Daojun said that to look at the flowers, it is to "see the flowers" and "go", and enter this love world.

If she just looks at the flowers and doesn't get into her heart, she can't be in the desire, her Dao heart will not sink, and the hidden problems in her Dao heart will not be fully revealed.

Although she has not yet realized how to sink and sober herself, it is dangerous, and if the Lingtai completely blinds the Genshin she may be banished in the color. She wanted to be destroyed until she was destroyed, but she resolutely made a decision.

Perhaps this "resolute" was also colored. The influence of Lust Heaven was impulsive and uncontrollable for Shen Qingyi, but her Qingming Lingtai could be sure that seventy percent of this decision was made from her own calm will, and that was enough. She wants to be affectionate, but she also wants to break the color. If you want the sky, you can't be afraid.

She decided that there would be no hesitation, and she flipped the lock, and opened the letterbox, which was almost full of letters, and she had taken them out one by one in the study and put them back one by one, and she was as angry as a thin blade, and opened the letter.

The letter paper is a poem, the familiar light cyan plum paper, elegant and quiet, the handwriting is clear and thin, is her familiar font, once praised "plum bone clear standard, thin and handsome"...... Her heart is slightly astringent, and the plum bone Qingbiao in front of her has lost the agility and speed of the pen, but is stagnant and obscure, just like the soft intestines in the heart of the author, and the pen will lose its smoothness.

She looked at them one by one, and sometimes her eyes would stop there, looking at them in a daze, with a mixture of joy and sorrow in her eyes, and she was obsessed for a long time before she continued to look at it again......

The handwriting on the poem is sometimes scribbled, and it can be seen that the mood when the pen is messy, waking up from the dream and getting up, opening the pen and scribbling, the mood is confused, "The warbler cries cold wine and wakes up, and the dream is empty." is affectionate and hateless, but I am afraid that her heart is not the same. ”

…… Sometimes the pen is stagnant, thinking that it is choking in the chest, and the thoughts are tossing and turning, "wandering and wandering, and the lonely shadow is still a few times." ……”

…… Sometimes the pen power is implicated, revealing the affection of soft and long, lingering and compassionate, "the rose is red and faint through the rain, and the beads are in full swing, and the east wind blows and the lotus silk is connected." When she saw me, she knew that I was lovesick. ”

…… Sometimes the pen is intermittent, full of worry and apprehension," ...... The road is long and obstructive, and you know it? ”

…… Sometimes the brushwork is dry and sparse, "the north wind hunts the old mountains, and the thousands of flowers are withered." Who distinguishes the qi to the cold plum, and waits for Qinghao alone. "One" who shares, one "treats", inadvertently reveals vulnerability. Xiao Yan felt a pain in her heart, she used to be Aoxue Ling Frost Branch, and the snow was even more beautiful, so why should anyone share her clear air and treat Qinghao! She should be Hanmei Qingfang Zhao Qinghao.

There are a few marks on another note, and in the lines of the poem, "I can't make a sentence, and suddenly my tears are wet." Xiao Yan's heart ached suddenly.

Suddenly got up and let out a whistling.

The whistling sound shook the sea of azaleas, and it was like a flame burning, burning her eyes and heart.

She had read all the letters, and she remembered all the words, line by line, and que into clear waves in the sea of knowledge, wave after wave, wave after wave.

She swept down the flying goose stone and fell into the sea of flowers, her expression was in a trance, wandering in the sea of rhododendrons, and when she saw the wildfire red all over her, she felt that Shen Qingyi's affection was burning.

The mountain wind is urgent, and the pieces are flying red, swinging away with the wind, and falling again. Her eyes were stunned, and she caught a petal, soft as a heart, and the red was also ecstasy.

Acacia when the flowers bloom, ecstasy when the flowers fall.

Spring goes to autumn, four o'clock lovesickness and four o'clock injury.

