When Ding Yu returned home, Ding Ding glanced at him blankly, but he didn't have too much anger, anyway, the matter had already passed, Ding Yu glanced at Cao Zhen, who was honest and quail-like, "I said, what did you two do?" Woke up so late? Not even if it's unintentional! ”

In the face of jokes, Cao Zhen also peeked at it, "I'm so tired these days when I go back, there is no stop at all, and there is not so much entertainment outside, but the entertainment in the house, not even with Chongyang, every day from opening your eyes to closing your eyes, almost all of them are fooling these things!" Physically and mentally exhausted. ”

For such a thing, Ding Yu also feels a little funny, very normal, what about Cao Zhen's family? It also belongs to a political family, and what about Ding Ding's side? There is also considerable power in terms of funds, although it is said that the young couple is in the capital, far away from home, but the Cao family has always been concerned.

After I go back, I will inevitably have these so-called entertainments, not to mention that there are two children, which is enough to toss anyway. After coming back, he didn't even take a good rest, and he took his two children to the temple fair, even if it was an iron man, I am afraid that it would be worn out, and Ding Yu also knew quite well about it.

But what about this? There's really no way to tell my parents in detail, sometimes life is like this, but it can't be said that Ding Lin and Zhao Shuying are wrong, they naturally have the vision and views of the older generation, and what about the younger generation with them? There are different views of consciousness.

"When I'm okay tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, I'm going to take my two children to the children's welfare home to have a look!"

Cao Zhen was also stunned, looking at his eldest brother, the Children's Welfare Institute? Which one is this? "Big brother, I don't have any opinions or ideas, I just feel a little puzzled, how do I want to go there?"

"The report to me from the house earlier brought up the relevant matters, what about me? Isn't it just a doctor and a capitalist, who is also kind and does something good, people? You can't just think about yourself, what if you don't have such conditions? It's good to do your best, but what about those conditions? It's different! ”

"With kids?"

"Let them also feel that although they are not very old, the children in the children's welfare home are not too old! Small children? There are some things that will affect them for a lifetime, so that they can get in touch with and know! It doesn't seem like a bad thing! ”

Cao Zhen looked at his eldest brother, and then nodded, "I took the two of them over with me, but eldest brother, the two children in the family are a little naughty, let alone let me beat them, even reprimanding them, I can't even feel like I can talk!" ”

Ding Yu is still very satisfied with Cao Zhen's performance, as for how the child should be educated? This is their own business, and they really don't want to have too much involvement, but let the children get in touch with it more, and they can't always keep them in the greenhouse, even if the conditions in the home are good, what can they do? Isn't it?

What about other volunteers? I'm afraid it's really difficult to enter the children's welfare home, but the question is what about Ding Yu? It's not an ordinary volunteer, it's not even a volunteer, but Ding Yu is stationed in the welfare home, and he still receives a lot of attention, and Ding Yu waves his two hands and asks the two little guys to take their two younger brothers to play with other children.

After watching it for a while, Cao Zhen felt that he couldn't see it anymore, and ran outside as soon as possible, not that the taste inside was wrong, but looking at these children, he really felt unbearable in his heart, what about these small children? Abandoned like this, are those who are parents all brutes?

I am also a father, and there are two children in the family, who are the same age as many children in the welfare home, looking at their pitiful appearance, my heart feels like a knife twisted, and even tears can't be controlled.

In the past, I really hadn't been to such a place, and I hadn't paid attention to it, even if I heard it, I had swept it away, but now that I've really come into contact with it, this understanding and thinking are a little different!

"Big brother, why do you want to come to such a place!"

After coming back, when he saw that the eldest brother was helping the children sort out their clothes, Cao Zhen also subconsciously asked, and he didn't know how he came up with this sentence? But then I seem to have thought of something! But when I wanted to cover my mouth, it was too late.

Ding Yu smiled, as if he didn't care at all, "What about me?" The situation is relatively special, and it is not abandoned, and I have not even suffered much, so my situation is different from theirs, what about my concern for them? On the one hand, they feel that they need this attention, and on the other hand, what about them? It's also for the sake of the two children in the family. ”

"For the sake of the children?"

