Chapter 212: The Way of the Husband
The first milestone event in the history of mankind to achieve equality between men and women on a real scale occurred after 1949, accompanied by the slogan "Women can hold up half the sky", and its significance has been ignored by all Western circles who have the right to speak in the world, so that modern women in their own countries are rarely grateful to the elderly who promoted this event.
In countries where women cannot even guarantee the right to a name, and in countries where they have to bear their husband's surname after marriage, both men and women talk about democracy and freedom, presenting a subtle, ridiculous, and absurd feeling, and they seem to be deceiving themselves.
The promulgation of the Marriage Law in 1950 was the last great and profound revolution in the marriage and family system in thousands of years, and it already contained the main spirit of the articles that have been revised many times since then.
The article was not long, and Shangguan Tang didn't read it quickly, but he read it quickly, and then gently put down his phone.
Su Nanxiu and Qin Yanan didn't bother her to check, but they just looked at each other from time to time, and there were inscrutable emotions and meanings in each other's eyes.
"Good. Shangguan Tang nodded, and then looked at Su Nanxiu with a little confusion, "But what does this have to do with you as a Taiwanese?"
Qin Yanan covered her mouth and chuckled, she couldn't imagine that Shangguan Tangtang actually knew that even if she didn't talk about the real situation, even if the two places were truly unified, the application of the law would be a problem. Obviously, this is the empress dowager two thousand years ago, how did Qin Yanan know that Liu Changan gave many nights of political and history lessons to Shangguan Tang.
"We are talking about a reason, not a question of the application of the law. "Su Nanxiu was a little puzzled, what kind of character is this Shangguan Tangtang? Qin Yanan's origin and identity naturally know, but Qin Yanan obviously saw Shangguan Tang's appearance again just now, and he didn't have a chance to communicate with Shangguan Tang. Could it be that Liu Changan informed him in advance? This may be true.
"You also know that it is a matter of reasoning, not of the application of the law. Shangguan raised his eyebrows slightly, and the girl's already crisp voice became more and more sharp, but it was not hysterical, but full of majesty, with a dignified momentum of reprimand, "I ask you how to understand the way of the husband, what you want is a heartfelt and reasonable word, why do you need to talk about the provisions of the law." ”
After speaking, Shangguan Tang ignored Su Nanxiu's words, his face was ugly, and he turned his head to look at Qin Yanan.
Qin Yanan knew that Shangguan was asking her to talk about "the way of the husband".
In fact, Su Nanxiu has at least experienced the poison of feudal dross, but Qin Yanan really grew up under the red flag, and his views on the relationship between husband and wife are different from those of Su Nanxiu, and it is impossible to have the same concept as Shangguan Tang.
But there are things that will involuntarily affect some people who are willing to accept them in the tradition.
"I used to like He Zhu's "Half Dead Tong, Heavy Over the Gate". In my personal opinion, among the four major eulogy speeches of Pan Yue's "Mourning" and Yuan Zhen's "Sorrowful Sorrow", Su Shi's "Jiangchengzi Yimao Dream on the Twentieth Day and Night of the First Month" and He Zhu's "Half Dead Tong, Heavy Passing the Gate of Everything", my favorite is He Zhu's one. ”
Qin Yanan's tone was softened, and she said the eulogy, but the corners of her mouth were slightly upturned, and she had her own experience, and that mood naturally interpreted the artistic conception in the words, making her temperament become like a lonely moon at night.
"Everything is wrong with the door, and everything is different from what comes from the same. After the sycamore was half dead and the frost was cleared, the white mandarin duck lost its companion and flew. The grass on the plain, the dew is at the beginning of the day, and the old habitat and the new ridge are clinging to each other. Lying in the empty bed listening to the rain in the south window, who picks up the light and mends clothes at night...... Lying on the empty bed and listening to the rain in the south window, who will pick up the lamp and mend the clothes at night......" Qin Yanan recited this well-known eulogy softly, as if he was caught in the scene, "Who re-picks up the lamp and mends the clothes at night?" is probably this sentence, in fact, the whole book "Six Tales of Floating Life" is just the story of this sentence. ”
"Qin Yanan, you really do what you like. Su Nanxiu sneered and showed admiration, Ye Sijin liked Ye Chenyu so much at the beginning, let him be a treasure, today in front of Shangguan Tang, this ability to figure out his mind is not bad at all.