When spring comes, "the smoke is blue under the distant mountain peaks, and the fine stamens of the forest tops are jagged and fragrant." I saw the peach falling under the green mulberry branches, and looked back at the green clouds and empty intestines. ”……

Summer is coming to an end, "the pomegranate-scented old courtyard branches are low." The rain has sparse begonias. The hibiscus face is thin, the lotus seeds are bitter, and the willow leaves are drooping. ...... "Sauvignon Blanc is sad during the day, and it is more erotic at night."

In the depths of autumn, the maple leaves are red like the glow, "how to get the smoke and haze path, and return to the east to travel to the mountains and rivers." Xiao Xiao looked at the forest at night, and sat lonely in the Mid-Autumn Festival. ”……

On a cold winter day, the wind is cold, "the thin cypress of Nanshan is still green, and the pillow is fragrant when the cold moon is on." The west wind broke the snow again, and the night was bright before the acacia. ”

Love can't help people, and deep love is like tarsal poison, which makes people unable to get out, can't leave, and loses their minds.

Xiao Yan also lost his mind completely, his expression was happy and sad, and he knew that the words and sentences in the sea were like waves, wave after wave, and the tide poured out one picture after another.

——On the moonlit night of the spring mountain stream, a pear tree is white, she walks under the stream tree, the flowers fall before the fragrance, and she can't help but be amazed, "It's a pity that a stream of wind and moon, the pear blossom fragrance is sad." "On such a spring and moonlit night, I pity you and me.

——The summer is sunny, and the lotus is red, she stretched out her hand and paused, "There are no wings in the body, and there are concentric knots in the air." How can it be picked with, and the phase is in the clouds. ”

——The night was stormy, she got up in her clothes, and listened to the sad sound of the raindrops knocking on the window, "The people outside the window are in the banana window, and the sound of leaves and leaves is dripping in my heart." The jade furnace is fragrant and cold with a lonely lamp, and lovesickness only knows each other in dreams. ”

——Chongyang Day, climb high to see the chrysanthemum, but it is "all over the mountains and chrysanthemums are lazy into the eyes", and the wine is more drunk when you are sad, "the flowers are red all over the mountain, not a drunk person." ”

——On Chinese New Year's Eve, the back garden steps on the snow to find plums, the wind and snow fall plums, and the eyes stand upright, "The snow falls thin, and the fragrance is far away." With a few more meanings, the phase is folded plum people. ”

She looked at Shen Qingyi, who was suddenly happy and worried, frowned and groaned, and suddenly burst into tears, and her heart was suddenly happy, sad, and painful...... I can't help but want to smooth her eyebrows, I can't help but want to hug her......

Her body is slender, light and soft in her arms, the fragrance of cold plum lingers, her eyes look at her, shallow ripples, such as the moonlit night of spring river flowers, pear blossoms are gently charming, gradually and brightly, like the blazing of roses blooming, burning tenderness, "Ayan." She whispered, her eyes were slightly closed, her lips were like carmine, like cherries, and roses......

Just when the lips of the two were about to connect, a crisp birdsong suddenly sounded over the sea of flowers, and the lotus flower in the center of the sea of knowledge was also a clear light, as if there was a clear sound of Sanskrit singing.

Xiao Yan suddenly sobered up, her eyes gradually regained their clarity, and she looked at the person in her arms, she called softly, sister, her heart was full of affection, surging into a tide, but she finally let go of her hand...... Shen Qingyi's figure turned into nothingness, shattered like light and shadow in his arms, and thousands of points of light fell into the sea of knowledge and turned into blue water again.

Xiao Yan's eyes were drooping, and there was still softness in her arms, it was so real, it was the affection in her heart, and there was desire when there was affection.

She is not afraid to sink into love. Desire, color. Lust is also tempting her to sink.

But there is a warning on the spiritual platform, which is a wake-up call from the depths of the soul, indicating that there must be something that you should know.

