After a while, Yongcongliu came back to his senses and sneered in disbelief: "Don't be alarmist here!" Our Xia Yue is not only beautiful, but also has good academic performance, and has won all kinds of awards! She is so good, how could she possibly jump off a building? ”

Luo Yun shook his head and said, "It is precisely because she is excellent that the pressure on her body is far greater than that of ordinary people!" As parents, instead of helping her relieve her stress, you are constantly increasing her stress and fear. To be honest, Xia Yue has been able to hold on for so many years without being crushed, and her psychological endurance is very strong! If you don't believe me, you can call the school and ask, all the teachers and students in the school saw the scene of Xia Yue jumping off the building, and I didn't make it up. ”

Yongcongliu hesitated a little, turned his head and asked Xia Yue: "Good daughter, tell Mom, this kid is lying, right?" ”

Xia Yue replied: "Mom, Luo Yun didn't lie, what he said is true, I did skip the building today......"

Xia Shiji walked up at this time and said with a solemn expression: "I just asked Xia Yue's homeroom teacher, and what Luo Yun said is true!" ”

Then, he nodded at Luo Yun again: "Thank you for saving Xia Yue." ”

Luo Yun smiled and said, "No thanks, Xia Yue is my classmate, she is in danger, of course I can't sit idly by!" ”

"What...... What? ”

Yongcongliu believed that it was true, she looked at Xia Yue, and her body trembled uncontrollably.

It's a mixture of anger, fear, and nervousness.

"Are you really going to jump off a building? How can you jump off a building? I worked so hard to raise you to such a big age, is this how you are angry with me? Okay, good, you're going to jump off a building, right? You want to die, don't you? I satisfy you, I'll kill you now, and then I'll die too! ”

Yong Congliu, who was furious, raised his hand to smoke Xia Yue.

"Don't!" Xia Shiji wanted to stop it, but unfortunately it was too late.

But Yongcongliu's hand failed to fall on Xia Yue, and Luo Yun blocked her in time.

Yongcongliu was angry at this time, and shouted: "Get out of the way!" I'm her mother, it's a matter of course for me to teach her, and it's not your turn to be an outsider to intervene! ”

Luo Yun didn't give an inch, and while protecting Xia Yue, he said: "I'm sorry Auntie, Xia Yue's life was saved by me, I don't want the person I managed to save be forced to death in the blink of an eye!" ”

His voice is not loud, but it has a special momentum, which makes people involuntarily listen to his words.

Even Yong Congliu, who is in a state of anger and has no good impression of him, is the same.

This is exactly the "Xuanyuan Tablet Records of the Thirteen Secret Records", a means of soothing manic and withdrawn patients, called [Tongue Canlian Lotus, Do Not Order]. This technique can make people involuntarily pay attention to the words and deeds of the caster, to listen, to think, and finally to believe the words of the caster.

In contrast, this trick is somewhat similar to the verbal enlightenment in psychotherapy, but the effect is better and more magical!

After hearing this, Yongcongliu was first shocked, and then defended himself: "What nonsense are you talking about?!" I'm a! Everything I do, it's for her good! I am teaching her a lesson now, so that she will not dare to jump off the building again in the future, how can she be forced to die. ”

Luo Yun shook his head: "Auntie, you are wrong. The things you did were just what you thought was good for Xia Yue, but it wasn't really good for her! ”

"You made her study hard and study hard every day, and even deprived her of all hobbies, so that she spent every day in the test papers and textbooks! Have you ever considered how much stress this is causing her and how she is going to vent it? No! ”

Yong Congliu opened his mouth and wanted to refute, but found that he had no way to refute at all.

The same is true of Xia Shiji, who was standing beside her.

They were shocked to find that things were really as Luo Yun said, they had always only asked Xia Yue to study, and deprived her of all her hobbies on the grounds of the college entrance examination, but they didn't think about whether Xia Yue was under pressure and how to vent these pressures......

There was some panic on their faces.

Luo Yun's words continued.

"Xia Yue participated in various competitions, won awards, and came back to report the good news to you, have you ever praised her? No! ”

"You just keep a straight face, let her not be proud, let her continue to work hard to win bigger prizes! You did this to prevent her from being pampered, but you also poured a basin of cold water on her head, and poured her cold heart! ”

"If I'm not mistaken, Xia Yue is now reporting to you what award she won, her attitude should be very calm, and there is no excitement and joy at all, right? Because she's already discouraged! She feels that she will never be able to satisfy you, let alone make you proud of her. ”

Yongcongliu and Xia Shiji did not say anything.

They originally thought that Xia Yue's change in attitude towards winning awards was due to her maturity. Now after listening to Luo Yun's words, they suddenly woke up. It turns out that Xia Yue is not mature, but her heart is dead!

Mourning is greater than heart death!

But they let their daughter's heart die!

This...... How much damage does it have to be?!

However, Luo Yun's words were not over, he continued to speak, and talked a lot.

He didn't advise Yongcongliu and Xia Shiji how to treat Xia Yue, but just told them how much pressure their various actions had caused Xia Yue, and how much fear and despair Xia Yue had!

These words were like sharp blades that stabbed into the chests of Yongcongliu and Xia Shiji.

They panicked, then heartbroken, and finally at a loss.

"It turns out that what we have done over the years...... Is it all wrong? Yong Congliu whispered, his eyes confused.

Xia Shiji is also thinking about this problem.

They recalled that in the past few years, all kinds of requirements for Xia Yue seemed to be really as Luo Yun said, just blindly adding burdens and pressure to Xia Yue, but they never considered whether these burdens and pressures would crush Xia Yue! I never thought about how to help Xia Yue decompress!

There are limits to what people can endure, but they never think about these issues. Even if their daughter has achieved good results and won major awards, they rarely praise them......

Yongcongliu and Xia Shiji glanced at each other, their expressions were very embarrassed, because they didn't remember the last time they praised Xia Yue.

Perhaps, when she was in junior high school? Or even elementary school?

Anyway, it was many years ago!

From this point of view, they are really not good parents.

Not even a qualified parent!

They only knew that they blindly demanded strict requirements for Xia Yue, but they forgot that Zhang Chi had a way. Xia Yue is like a rubber band that is constantly stretched, it will be crushed, and it is not surprising that she will choose to jump off the building and commit suicide!

Sometimes, excessive love and expectation can hurt people more than anything else!