Xue Yu heard Lu Zhengdong say this, and couldn't help but raise her head and ask:

"Are you afraid that they will spoil him too much and not let them take it?"

Lu Zhengdong nodded, and shook his head again:

"It's unrealistic not to let them take that, the old people are looking forward to their grandchildren, and they want to enjoy such a rare family fun, it's nothing to spoil them, but they can't be excessive. The point is that the next generation is indeed prone to the phenomenon of doting on children, and it is of course good to love them properly, but when love develops into doting, the nature and result completely change.

Some people say that too deep love is more distorted by personality than great hatred, because the former is difficult to resist by the object of doting, and this is precisely the common characteristic of one-child families in China. ”

Lu Zhengdong paused for a moment before continuing:

"Now many parents are taking care of their children's affairs, children also need to learn independently, children will eventually grow up, parents can not overstep their responsibilities, parents' big package will guide their children's incompetence in the future! In fact, children should learn to be responsible for themselves from an early age, learn to do their own things, learn to be considerate of parents, and should and must let him know that the conditions of parents are not blown by the wind, and they must learn to cherish.

If he is not instilled with this kind of thinking from an early age, he will grow up to reach out and make more and more inappropriate demands, and he is likely to gradually lose the ability and desire to improve, or even worse. There are some things that you, as a mother, have to do the ideological work of the elderly in the family, I think the old people in the family have endured hardships, as long as you talk about it a little, they should understand the truth. If it doesn't work, it really won't work. Then you move the rescuers. ”

Lu Zhengdong glanced at the thoughtful Xue Yu. To continue:

"The ancients said that the poor are not more than three generations, and the rich are not more than three generations, in fact, this is very philosophical, very dialectical, in addition to the general environment, one of the most important reasons for the transformation of the rich and poor is the education of future generations, of course, this is also for the general phenomenon, those who have succeeded in educating the descendants of many rich families can still continue."

Lu Zhengdong has seen and heard too much about a certain generation and a certain generation. Gentleness, unlearning, unskilled, losers, etc. are all considered pediatrics, and many of them ended up in prison because of everything, and even Qingqing's life was over.

Lu Zhengdong is not only worried that the old man in the family will spoil his son too much, but also reminds his wife.

Although the two are far from being old, this child is also very difficult, and this difficulty may also make his wife spoil the child too much, so he has to get vaccinated first.

"Actually, I don't mean that I have to think that my children will have to inherit my career in the future, be a high-ranking official, guide the country and promote words, or have to win the Nobel Prize or be a big family or something. It still depends on what he likes to do and what kind of opportunities he has. In short, as long as he contributes to society and can do what he likes and live happily, I will be satisfied, and this must first have a healthy personality, a healthy character, and then I can talk about other ......."

Lu Zhengdong really didn't have the idea of forcing his son to follow his path, and his career was actually a very difficult road.

Lu Zhengdong once saw a letter written by an executed corrupt official to his child who wanted to join the team during a warning education.

The first rule in the letter is that if you really want to go on a career path, don't explore things as they are, this kind of thing should be done by intellectuals, and if you want to take a career path, you must keep in mind this creed: what is good for you is correct. I really can't grasp it, but it can be simplified to: what the superior leader advocates is correct.

We must learn to tell lies, and we must be good at telling lies. It is necessary to take telling lies as a habit, no, as a career, and when it comes to Cheng Dù, who also believes in himself. Prostitutes and officials are the most similar professions, but being an official betrays your mouth, and after becoming an official, your mouth does not only belong to you, what you say should be as needed.

You have to have a diploma, but don't really have knowledge, because having real knowledge will make your career more difficult.

In the true sense of knowledge, it means being able to think independently, and independent thinking is a taboo in politics. Don't look at the current leaders are all masters and doctors, that's all fake. Some people go to the civil service after graduating with a doctorate, but they have not wanted to study since the day they were studying, and they definitely do not know how to learn. Remember, a Ph.D. who is truly an academic person will never be able to become an official.

What is the purpose of a career path?

Some people say that some people say that politics is to save the country and the people, and to realize their political ambitions, but this is just an ideal, if you want to reach that height, you still have to climb up step by step, and in this, interests are extremely critical, your leader promotes you because you can bring benefits to him; Your subordinate obeys you because you can bring him benefits; Your colleagues and friends around you take care of you because you can bring them benefits. These interests can be political interests, or economic interests, in short, there must be, for example, if the leader wants to make achievements, you have to find a way to make him make great achievements, for example, the leader is not rich, you have to solve problems for it, or both, you can do these things yourself, but you must give other people's, if you can't do this, you will not be far from failure, and if you don't grasp it well, then the result is the same as his end is either to the guillotine or to prison.

You must put being a person first, and then you must be able to do things.

Being a person and doing things here does not mean having both ability and political integrity. The person mentioned here is to be in a relationship. Doing things is actually work, and that's secondary. To be human is to weave oneself as a dot into a net of up, down, left and right, and to be a part of this net. Remember, when we talk about who is strong in work, we generally do not mean that he is strong in doing things, but in terms of being a good person. Hehe, those who understand ability as doing things, it's strange to have a good life.