…… If you just kiss it, you may really sink.

She looked at the letter box in her hand, and clutched it tightly when she was in the most trance, and five finger prints had already been made on the solid red sandalwood, as if to show that her affection for Shen Qingyi had been stamped on her heart.

She held the letter box to her chest, lowered her eyes and called out to her sister, and with her eyes closed, she lay down among the azaleas, as if she were about to sleep in the burning sea of flowers.

In the Purple Mansion, above the surging clear waves of the sea of knowledge, a figure gradually condensed, revealing Xiao Yan's eyebrows, eyes and facial features, his expression was quiet, and his eyes were clear.

This is the embodiment of her consciousness, that is, Xiao Yan's self.

She sat cross-legged on the lotus platform in the sea of knowledge, holding the treasure bottle seal with both hands, and whispered: "All laws come from the heart, and the Dharma realm should be contemplated, and all hearts are created." ”

Knowing the sea and the waves rumbled, a wall of waves was raised, and in front of her, thousands of water droplets splashed from the waves, turning into countless points of light, full of colors, constituting a lifelike mirage.

This is the memory of her deep heart, from the first time she and Shen Qingyi met, the scenes of getting along, time is heavy.

Xiao Yan is divided into body and mind, and enters a mirage with his body, constituting Xiao Yan in time, experiencing the past; The mind sits and forgets to see, departs from the form to know, clarifies the seven emotions and six desires and what he sees, enters the realm of emptiness, returns to the void, sees the consciousness that he has not seen before, and examines his feelings for Shen Qingyi.

Time flies, a mirage for a year.

This day is a history class, Shen Qingyi finished talking about Gaozong Shizong to Muzong, said that the rule of Yonghui must mention Yuan Bai, Yuan Weizhi Bingzheng sharp, Bai Lotian Bude is righteous, is the achievement of Yonghui rule of law of the two major ministers, tea break Xiao Yan said Yuan Weizhi, said Yuan Xianggong's poems are affectionate, affectionate and graceful, completely unthinkable of governing the power of the sword, it can be seen that writing poetry and governing the government are two brains, governing the government to be rational, writing poetry to be emotional, the heart to be affectionate to have touching sentences, such as Yuan Xianggong's "once the sea is difficult for water, except for Wushan is not a cloud", It is an affectionate portrayal of Yuan Xianggong, who only loves his wife all his life and will never swerving.

Shen Qingyi snorted coldly with the teacup, his voice was cold and cold, "Wei Xiaolu was married to him for seven years, gave birth to five sons and one daughter, and died of illness. ”

"Huh?" Xiao Yan's eyes widened, and his face was stunned.

In "Tang Xinyu Yan Couple", there is a loving couple of Yuan Weizhi and Wei Cong, among which there is Wei Cong's fine law and hired the school lawyer, so it is called Wei school law. Xiao Yan was shocked: Seven years, giving birth to six children?

She hadn't read Yuan Weizhi's biography yet, and she didn't know that he and Wei Cong had so many children...... Thinking that Wei Xiaolu is a fertile physique, then this "disease" death is too frequent childbirth and a loss of body? …… But why do we have children so often?

The men's contraceptive pills developed by the Tai Medical Department have been quite perfect, and women taking the pills too often will still cause uterine cold, but men do not have this disadvantage, although they will have the problem of weak sperm if they take too much in the short term, but with the addition of Peiyuan Qiang Jing Pills, the bed will be suspended for a period of time, and reproduction will not be hindered. The husband and wife can also take turns with contraception, how can Wei Xiaolu get pregnant every year?

