056 Communication
She may not have a deep understanding of love and husband and wife, but for marriage, the key to maintaining a marriage is faithfulness.
If two people can't even be loyal to each other and themselves at the most basic level, then how can such two people go far on the road of marriage.
For marriage, she can do without love, or even have any other requirements, but she must be loyal to her marriage and family.
"In addition to loyalty, in my opinion, there should be honesty and trust in marriage." Cheng Yue looked at her aggressively and said, "If you want to go far in marriage, you have to respect, understand and communicate with each other." β
Mi Jia stared at him, she always thought that he had a cold temperament and usually didn't talk much, but she didn't think that he didn't talk a lot when he talked to people seriously, and the reasons were clear.
Seeing that she didn't speak, Cheng Yue raised his hand and touched her face lightly, missing the serious Yan sΓΉ just now, and softened his expression and voice and said, "I didn't mean to force you, I just hope that we can be honest with each other, although we are not considered to be a normal way to combine, but we all want to be a normal couple, do you understand what I mean?" β
Mi Jia looked at him and muttered in a low voice, "Your words contradict each other...... I don't want to force her but insist on telling her to be honest with each other, these two words are clearly inconsistent.
Hearing this, Cheng Yue sighed lightly and said, "I don't mean anything else, if you don't want to say it, of course I don't ask, but today, your whole soul is absent-minded, I'm more just worried, worried that you will be injured or something." β
In fact, he is not overbearing enough to want to know everything about her, and he also understands that in fact, the relationship between two people should actually give each other more personal space, but the premise of these qiΔ must be under the premise that she will not be harmed, otherwise how can this qiΔ be established.
Mi Jia nodded, she understood and understood the meaning of his words, and looked at him but never spoke.
Seeing that she never spoke, Cheng Yue sighed and asked, "So you still don't want to tell me about it?" That is to say, he said all these things in vain at night, and she did not understand them, or understood them but did not want to do them?
Mi Jia shook her head, knowing that he had misunderstood, and explained, "It's not that I don't want to sue you, it's just that I don't know what to say." Some of the feelings she didn't figure out how she knew how to sue him.
Cheng Yue touched her face, caressed her face with a slightly calloused hand, and asked, "What happened when you came in the morning?" β
Mi Jia thought about it for a while, and finally said to him, "I saw Xiaoxiao in the hospital lobby in the morning." β
Cheng Yue raised his eyebrows suspiciously, a little puzzled, "What's wrong with her?" β
In fact, he was quite impressed by Lu Xiaoxiao, although he hadn't really met a few times, but when his grandmother was hospitalized, she didn't run to the hospital less, and it could be seen that she and Mi Jia were real friends, just like him and Li Ge Wang Yang.
Mi Jia sighed lightly and said, "She's pregnant." β
Hearing this, Cheng Yue was stunned, but he was a little surprised.
"The child is Gu Xiangdong's, but Gu Xiangdong doesn't know." Mi Jia said, "Xiaoxiao likes Gu Xiangdong for more than ten years, but Gu Xiangdong doesn't know, or knows and pretends not to know, they were drunk that night, and Gu Xiangdong didn't know what happened." β
Hearing this, Cheng Yue shook his head and said with a determined expression, "A man won't know that it's impossible not to know whether he has had a relationship or whether he has been entangled or not." β
Saying that you don't remember anything while getting drunk is nothing more than an excuse not wanting to be responsible, but a reason and means to shirk responsibility.
"Uh......" Mi Jia was stunned, looked at Cheng Yue fixedly, and asked him directly, "You mean that Gu Xiangdong knew what happened that night?" β
Cheng Yue nodded, how could he not know about the kind of things he had done personally.
Hearing him say this, Mi Jia exclaimed a little in surprise, "Xiaoxiao actually thought that he didn't know, and wanted to take the child away!" Say that you don't want to use responsibility to kidnap love and kidnap marriage! β
Cheng Yue frowned, a little disagreeable about a certain behavior.
Mi Jia was very angry, if Gu Xiangdong didn't know what happened that night, but he just didn't do anything, and even said those words in front of Xiaoxiao, then Xiaozhong thought about him everywhere and didn't want him to be a little reluctant and embarrassed, how ridiculous it seemed to him.
Thinking about it, Mi Jia said, "No, I'm going to call Xiao Xin." As he spoke, he got up and was about to get his mobile phone and call Lu Xiaoxiao.
It's just that she hasn't stood up yet, but she has been pulled down by Cheng Yue again, shook her head at her, and said, "What about telling her?" β
"Gu Xiangdong is responsible!" If Gu Xiangdong didn't know that it wasn't clear, it would be one thing, but if he knew it and knew it clearly but pretended not to know, it would be another thing!
"Do you think this is what Lu Xiaoxiao wants?" Cheng Yue asked her rhetorically.
No!
Mi Jia gave the answer in her heart, she dared to assert that Xiaoxiao would not want this, she said that she would not use responsibility to bind love and marriage, so it was impossible for her to say that she would hold her stomach and ask Gu Xiangdong to be responsible! She must not have been able to do such a thing.
"You know, she wouldn't want that." Cheng Yue gave her the answer, pulled her to sit down again, and said, "There are some things that we can't control and decide, since they have happened, we have to face them bravely, and as a friend, all we can do at this time is to support her decision." β
Mi Jia stopped talking, she understood and understood the meaning of his words, and knew that even if Gu Xiangdong was kept in this way, if his heart was not there all the time, it would be meaningless.
Marriage may be two people without love, but if there is only one person who gives sincerity from beginning to end, how long can it last?
Seeing her solemn and silent look, Cheng Yue just touched her head, "Don't think too much." β
Mi Jia sighed and nodded, what could she do if she thought too much, and she couldn't change the current situation.
There was silence for a while, and I only said to him, "I'll wash my face." β
After making sure that she was really fine, Cheng Yue nodded and said, "Go ahead." β
When he lay down in his arms again and was ready to fall asleep, it was already half an hour later.
Before falling asleep, Mijia leaned into his arms and couldn't help asking, "Are men always like this?" "Eat dry and wipe clean and deliberately pretend not to know......
Mi Jia asked a little nonsensical, but it was rare that Cheng Yue understood the meaning of her words, lowered his head and kissed her forehead, and only said, "Not necessarily." "People may not know, but at least he won't.