"There is a road in the book mountain, and the sea is endless, and the sea is endless" These two poems are the works of which dynasty and poet in China? These two sentences are now completely confirmed by Ouyang Xinyu. Please remember the URL of this site: . Ouyang Xinyu, a first-year student of the History Department of National Taiwan Normal University, who did not know what "love" was, gathered all her strength on learning, and her sudden explosive learning spirit was highly praised by the school's teachers and classmates. However, no matter how hard she tried, the learning effect was still not very satisfactory. Could it be that she wants to make learning a lifelong research career?

In fact, Ouyang Xinyu does not have any lofty ideals and ambitions. She studied so hard completely to prevent her mother from nagging her about her studies. She thought that as long as she studied hard, her mother would naturally stop nagging her, so why not do it?

However, with in-depth contact, it is indeed difficult for Ouyang Xinyu to develop a strong interest in the course of history. However, in order to achieve her mother's ideals, she must force herself to like it. She began to go beyond what she knew in textbooks, and whenever she had time, she went to the school library to read a lot of extracurricular historical materials. With the accumulation of history and culture, Ouyang Xinyu's Chinese language performance has also changed by leaps and bounds.

After half a semester during college, Ouyang Xinyu's comprehensive grades have also improved. However, there is still a certain distance from reaching the level expected by Ouyang's mother. However, the result of such efforts is also very satisfactory to Ouyang's mother. Xinyu's efforts made her mother feel very gratified.

Because Ouyang Xinyu studied very seriously and hard, she didn't even let go of reading books when eating, sleeping, and walking, so she was praised by school teachers many times. However, because of this, she was given the title of "nerd" at National Taiwan Normal University. Ouyang Xinyu herself doesn't like this title, she is less receptive than others, and it is a little more difficult to learn than others. However, studying hard doesn't mean she's stupid! So, she still hates the nickname a little.

Ouyang Xinyu is tall, with beautiful hair and shawl, and her appearance is very gentle, which also makes many boys in the school secretly fall in love. Beauty, there are always admirers and admirers around you. However, this Ouyang Xinyu is like a piece of wood, and she doesn't understand the pursuit and hints of boys at all.

Take, for example, one time in the school library. A tall, handsome boy pretended to touch her and dropped the book in her hand to the ground. The boy immediately helped her pick up the book and return it to her, and chased her to say sorry on the left and sorry on the right, and then said that he wanted to invite her to coffee as an apology.

But after she took the book from the boy's hand, she never took her eyes off the book, and she didn't even look at the boy. Swept the boy there for a long time, and finally the boy had to glance at the people around him in embarrassment, and slipped away with a disgraced face. Fortunately, no one was watching him at the time.

Ouyang Xinxi saw Xinyu again during the winter vacation at school, and the two of them didn't seem to have seen each other for a while. Seeing her again this time, Ouyang Xinxi was a little surprised, when did Xinyu wear a pair of wide-brimmed black-framed myopia glasses? However, it seems that this makes her more quiet and has the potential to be a teacher.

"Xinyu, what are you doing? I haven't seen you home for several weekends, and I'm bored at home alone! ”

"Oh, I'm going to the school library to look at extracurricular history materials! Every time I go back, I have to listen to my mother chanting the scriptures, and it is better to go to the library to read more books to be quiet! ”

"Hey, when did you get hooked on history? No wonder your classmates at school call you a nerd, you even have myopia when you read books! ”

"How do you know they call me a nerd? Have you arranged eyeliner at our school? It's annoying! Why don't you love to give people this or that nickname? Where do I look stupid! ”

"No, it just so happens that there is a girl in our school and her cousin is from your school, and the two of them have a good relationship!"

"Is there any mistake? Why do stinky boys have such eight wives? What kind of nerd do I look like, how do you like to listen to other people's nonsense everywhere! Are we still good sisters? ”

"Xinyu, I heard that the girl's cousin originally wanted to chase you, and they said that they were going to invite you to coffee. However, you only care about reading books and don't dump people at all, you don't even look at them, and they have to walk away in disgrace! ”

"Xinxi, don't listen to that girl, is she talking nonsense! No boy ever said he was going to chase me! I'm not pretty, and my grades are not good, so where can any boy look at me! ”

"Oh, Xinyu, I see! You're a stupid goose, you don't even know that boys are chasing you, you're really a national treasure! Isn't it just drinking coffee, what's there to be shy about? If someone invites you next time, I'll be with you! ”

"Xinxi, don't talk nonsense, okay? If you talk nonsense like this, I will ignore you! ”

"Alright, let's stop talking! I'm kidding you, don't take it seriously, okay? ”

"That's pretty much it, if these words reach my mother's ears, I'm going to have an end of this winter vacation!"

"Xinyu, you study so diligently, is it because of your mother?"

"If only you knew, or you thought someone was buzzing around your ears like a fly all day long, wouldn't you be annoyed?"

"Alas, actually, now the two of us are in the same condition!"

"Are you still going to listen to your dad and study financial management?"

"Otherwise, what do you think? When I first saw you in trouble, I was glad that I had a reasonable mother. Unexpectedly, I have a father who is more chicken than a woman! ”

"Xinxi, don't be unhappy! Look, haven't I survived all this? ”

"Yes! Xinyu, I heard my aunt say that you have improved your study test, and my aunt is very happy, I am really happy for you! ”

"It's okay, as long as my mom is happy, she won't keep nagging me! As long as she doesn't nag, my life will be better! ”

"Xinyu, have you ever thought about what you will do after graduation? Do you really want to listen to your aunt and become a teacher? ”

“……”

Speaking of this, Ouyang Xinyu's eyes flashed with tears. She held her head high, not wanting tears to fall out of her eyes. From childhood to adulthood, everything was arranged by her mother for her to go to a girls' school. The color of the schoolbag and clothes is also the color that her mother chooses, and the mother is also responsible for filling in the high school volunteers, choosing universities and schools and departments, and her mother is also in charge, does she have the right to make other choices?

If in the future, even the choice of a husband requires the mother to be the master in order to succeed, then she can only be at her mercy. Because, she is used to such a way of life, she does not want to have any senseless wars with her family, and she does not want to change anything! If she had to change, she was trying to change herself, to become a good girl in the eyes of the world and her mother.

Will Xinxi's fate be the same as Xinyu's? We can't jump to conclusions too early, because this person has a different personality and can't generalize about the outcome of things. Xinxi's personality itself is a little different from Xinyu, she is a rebellious type, maybe one day when she is unhappy, she will turn her face with her parents. And Xinyu, since she was a child, has been accustomed to obeying her mother's arrangement, and has never had a rebellious thought.

For adults, they only know how to graft their thoughts and ideals onto their children. Whether their children want it or not, they feel that the next generation should do what they want, so that it is called obedience, and this is called filial piety. Only obedient and filial children are well-behaved children in the eyes of adults.

How many children in this world are shackled by their parents and cannot make decisions according to their own wishes for the rest of their lives? How many children have lost their innocence, leaving their childhood filled with all kinds of after-school training that they don't really like?

Chinese-style education, the fate of the Chinese. Is our destiny in our own hands, or is it in the hands of our parents?