"What about the family they were born into? Some of them are different, including your two sons, who grew up in such a family? It can be said that you have no worries about food and clothing, food and clothing all your life, but what about such conditions and environment? Naturally, we will develop some bad problems, and when we find out? It may be late! ”

Cao Zhen also understood, "Transmit some correct concepts to them now, and at the same time lead by example?!" ”

"Almost! I not only took them to the children's welfare home, and even took them to the old people's home, but also took them to poor families, living and working for a few days, when these two rabbit cubs were bitter and tearful, but looking at other people's children, they were gritting their teeth anyway, and they didn't find this opportunity in the past two years! ”

Looking at his eldest brother's appearance, Cao Zhen also gritted his teeth, how old was the eldest brother when he took the two children out! At that time, let them work, and if it were their own, would they really be able to be ruthless? Even if you have this idea, it will be difficult to make this decision at that time!

Now at this time, Cao Zhen has somewhat understood, why did the eldest brother bring himself here today, it is to prove with practical actions, looking not far away, what about nephews and nieces? It's good to integrate with the children in the welfare home, but what about your two sons? It seems a little out of place.

Is it because of the age of the nephew and niece? Absolutely not, what about the two sons I felt when I was original? I'm still too young, so I just need to grow up well, but what about today's feelings? Recognize yourself quite a problem and a situation, what about the child? When is it time to grow up?

In their own eyes, they will always be children. But in reality and society, will they always be children? It is my responsibility as a father to provide them with the best conditions, but at the same time, we also need to make them aware of more problems, which is also my responsibility! The son does not teach, the father is wrong, this is really right to taste.

"But you don't think too much of me is beautiful, let them realize the most sincere things in the world, and at the same time I will let them get in touch with the most ruthless, the American exchange, I will sometimes take them over, sensibility and rationality can not be lacking, but what about the first stage? It is still mainly emotional, and their rationality lies in slowly cultivating! ”

"Thank you, big brother!"

Cao Zhen understands very well that the eldest brother is telling himself in the most simple way how to educate the child, instead of preaching in person, that kind of words have no meaning at all, but will cause his own disgust!

The two adults and the four children stayed in the children's welfare home for a day, during which Ding Ding also made a lot of phone calls, but Cao Zhen coped with the past, even if he went back to kneel on the washboard, or he couldn't go to bed, but he learned this kind of education, so it was more useful than anything else.

The meals are not very rich, and there is really no comparison with the family, the two children in the eldest brother's family eat happily, and what about the two children in their own family? It's like grinding, and it's clear that things don't suit your appetite.

What you eat at home is all clean food, but what about it? It is made by ordinary people, and it can only be said that they are not hungry when they are full, and the two children have never eaten such things since they were children, although they are hungry, they are still quite picky about such things.

But are the conditions in the eldest brother's house not as good as their own? Wrong, but why are the two children in the eldest brother's family able to eat? The problems revealed in this are all worth thinking about!

"Big brother, I learned a lot today!"

Ding Yu waved his hand disapprerovingly, "Before, I was a little picky when I watched the two children eating, what if I said this to my face?" Everyone may be a little unhappy, now the conditions in the family are better, no one wants their children to suffer, natural things, I am also a father, watching them rub off a piece of skin, I also feel distressed, but they don't know the pain now, is it difficult for them to know when they grow up? ”

When he returned home, let the four children take the lead in washing, they were all noisy and dirty, Ding Yu's two children didn't need any help at all, they washed themselves, Cao Zhen looked at all this, and he also pursed his mouth, why can the children in the eldest brother's family do it, but their own children can't do it.

It's because the eldest brother's genes are good, and they don't exist, mainly because the eldest brother's education is good, and what about his communication with the two children? It's more done through guidance, not through preaching, and what about the way you educate your own home? It's more about educating children how to do it? I didn't even think about channeling.

It seems that it is really necessary for me to talk to Ding Ding about this aspect of the problem, close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black, the same reason, follow the good to learn the good, follow the bad to learn the bad, from a young age should establish a correct world view, values and consciousness for them, so that they can have better growth.

"Why did you take the kids today?" When Zhao Shuying sorted out the clothes for her two grandsons, she was also dissatisfied with the question, and she didn't even come back for lunch, and she was also hesitant on the phone.

"Let them receive a re-education, when I took them to the temple fair before, when I saw them eating, I didn't eat two bites and threw them aside!" Ding Yu didn't hide anything, he didn't say anything about going to the children's welfare home, but he told the essence of the matter.