The world seems to be becoming more and more developed and progressive, but in fact it is further reduced to a peasant society, which is characterized by short-sightedness and attention to immediate interests. This is true all over the world, even in the United States, which claims to be the number one world power, and the president of the United States is elected every four years to be elected. Then we have to come up with something that can make the people really care. The incumbent also had to make immediate results in these aspects. Otherwise, not only will there be no chance of being re-elected, but it will be very difficult for the party to which it belongs to not even have a chance to win the presidency in the next few terms, so the way and method of doing things must have the characteristics of peasants, and it is necessary to engage in short-term benefits and be short-sighted. Once you look far, it's over,

It is necessary to take the horse's fart as a profound knowledge, and don't think that the horse's fart only needs to be open-faced. There are many women who can go out, but there are very few who can buy a lot of money or sell themselves at a good price, and most of them are low-level escort ladies. It's the same thing as slapping the horse. The purpose of patting a horse is to get the appreciation of the superiors. In reality, the appreciation of superiors is the most convenient way to progress, which is crucial.

All laws, regulations, policies and systems are not strictly observed, to be precise, they can be implemented flexibly.

The formulators of laws, regulations, policies and systems never thought of using these to restrain themselves, but wanted to restrain others. But these are not things that everyone can violate. When to resolutely comply, when to secretly violate, and who to let violate, it is up to the situation to be decided. Otherwise, leniency and severity are wrong, which is called grasping proportion. This is not a good measure. It is also the fate of the prisoners.

If any of the above can't be done or can't be done well, it is better to die as soon as possible......

This is not so much a letter as the inner monologue of a corrupt official, and it is a living modern officialdom thick black science, although due to the distortion of his outlook on life and worldview, some of this statement is biased, but it still reveals a lot of things.

Therefore, Lu Zhengdong will not force his children to take this road, this is not only his idea, it should be the idea of many people who have experienced the career from ancient times to the present, the career is sinister, if the child does not have the ability to reluctantly enter the career, it is not for his good, but for him......

Xue Yu looked at Lu Zhengdong's strict appearance and couldn't help but laugh:

"You, you can think far enough, the child hasn't been born yet, and you see that the lower abdomen hasn't changed yet."

Lu Zhengdong couldn't help but laugh dumbly, there is a way to care about chaos, he not only thought of this, but also wanted to wait for the child to be born after the child took Xue Yu and the child to the place of work, and then took the mother over, so that the family is happy together, home, that's what it means, this feeling is very wonderful, so he doesn't know how to be good, but with an indescribable sense of happiness, he is very happy and satisfied when he thinks about it, and this feeling of happiness is given to him by this little woman.

Lu Zhengdong suddenly felt extremely grateful to Xue Yu, grateful to this person for giving him a different life experience and letting him know so many different experiences.

It's just that some things do come too early.

Lu Zhengdong would take Xueyu to Beihu now, but this idea would be unanimously opposed by other family members unless they agreed to it, so Lu Zhengdong also stopped thinking about it.

"It's not exactly that there are no changes, like here, the changes are not small."

Lu Zhengdong also laughed, his hand groping on his lower abdomen reached up, gently held the pair of breasts that had swelled a lot, pinched, and twisted the buds that were a little erect.

Xue Yu couldn't hold back any longer, gently patted her husband's clutches, and said angrily:

"These are normal changes, and I asked the doctor, and it's in preparation for breastfeeding in the future."

Lu Zhengdong looked at the snow jade in front of him, and sighed a little, time rushed back then, and the bright girl who followed Zhou Yuning to Long Beach seemed to have been separated for a long time, and it seemed that she was about to become a mother inadvertently.

This kind of charm needs years to be carefully crafted, and the external beauty is restrained, and the elegant and natural inner is exuded.

Lu Zhengdong smiled: I heard that when you are pregnant with a child, your appetite will change, and some pregnant people will not be able to eat and vomit a lot, so you should pay attention. There are also people who become lazy after pregnancy, you can't stay at home all day, you still have to move around more, so that you don't have to bud at home, which is also good for the development of children. ”

Lu Zhengdong didn't know about these at all, and these were what he found on the Internet last night.

Xue Yu's heart is also warm, but what makes her a little unbearable is that Lu Zhengdong's magic hand is raging on her chest, Xue Yu also read some introductions brought back from the hospital, pregnant people have two extremes in lust, one is to become particularly sensitive, and lust also becomes stronger. Others have become extraordinarily cold. I don't think much about this kind of thing.

And she clearly belongs to the former. I was a little sad to be touched by him, my beautiful eyes were looking forward to it, I smiled lightly, hugged my husband tightly, and said:

"What are you going to do? Now that the baby is still unstable, do you still want to mess around? ”

The doctor specially explained that she should avoid sexual intercourse for the first three months, and her mother directly ordered to endure it for ten months last night, and her mother's righteous words made her a little embarrassed.