"You're mistaken. Qin Yanan smiled faintly and shook his head, "I don't mean that I agree that women should be virtuous and virtuous, virtuous and virtuous, and serve men at home." It's just that the way of husband and wife is the way of husband and wife after all, not that getting each other is the result, but that two people must live as an indispensable part of each other after all, it is his habit of life, and it is his unforgettable scenery...... Let him not dare to imagine the days without you, so that he will have an empty bed to listen to the rain in the south window, who will pick up the lamp and mend the sigh of the night...... There is a sigh because of the pain of love, not rejoicing, that evil woman is finally gone. ”
Saying that, Qin Yanan glanced at Su Nanxiu, with a slight contempt in his expression, "To be the most suitable woman to live with in his eyes is the way I understand to be a husband." ”
Shangguan Tang's eyes showed approval, and he nodded with affection...... Of course, this is a posture that must be revealed as the true master of the harem as the queen who is still above the queen and can compete with the emperor...... How can she deeply understand the way of a husband, how can she have so many feelings, this song "Half Dead Tong, Heavy Over the Gate of Everything" has a unique charm.
Qin Yanan pursed his lips and smiled silently, adding some hot water to Shangguan Tang's cup.
"In order to please her, you haven't had anything to do with Liu Changan, so you cursed yourself to death first. Qin Yanan, you are really ruthless. Su Nanxiu took two steps back with shame, and looked at Shangguan Tang with a sneer, "I know that you have an extraordinary background, can you give me an answer, who are you, and why are you interfering in the affairs between us?"
"I told you, I'm his mom. Shangguan showed a gentle smile when he thought of his son.
"You look like his mother?" No matter how elegant and noble Shangguan Tangtang's temperament is when he is quiet, and how obvious the commanding grandeur is in his words, the immaturity of that kind of girl will still be revealed from time to time, and it is impossible for Su Nanxiu not to see it.
"It's hard for you to think that you are an old woman in her hundreds?" Qin Yanan said with a smile.
"If I were an old woman, Ye Sijin, so would you. Su Nanxiu sneered at Qin Yanan, who was completely unself-aware.
"I'm Qin Yanan, twenty-five this year. Qin Yanan suppressed her thoughts and couldn't lose the scene, although she couldn't wait to ask Liu Changan face to face.
"I'm Sunan Xiu, and I'm fourteen years old. Sunan said without changing his face.
Shangguan Tang looked at Sunan Xiu, then at Qin Yanan, opened his mouth, and his gaze fell on the crack of the door in the living room.
"Hello...... At night...... Did you eat at night...... I'll do it for you...... Make a supper......" Zhou Shuling was discovered, and pushed open the door tremblingly and walked in, feeling that the air conditioning in the living room was too much, and couldn't help hugging her arms.
"What did you hear?" Sunan Xiu frowned and opened her palm.
"I don't understand what you're talking about...... Zhou Shuling was startled, how could this little girl in front of her be as fierce as a ghost, for fear of being killed, she ran to Qin Yanan's side, "Miss Qin, I really understand what you said, I am Qin Yanan, and I am twenty-five years old this year......
Except for this sentence, the other words before it are simply like a fantasy.
"It's fine. Qin Yanan patted Zhou Shuling's back and looked left and right, "Hey, where is Zhou Dongdong?"
"Do your homework at home. ”
"When did she go back?" Qin Yanan glanced back at Shangguan Tang, Shangguan Tangtang shook his head, and didn't notice it at all.
"How do I know?" Finding that Qin Yanan looked at herself again, Su Nanxiu said impatiently, how could she pay attention to a stupid and stupid child.
"We were talking about the way of the husband just now, that is, the topic of how wives should treat their husbands, what do you think?" Shangguan said to Zhou Shuling.
"Isn't that it...... What do I want him to eat, what can I do for him, how can I treat it? I can't be a bodhisattva, hehe......" Zhou Shuling has so many feelings, she didn't understand what they said at all when she eavesdropped just now, but Miss Qin is really amazing, and she recited poetry with emotion, if only Zhou Dongdong could memorize such a long poem.
Zhou Shuling looked at Shangguan after speaking, she only felt cold on her back now, and she just wanted to leave here quickly, the atmosphere in this room was like the two armies had not yet been launched, and hundreds of thousands of people would die in the confrontation at any time, but she didn't know whether she was alive or dead, and she had to walk quietly through the middle of the confrontation between the two armies.
"Let's all go back, next time you make an appointment with him to talk to him in person, I'm going to rest." Shangguan said with some satisfaction, he helped him discipline these jealous women, presumably he would definitely understand her hard work, and feel the selfless maternal love after returning to her arms with gratitude, and realized that women in this world only know how to fight for the wind and be jealous, only his mother can understand that he is most tired of this matter, and only his mother's arms do not have so many intrigues and bullshit.
Gentle.
Kind.
Serenity.
Peace.
This is Shangguan Tang's mind, Shangguan Tangtang can't help but look forward to standing on the bed, he stands on the edge of the bed and leans on his arms, and she caresses the scene of his mother and son on his head with a warm face.
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