Shen Qingyi's eyebrows twitched slightly, "Yuan Xianggong's father has the same sex. Lovers, as the eldest to inherit the heir, reluctantly married and gave birth to a son, they immediately reconciled, Yuan Xianggong was the only one in this room, and the people were thin. ”

"......" Xiao Yan slanted his eyebrows, and he didn't have the throne to inherit, nor did he have the main inheritance of the family, as for it? Besides, "Children and grandchildren are in the essence, not in the abundance." Even if Yuan Xianggong wants to prosper in this house, he doesn't need to give birth to so much, the problem is that he is still in such a hurry. ”

Shen Qingyi sighed lightly, saying that Wei Cong suffered from a terminal illness when he was young, but he had no qualifications to practice, and he could not cure the disease with his cultivation. At the time of his death, twenty-eight.

Xiao Yan couldn't help sighing.

I want to come to Wei Xiaolu and love Yuan Xianggong very much, so I want to give birth to more children for my lover before the end of my life. It's just that...... If Yuan Xianggong really loves his wife, how can he bear it? Don't you know that such childbirth will make your wife's life expectancy shorter?

"Wei Xiaolu has a somewhat stubborn temperament." Shen Qingyi raised his eyebrows again after explaining, and snorted coldly, "If Yuan Xianggong insists on disobeying, can Wei Xiaolu still be able to strengthen him on the couch?" ”

said and said: "Yuan Xianggong and Bai Xianggong are both famous in governance, and poetry is also famous, and the world is called ' Yuan Bai', but on the true nature of people, but it is Bai Xianggong on the top, in the past Bai Xianggong encountered a love affair, and then only talked about the romance, not to say affectionate; Yuan Xianggong was young and talented, and there were many happy people, regardless of what happened before marriage, and Wei Xiaolu was also loyal after marriage, but just after the filial piety period of Wei Xiaolu, he fell in love with a woman, and then there were several happy, but he has not been married, this is just the common feeling of the world, not to ask everyone to keep the same, just look back and look at the affectionate poems of mourning his deceased wife, 'except Wushan is not a cloud. Take the second flower bush lazy review', it makes people laugh - it's better not to do this affectionate state. Poetry is good poetry, but it's a pity that this love is not worthy. ”

Xiao Yan nodded, and said in the center.

Shen Qingyi said: "If you love deeply, you must first respect and refrain from it. If you can't even do this, how can you talk about affection? It's just more about yourself. ”

Shen Qingyi said that this branch of Yuan Weizhi has come out of the genealogy of the Luoyang Yuan clan, and it does not belong to the Luoyang Yuan clan according to the patriarchal law of the scholar clan; Wei Cong is the daughter of the head of the Wei family, and her talent is also excellent, the two are married equally, and the head of the Wei family takes a fancy to Yuan Weizhi's outstanding talent and political future, otherwise it will not be Yuan Weizhi's turn to get married.

Of course, Yuan Weizhi loves Wei Cong, loves her appearance, and loves her talent, but for him, this marriage has the meaning of marriage in addition to love: one is the official career, and the other is the family.

He is eager to revitalize his own branch, and according to the family's mechanism of "superior advance and inferior retreat", he has the opportunity to lead this branch to re-enter the Luoyang Yuan clan; But it is not that he can achieve it by being excellent alone, it depends on the potential of this one: the number of outstanding children. In order to achieve this goal, it is necessary to have more offspring, and the larger the base, of course, the better.

Wei Cong deeply understands her husband's desire, so she conceives children regardless of her body; Yuan Weizhi seems to respect his wife's intentions, but he values himself more and longs to achieve this goal in his lifetime.

"If it is true love, the first thing is to respect and refrain from ......"

——The mirage is frozen, and Shen Qingyi in the light curtain is frozen behind this passage.

Xiao Yan's body and mind are out of the mirage, and the body reappears on the lotus platform, which is Xiao Yan's self, but his face is expressionless, and there is no consciousness in his body, because his mind is forgetful, and he is separated from the body.

Cognitive thoughts and Xiao Yan's self began to have a dialogue and exchange, to be precise, cognitive thoughts play two roles, one is cognitive thoughts, and the other is self.