The snow jade dress is ankle-length. The beige skirt is printed with large plain flowers, the skirt is very wide, obviously a newly bought maternity dress, but such a wide and more protruding petite waist, under the swaying long skirt, the slender leg line looms, Lu Zhengdong had to sigh, at this time Xue Yu is far more tempting than usual, Lu Zhengdong provoked her round lower jaw, looking at the slightly trembling soft red lips.

Xue Yu's feeble fingers pushed her away weakly. She was flustered, as if expecting. I felt a little frightened, as if I couldn't stand his hot eyes, his body trembled, his soft pink lips were tightly closed, and his long eyelashes covered his half-open and half-closed eyes. made him feel a little nervous in his heart, so he whispered in Xue Yu's ear......

Xue Yu couldn't help but snort softly when she saw him like that:

"You, you...... You look like a governor, you're a pervert! That's all I have to think about! ”

"Hmph, the governor is also a human being, with the same seven emotions and six desires, and the same emotional life."

Lu Zhengdong not only said sternly, but also held Xueyu's hand under him, so that she could feel her high-spirited desire.

As soon as Xue Yu's hand touched the fiery spirit, she instantly wanted to withdraw her hand, but she didn't want to be held by Lu Zhengdong, and directly held the thing that made her heart shake a little.

Xue Yu only felt his gaze make his whole body hot, and a warm current flowed in his body, as if to melt her, and only the sound of his own violently beating heartbeat was heard in his ears, but the helpless tone seemed to be tempting to sin.

And Xue Yu also felt that her husband was quite pitiful to endure it like this, and it wouldn't hurt the baby, so it was half a push, but this kind of technical work, Xue Yu has always rarely done it.

was once taken by Lu Zhengdong to do it once, and he was not very skilled.

However, it was this kind of action with a jerky taste that made Lu Zhengdong feel even more uncontrollable.

And Lu Zhengdong smelled a sultry fragrance in his nose that was lighter and more elegant than any perfume, his arm carefully wrapped around her back, his palm stroked the back of her nervously tense neck, and landed on the soft waist, gently using the ground, snorting, the gentle and greasy nasal voice with a humming sound, as if refusing, and seemed to be pandering.

Soon, Lu Zhengdong's gasping became thicker, and he directly hooked Xue Yu's neck, pulled her into his arms, and kissed her fiercely.

Between the entanglement of lips and tongue, his hands began to move back and forth on Xue Yu's body, and because of the pregnancy, Xue Yu's chest became extremely full, which made Lu Zhengdong feel particularly wonderful.

While kneading the full softness, while feeling the tender little hands teasing his desire under him, Lu Zhengdong was immersed in this different kind of pleasure.

"Are you alright?"

Xue Yu didn't know how long it had been, anyway, she felt a little sore in her hands, but since it had already started, she couldn't give up halfway, but seeing Lu Zhengdong's useful appearance, Xue Yu was also a little "angry" in her heart, biting his earlobe, and whispering:

"You're really bad enough, everyone is like this and bullying me."

She was like a little girl with a little temper. Lai didn't move beside his body, no longer continuing to land what Jungdong expected her to do, but his teeth touched his soft earlobes lightly or heavily, and let out a dissatisfied grunt.

Lu Zhengdong grabbed her waist. Turned his face to look at her. The white jade skin on his neck was dyed a delicate crimson. Zhang's flushed beautiful face is close at hand. The eyelids under the slightly fluttering eyelashes are half-open and half-closed. Tiny beads of sweat stuck to the wings of her nose. A sweet scent emanates from the moist lips. He looked at her silently, and the affection in his eyes that was no longer hidden made her lost.

Xue Yu leaned over. He choked on the soft flap of his lips. She let out a long moan.

Lu Zhengdong's fingers contain a magic that makes people restless. She writhed her body uneasily, and even more so that the plump was squeezed out of various shapes, as if it was about to flow out of her body.

Because of that refreshing feeling. Her nose was humming unbearably, and it was moving. Even Xue Yu, who hears her own voice, can feel the strong flavor contained in this sound. made her body even hotter.

As she felt the swelling become more and more obvious, the dizzying heat burning her skin, and her body exuded an alluring scent. Attracted to him and her......

"No...... I don't want ......"

Xue Yu knew what Lu Zhengdong wanted to do, but before her words fell, she seemed to swallow back, her body trembled, as if she was going to faint, she felt Lu Zhengdong's hot lips on her earlobe, his lips clamped her soft earlobe, a little moist breath was the tip of his tongue, he licked it gently, the wonderful touch came like a tide, wave after wave, wave after wave, she was powerless to struggle, and she didn't want to struggle, her eyes were closed, and she snuggled up to him weakly, the heat seemed to melt her, And her hands moved faster and faster......

Looking at the lazy and weak Xue Yu lying on the bed, although she didn't do strenuous exercise, it also made both of them feel ecstatic...... (To be continued......)