682 Divergence
Seeing her say this, Cheng Yue looked at her and said, "I didn't mean to say that Junjie was bad, I just think that Junjie and Yiwan are not suitable, they are too different in age!" ”
"Love doesn't matter what age is, like is like, love is love, age is not a problem at all, it's just an excuse you want to use to escape the problem." Junjie is her younger brother, there is no reason why she should not be on his side, if Junjie really likes it really love, then she must support it.
Cheng Yue felt that this matter was unreliable, with his understanding of Xia Yiyuan, he definitely didn't think that Junjie and her were suitable, looked at Mi Jia and said, "Anyway, I don't think Junjie and Yiyuan are suitable, there will be no result between them." ”
"I don't think there's anything wrong with them, as long as the two of them feel like each other, I support them in this matter." Mi Jia also expressed her attitude, remembering the way Junjie smoked alone when she met Junjie on the other side of the stairs, she was his sister, she looked a little distressed and reluctant for him, although she was still a little shocked by the things between the two of them, although she also felt that the age gap between him and Xia Yiyuan was a bit big, but if she really wanted her to make a statement, then she must agree and stand on his side.
Seeing her resolute look, Cheng Yue looked at her for a while, and said calmly, "Mi Jia, let's all calm down, don't make a decision so quickly, look at this problem objectively, do you really think it's appropriate for them to be together?" Junjie is still just a child, does he really know what he is doing now, what is love, what is love?! ”
Mi Jia looked at him, shook her head and disagreed with his words, stared into his eyes and said, "Cheng Yue, I found that you are prejudiced against Junjie?" ”
"I didn't." Cheng Yue shook his head, his tone and attitude were not a little false, and the expression on his face was also serious.
"Then why don't you agree, he is my younger brother, with your understanding of Junjie, do you think Junjie is the kind of person who can play with feelings?" Mija wondered why he had to be against it.
Cheng Yue explained, "I don't think so, I just think Junjie really knows what liking and love are?" ”
"Don't you know what love and liking are when you're young?" Mi Jia couldn't agree with his statement, she had her own understanding, "It's a natural thing to like, it's as simple as meeting that person who gives you this feeling, it's not too complicated, as long as you follow your heart, that's all, isn't it?" Why do you have to hook it with age, if you really have to hook it with age, I think that the likes and love that Junjie knows at his current age are the purest, and they are the most pure and direct without any pollution, on the contrary, with the increase of age, there is more contact with things in this society, and the people and things I have seen at that time will become complicated and cumbersome, and at this time, the so-called love and love will have more impurities, and there will be more concerns between people. Love at that time was not so pure, was it? ”
She has always felt that the purest and purest time of love is when she is on campus, after leaving the society, there are not only all kinds of temptations, but also all kinds of pressure, whether it is from the family or from her own work, at that time there are always more scruples when you talk about feelings, and it is impossible to really obey your heart, obey what you really like in your heart, love, and more often will be occupied by helplessness.
Cheng Yue was really a little unable to answer for a while when she said it, what she said was not without her reason, but it was not possible to bring this truth to the issue of Jiang Junjie and Xia Yiyuan.
After thinking about it, he sighed lightly and said, "Mi Jia, I don't deny that what you said makes sense and is right, but isn't it also a divide?" You can use this for those who are still taking classes on campus, but the situation of Junjie and Xia Yiyuan is not the same, the difference between the two of them is eight years, not one year or two, Junjie was not born when Xia Yiyuan went to elementary school, Junjie is still a student, but Xia Yiyuan She has been working in society for several years, Junjie he-"
Mi Jia raised her hand to interrupt Cheng Yue's unfinished words, and said, "Do we have to talk about this age, I know that the age difference between them is a little big, but there are also those who are more different than them, aren't they?" Isn't someone else in their teens or twenties still married? These things are enough to prove that in the face of love, age is not an obstacle to love at all! ”
"Okay, according to what you said, let's not talk about age, age aside, let me ask you, what can Junjie wish for Xia to others? If Xia Yiyuan wants to get married now, can Junjie give her a marriage?! Cheng Yue asked, the question is very sharp, but it is also very realistic, and it is indeed the problem in front of us.
Mi Jia stared at Cheng Yue, and she was really a little unable to answer for a while, she only thought about whether she loved or not, whether she liked it or not, but she hadn't thought about what happened after liking and love, and she didn't think about the marriage between him.
Seeing that she didn't speak, Cheng Yue reached out and gently touched her head, looked into her eyes and whispered, "Mi Jia, I don't mean to do anything with you, but we have to treat this matter rationally, when it comes to marriage, we have to take into account the age gap between them, Junjie He has just come of age and just started college, and Xia Yiyuan is twenty-seven years old, I know her, and I am also very familiar with her family, her marriage has always been something urged by the family, I believe Junjie He really loves Xia Yiyuan, is also willing to give her marriage, I even believe that he will be good to Yiwan for the rest of his life like he is now, but his current words will not give Yiyuan what he needs most. ”
"But Xia Yi wishes she could-" Mi Jia wanted to say something, but this time Cheng Yue didn't give her a chance to speak, and directly interrupted her and said, "I know you want to say that she can wait, right?" ”
Mi Jia nodded, she really wanted to say that.
"But Mi Jia, you have to think about it, even if Junjie marries Yiyuan immediately after graduating from college, it will be four years later, Junjie is embarrassed to ask Xia Yiyuan to wait for him for four years?"
Mi Jia was silent, looking at him for a while and didn't know what to say, four years is not a long time, but it is definitely not a short time, too many things will happen, in other words, she doesn't have the courage to ask others to wait for such a long time.
[Author's digression]: Happy Zongzi Festival, everyone, ╭(╯3╰)╮