured families like Mo Ming on TV, in fact, in this kind of family, it is very normal for there to be estrangement between children and stepparents.
Mo Ming has had a similar situation at home with several friends around him, and generally speaking, the relationship between the child and the stepparent is more awkward, neither good nor bad.
This is incomprehensible to those who may not have experienced it or witnessed it with their own eyes.
It's a weird feeling that someone who doesn't have anything to do with you suddenly comes to your house and you call him dad or mom.
Many children can't scream at all, because it's not their own father or mother after all, and of course, that's not the biggest problem.
In fact, the reason why they can't really call them is a problem in their hearts, children can't pass their own level, they originally had their own father and mother, they were the children of their parents, but now let them call another person's father or mother, this feeling...... It's like letting them betray their biological parents, painful, uncomfortable!
And in the eyes of that stepparent, it was the same.
In TV, those reorganized families originated from the second spring of their parents, Dad found a stepmother because Dad and stepmother had a new love, and Mom found a stepfather because Mom and stepfather had a new love.
In fact, the things in the TV series are really too beautiful, and when a person reaches his forties, it is difficult to fall in love again.
The vast majority of such fathers are looking for stepmothers, and mothers are looking for stepfathers for the sake of their children, thinking that this can give their children better family affection and better protection.
In fact, in most cases, this kind of reorganization will not only not give the child better family affection, but will make the child more evasive and afraid of family affection, and even make the child more isolated, and even they themselves will be the child academy.
However, it is true that the guarantee is true.
Part of the reason is that parents are really like looking for a partner, but this kind of companion has nothing to do with romance, they are more like a habit, a habit of getting used to the life of two people.
Of course, there are no absolutes, and it is not excluded that old trees will sprout new shoots and dead trees will meet in spring, but this probability is really small in reality.
For stepparents, this feeling is also very strange to get along with the child, the child has no blood relationship with him, and he knows him completely because he and his parents have come together, and they will feel embarrassed to be called parents by a strange child, so at this time, the child may become an obstacle for him and the child's parents to come together.
Mo Ming has seen several girls before, all of them are this kind of reorganized family, the mother died, and then the father found a stepmother, the stepmother is very good to the child, but this does not eliminate the estrangement between the two sides, so the stepmother will do everything possible to marry this girl.
This is the reality, and the reality will not be so rosy.
After all, TV dramas are just a form of artistic expression, which is based on reality and beautifies reality.
The reconstituted family in reality is actually far more embarrassing than the reconstituted family in these TVs!
The most typical example is the relationship between Yan Tingcheng and Mo Ming's father.
In fact, logically speaking, Mo Ming's father is now Yan Chengcheng's stepfather, and the family has been reorganized for more than ten years, but Yan Tingcheng does not have much emotion for Mo Ming's father.
In fact, it can be seen that Yan Tingcheng has some father-daughter affection for Mo Ming's father, and with Yan Tingcheng's cold temperament, if she really has a bad relationship with anyone, she doesn't bother to deal with the other party at all.
So from this point of view, Yan Tingcheng actually recognizes Mo Ming's father, and Yan Tingcheng does not object to Mo Ming's father treating her as a daughter.
But...... If you really want to count it, Yan Tingcheng and Mo Ming's father are not as strong as the normal father-daughter relationship.
This shows how deep this estrangement between reconstituted families is.
Even if their family has been going through it for more than ten years, it is only this point.
And this also includes many factors such as Mo Ming's father's nature is good to talk and easy to socialize, think about it, what kind of bird will he become if he is replaced by another old-fashioned man?
This kind of estrangement is really deep in the flesh and blood.
Mo Ming's situation is more special, in fact, according to Mo Ming's situation, you shouldn't worry too much about the bloodline.
Mo Ming was brought to the Yan family by his father since he was a child, it can be said that since he has a memory, his mother is Yan Ningxue, and his sister is Yan Chengcheng, he has no special memory of his biological mother, and he doesn't know how many wives his father has.
And Yan Ningxue is very good to Mo Ming and spoils him in every way, so if there is no accident, Mo Ming is actually more like Yan Ningxue's biological son, and the bloodline problem will not become a barrier in his heart at all.
But!
Note that it's "but"!
Where is "Mo Ming" located?
It's the Yan family!
What is the Yan family?
The Yan family is a family composed of people with the surname Yan!
And what are you?
Your surname is Mo, and from the moment you entered the Yan family, you were destined to be an outlier in this family!