Cognitive Mind said: Shen Qingyi's true love and respect are not only what you knew before, but also respect for the personality and will of the lover, and there is also an important connotation, which is to respect the lover and the most important thing.

If you have your own selfish desires above your lovers, you love yourself more from the heart.

If the inheritance of the inheritance theory, no one is more important than the first scholar family, the head of the Li family of Longxi, the founder of the Tang Empire, Emperor Gaozong Li Yao needs more heirs - inherit the ancient imperial industry she created, but not everyone has the courage of this emperor, "only the only one, only one son, outstanding and outstanding", Li Yao's son Shizong is indeed outstanding, the emperor is excellent, and Zhiwen Dao is also a saint. The Tang elite highly respected this ancient emperor, but they did not dare to follow suit in terms of heirs, and still followed the security strategy of "the number of children is large, and the probability of producing excellent heirs is greater", and they did not dare to take risks.

People are afraid of being compared, excellent may be compared to not so good, originally a pearl may also be compared to a fish, compared with Emperor Gaozong, who loves the world and only cultivates an heir, Yuan Weizhi's "dare not take risks" makes him love his wife deep enough, so he did not dare to make the most courageous decision.

Cognitive thinking says: Most of the difficult things in the world have two perfections, and the key depends on two points: first, we must have a heart and have a heart to generate wisdom; Second, we must be courageous, and only with courage can we be determined. Together, they become faith and courage.

Yuan Weizhi wants to let this branch improve its potential and re-enter the Luoyang Yuan clan, not only to educate his own children. First, with his ability and prime minister's resources, he can cultivate and support the children and grandchildren of other houses, and this path is faster than having children by himself, after all, there is already a base there; Second, establish an excellent cultivation system to let your children and grandchildren continue to struggle.

Yuan Weizhi did not choose one or the other, one is unwilling to revitalize the glory of the other room; The second is that they are unwilling to be unable to achieve it in person.

In the final analysis, it is still "unwilling". What kind of heart is unwilling? Cognitive thinking says that obsessing with "self" places too much emphasis on one's own "self-grasping".

People live in the world, not messing around, there will always be goals, when goals and feelings conflict, will people sacrifice feelings for the sake of goals?

A lot of people will.

Cognitive Mind said that Yuan Weizhi would not choose to sacrifice feelings. But he "respected" his wife's intentions, that is, he acquiesced in his wife's choice. Achieving one's goals or his wife's lifespan, which is more important? When he acquiesced in his wife's sacrifice, he had already made a choice.

Cognition asks yourself: Your goal is the Great Dao, the pursuit of the Great Dao and Shen Qingyi, which is more important?

The self-answer of the embodiment of cognitive thoughts: Cultivation cannot deviate from the original heart, feelings are part of my original heart, the Tao can tolerate feelings, and feelings should also be integrated into the Tao.

Cognitive Mind asks: What are you hesitating about?

The "self" says: My love for her is not pure, not pure enough to be profound; I'm afraid that after she and I fall in love, she will be more affectionate, with her feelings to the extreme, if I fall before her, what will happen to her?

Life and death go hand in hand.

"Self" said: I firmly believe that the avenue can be long-term, and I also have the strength of this self-confidence, but I dare not say that I can go to the end of the avenue, the avenue has no end, and no one knows how far they can go. Practitioners are walking towards life, but they also have the courage to die towards life.

Cognition says, "You are afraid."

……

The figure on the lotus platform disappeared, and the body and mind entered a mirage again.

The freeze-frame light curtain flows again, and time continues to move forward in the mirage.

A scene passed. Another scene.

Half a month later, Xiao Yan went to Chenghe Academy to take classes. This day is the fourth brother's rest day, at noon she and her brother and sister-in-law had lunch, after a walk, together by the lake, Xiao Yan said that "Tang Xinyu" of the "Yan couple", which is the famous loving couple of the Tang Dynasty, of course, there are husbands, wives and wives. When the three of them walked back along the lake, they talked about the pair of Xun Pu, the prime minister of the Zhang Zong Dynasty, and Song Ruojing, the master of Hanlin.