"There are a lot of things they eat in the house, and there is no shortage of them to use, but they can't be allowed to develop these bad habits!" When he said this, Ding Yu was also very attentive, "If you follow, they will feel relied on, and they will be quite shirking when they start doing things, so I will take Cao Zhen with me!" ”

Ding Ding glared at her husband fiercely, good guy, he actually took his son to endure hardships, and it was strange that he could get around him when he went home! Ding Lin on the other side nodded slightly, "I think it's very good, although it is said to be a child, but they should know what it means to be suffering, the difficult times of the year, and then look at the present, I can't imagine that your generation is really living a good life, but you can't forget history!" ”

"Dad, what about mentioning history to these kids? It's still a little too early, and they won't know what it's like until they experience it for themselves! The impression will be even more profound! "After all, what about this? I also have my own sons and daughters, don't I feel distressed? Impossible.

However, Ding Lin and Zhao Shuying are leaving, everyone can't stop it, they have been living here for so long, although it is said that this is also home, but they can't catch up with the home in the small county town, for Ding Lin and Zhao Shuying, this is what it looks like.

Ding Yu wanted to send his father and mother back in person, but he was also dissuaded, they are not seventy or eighty, and they still need someone to support them, and Ding Ding is the same on his side, but he was rejected! Ding Yu arranged the plane, personally sent the old couple to the airport, and waited for the plane to take off before sighing.

"Ding Ding, what do you think of Daddy and Mom?"

Facing the eldest brother's sudden questioning, Ding Ding also snorted, "You already knew the answer, and you asked me, but eldest brother, I want to ask you, what kind of ecstasy did you drink for our family Cao Zhen, good guy, I was too lazy to be like a pig at the beginning, but now I feel diligent that I should re-recognize him, or what bad things he has done?" ”

"!" Ding Yu also glared at him unwillingly, "Just that little guts of your Cao Zhen, is there me and my little thumb?" "What about other things? Ding Yu didn't dare to say it, but Ding Yu still had some guarantees for such a thing, what about the relationship between their husband and wife? There really isn't any problem.

"Of course I know, but I just feel a little confused?!"

"What about his own experience? The personal taste is better than everything, if you have time, let Cao Zhen also take you around, besides, what about money? Not everything! ”

Did Ding Ding listen to it, Ding Yu really didn't know, anyway, what about his sister? It's not the arrogance and arrogance as imagined, such a caring thing, I believe that Cao Zhen will take her through it once, which will make her soul suffer a considerable impact, and it can be regarded as a lesson for her in advance!

There are quite a lot of problems with the education of the two nephews, but it is pointed out directly, there are too many problems, and I don't want to have any conflicts with my sister because of this, so I just pass it on in this way, there may be a little bit of obscurity and trouble, but for Ding Yu, this is the best solution.

Ding Yu is in the capital, right under the noses of the Wang family and the Su family, what about Ding Yu taking the four children to the children's welfare home? It's not that secretive, so the family soon found out. Originally, I thought about whether Ding Yu wanted to express other meanings at this time.

But soon the family knew that this is a misunderstanding, Ding Yu does not have this aspect at all, when Ding Yu returned home for the first time in the Chinese New Year's Eve, if he didn't go, no one would say a reason, but Ding Yu went, the meaning of this expression was different.

How did he go, didn't Ding Yu's adoptive father and adoptive mother know? These are not so important, Ding Yu went to Wang Changlin and Su Yuan to pay New Year's greetings, or did it make the Wang family and the Su family, and even the three elders feel a different meaning, the relationship between each other? There may still be some embarrassment.

But it is a good thing that there is such a scene, so it is not difficult to interpret the matter of Ding Yu going to the children's welfare home, but after unraveling it, Wang Changlin also looked at his wife and said a little weirdly, "Where do you say our eldest son's experience comes from?" I even thought about taking my children to a welfare home! ”

"I think it's good!" Su Yuan is also browsing the two small spaces, which contain some growth records from their childhood to adulthood, but what about this space? It's really not everyone who can get in, and it needs to be quite verified.

"You see, there are pictures of them when they went to work, they experienced this when they were young, and now what about going to the welfare home? It shows that the child is caring, and he is worthy of being the child of our royal family! ”

What about these photos? It's not the first time Wang Changlin has seen it, but every time he sees it, the feeling he receives is different, the way his eldest son educates his children, so that he has some sighs, there are quite conditions in the family, and at the same time? We also spare no effort in the education of children.

What about the growth of the next generation? is the thing that has attracted the most attention now, what about Wang Xiaogang in the family? That is, it was put on the primary issue, Wang Yang belonged to the kind that was not fully educated at the beginning, it may be that he was too busy at work, or it may be other reasons, but to be honest, these are all excuses.

Now there are such obvious examples, it depends on how to do it in the family!

PS: Happy October 1st to everyone! Make two more calls home when you're fine! Family fun is true happiness!