The marriage of Xun and Song is also an interesting story, when Xun Pu Jinshi and the second, he was the second daughter of the Zuoqing family of the Ministry of Rites and the head of the Song family in Xicheng, Song's mother thought that his family was in distress, and there were not even a few servants and maids, but Song Ruojing said: "Poor and trivial, character is valuable." After Xun Pu learned about it, he said: "Those who have this saying, regardless of talent, first of all, character is valuable." That is, the letter was addressed to the parents, and the famous fathers came to the door to ask for marriage, and the two entered into an equal marriage.

After marriage, the husband and wife are very affectionate, Song Ruoxing's temper is a little anxious, and small things can get angry, Xun Pu is always tolerant and silent, and laughs when he responds to the ridicule of his colleagues in private: "Marriage is rice, eat more and talk less." Xun Pu has eaten this bowl of marriage for forty-five years, and Song Ruoxing's affection has remained unchanged for forty-five years.

Xiao Cong nodded and praised: "Xun Wenduan is loyal to the king, considerate of the country, benevolent to the people, sensitive to things, and able to tolerate love and chastity, which can be described as a gentleman with salty beauty inside and outside." ”

Shen Qingyi snorted coldly.

Xiao Yan looked at the fourth brother, and the fourth brother looked at her, and the brother and sister had a bad feeling at the same time......

Xiao Yan blinked his eyes and asked cautiously, "Sister has a different opinion?" ”

Shen Qingyi flicked his cuffs lightly, and said in a cool voice: "When Xun Xianggong was still Xun Liulang of Yingchuan, he had a lover in his hometown, who was born in the Zheng family of Xingyang, but he was a little far away from the Yan branch, and his father and brother had no official position. In comparison, although the Song family of Xicheng is not from the county wangshi family, it is a scholarly family into the family tree, and gradually reaches the surname C, but it is in the top ten surnames of the surname C, and the Song bachelor is a branch of the family, and his father is the head of the family, serving as the Zuoqing of the Ministry of Rites, and is expected to be promoted to an important position as the secretary of the ministry within three years; Bachelor Song's three uncles and one brother and two sisters also held important official positions in the capital and the locality, and in terms of Xun Xianggong's career, there were more advantages of 'building near the water'; So Xun Liulang abandoned Zheng Jiu Niangzi and asked Song Tanhua. ”

“！” Xiao Yan and the fourth brother looked at each other: Xun Wenduangong still has such a thing?!

Yingchuan Xun used to be a Gaomen clan, inherited from the pre-Qin, flourished in the two Han Dynasty, stretched two Jin, the Northern and Southern Dynasties declined from time to time, but the heritage is still there, and the Tang Dynasty has risen again, and now it ranks among the top of the B surname. "Xun Xianggong's branch is also a distant branch," Shen Qingyi said, "In his father's generation, it was already eleven ......"

Shen Qingyi said that Xun Pu's father is also a "strange person", no intention of career and no intention of business, this is not surprising, there are many such children in the scholar family, love gold and stone and engraving, this is also normal, but in the engraving of a little less aura, can not become the climate, but he believes that he is a big late forming, carved stone is not the four major stones do not use, and good collection of famous stones and famous carved stones, most of the family wealth is consumed on this, the same branch of the elders many times to persuade, do not listen, relatives and friends or contribute to help, but can be a while, can not be a lifetime, Soon, Xun's father's house became eleven famous "poor houses".

Of course, this poverty is relative to the scholars, not really poor.

“…… Because the family is not well-off, the clan and the clan are quite embarrassed to be sent to us, Xun Liulang's room is not less ridiculed, or because of this growth experience, he is full of empathy and compassion for the poor and weak, when he was a teenager, he once stepped forward to help the Ping family brothers and sisters who were bullied by the powerful son, and happened to be bumped into by Zheng Jiu Niangzi, and the two met, corresponded, and fell in love with each other.

"Zheng Jiu Niangzi has a very good character, often helps the poor, weak, orphans and children, and is also talented and learned, and Xun Liulang's character is compatible - this is the reason why Xun Xianggong loves her.

It's a pity that Zheng Jiu Niangzi saw Xun Liulang's gentleness and simplicity and his talent, and loved him even more for his character of pity for the weak and brave, but she didn't know that Xun Liulang's character was to ascend to a high position of power and realize his ambitions. The character is not harmonious, even if you love each other for a while, it is also a separate game. ”

Xiao Cong and Xiao Yan were silent.

Do you say that Xun Pu is negative? He is the son of Zheng Jiu. But he was loyal to his wife all his life, and later promoted to the political hall, the uncle and peers of the branch also made many achievements with his help, and the status of the branch continued to improve, until Xun Pu was promoted to the deputy minister of Zhongshu three years after the order, the network power has been above his wife's family, but how he treated his wife before, as before, as before, love, tolerance, forbearance, and Song Ruoxing's life has not changed.

After he became the prime minister, he was still simple, his daily use was simple among the scholars, he was still self-denying in a high position, and he was not a person who chased power to satisfy his selfish desire for pleasure and power.

Xiao Cong sighed and said: "Before love is negative, it must also retreat." ”

The Xun Xiang Guild felt guilty about Zheng Jiu Niangzi all his life, but if he did it again, he would still make the same choice.

For people with big ambitions, ambition is always more important than love.

Xiao Cong agrees.

If he is Xun Pu, he will not fall in love with others easily, although his marriage will not be all about marriage, but he will definitely consider his wife's family background, and love will not be the whole of his marriage.

Xiao Yan is most concerned about: How is Zheng Jiu's wife?

Although the love and marriage of men and women of the Tang Dynasty are often different objects, and it is normal to break up in love, but in case Zheng Jiu Niangzi is a lover, wouldn't Xun Xianggong's affection be cruel to Zheng Jiu Niangzi?

Shen Qingyi said: "If you don't fit in love, it's also a blessing to break up early." ”

She said that when Xun Pu went to Beijing Province to take the test, Zheng Jiu Niangzi was already a member of the Mo family and love society, and served as a deacon in the Henan Provincial Branch.

"That's good." Xiao Yan raised his eyebrows and smiled, "It's a great blessing not to be happy on one side and unhappy for the other." ”

The light curtain freezes.

Xiao Yan's body and mind exited the mirage, and at the moment when the smile froze, the cognitive insight saw something that Xiao Yan had not thought about before.

If Zheng Jiu's father and brother are in important positions, will Xun Pu abandon Zheng Jiu's son and choose Song Ruoxing?

Of course, this is an assumption.

Deduced from the temperament of the two, Xun Pu and Zheng Jiu Niangzi got married, the two have the affection to love each other, and they will definitely love each other after marriage, but can they grow old in vain and have a complete life?

The first possibility is that after a few years of affection, the husband and wife will eventually reconcile and leave because of their different aspirations. The second possibility is that the husband and wife each make concessions and stay together until the end of the day, but it is not as complete as the two pairs in reality.

That is, it is difficult to fall in love, and it is even more difficult to stay together.

Appearance, talent, and status are secondary, can make people happy and complete in their lives, only spiritual satisfaction is complete, loving husband and wife stay together, in addition to harmonious character, but also have the same interests.

Husband and wife have ambitions, like-minded people occupy a great part of each other, like-minded, hand in hand, Xun Pu and Zheng Jiu Niangzi is difficult to do in their lives, the concept of Zai Zhi will diverge with the Mo family's idea of love, husband and wife can understand each other, but can not achieve harmony.

What about you and Shen Qingyi?

Cognition asks the self.

Harmonious character?

Together.

First, the five virtues of jade are the same, second, the moral code is similar, and third, the values are similar.

Like-minded?

First, both are excellent cultivators and both star fate, both have outstanding talents, excellent hearts, and are not lacking in hard work and will. This is in harmony.

Second, with the goal of the Great Dao, the Dao heart is firm, and the ...... is not shaken by anyone or anything?

The "self" hesitated.

Cognitive thoughts say that you have to recognise the extreme emotions and the extreme emotions.

Sit and forget to observe the two phases, detach from the form to know, enter the realm of emptiness, and abandon all existing cognition. Just like the water in a cup, first pour empty water, "the heart enters the realm of emptiness", and then pour water into it, "humble to accept things", but the new water poured in is not the original water.

Cognition is a new cognition.

The Tao of Extreme Affection is one of the three thousand avenues, which enters the Tao with extreme affection, and takes seeking truth as the ultimate, not with extreme affection as the goal.

Cognitive thinking says: Dao Zhenzi enters the Tao of extreme affection, with Mo Bai as the object of extreme affection, Mo Bai is ruthless love in Dao Zhenzi, and Dao Zhenzi is extremely affectionate Dao Dacheng, which can be proved that the love or non-love of the object of extreme affection will not determine whether the extreme lover can enter the Tao, and whether he enters the Tao or not depends on the love of the extreme lover.

The true son of the Tao is extremely affectionate, and the demon breaks through the congenital, and his Tao has been completely detached from the influence of the object of extreme affection, and the extreme affection is only his own affection. Whether you love Shen Qingyi or not, it is not decisive for her to enter the Tao of extreme affection, it depends on whether she herself enters the Tao with extreme affection.

Your mother Li Yixun, you don't worry about her falling in love, because she is emotionally extremely affectionate, but not extreme, every relationship is loved to the extreme, but she will not be ruined by love.

Cognitive thinking says: Extreme affection is not the Tao of extreme affection, and the way of entering the Tao with extreme affection is the Tao of extreme affection. Shen Qingyi is extremely affectionate, but he may not enter the Tao with extreme affection.

She has already taken the Dan Dao, supplemented by the Dharma Dao, and her cultivation is fast, it doesn't take a long time to become a grandmaster, and she doesn't need to practice the Extreme Affection Dao to accelerate her cultivation. She's smarter, smarter than you and understands what to choose best.

You've been worrying about her falling in love, which is your "cognitive bias."

You insist that Shen Qingyi will fall in love with you to the extreme and eventually be ruined by love, which is a cognitive obstacle projected from the fear in your heart, just like a leaf blind.

Cognitive Mind said: If you want to solve the danger of Shen Qingyi's "extreme love and ruined love", there are two ways.

First, set a long-term mission for her as a goal in life.

The disadvantage is that if she loses your beloved, living is like dying, and the Dao heart has cracks, and it is easy to be taken advantage of by the demons in her heart, and she will eventually fall in love. This method is not advisable.

Two, you outlive her.

It's your responsibility as her lover to go a little further and live a little longer—if you are sure you love her.

Your goal is the long-term road, and if you love her, you must live a long-term life.

Cognition says: In the true heart, you are afraid, afraid that you will not be able to go further, and that you will fall one day. Your state of mind has unconsciously fallen into an emotional barrier, and the separation of life and death is a great horror.

In this life, Xiao Yan's Lingtai suddenly had a light, the heart and body were united in an instant, the Dao heart was more transparent, the soul was also lighter, and a wisp of formless and substantial things was precipitated, which was the impurity in the Dao heart, and the soul was also pure.

The petals of the lotus platform where she sat also became a little lighter and clearer, which was an improvement in her mood.

The consciousness incarnation smiled slightly, followed by the seal again, the mind sat and forgot to see, the body and the mind were separated, and entered the mirage.

The light curtain began to flow again.

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