Ding Yu's side is very lively, Wang Xiaogang is a little excited, even happier than his father and mother are here!

The uncle's family is here! Even my brother and sister came! Wang Xiaogang also showed his achievements during this time! Ding Yu is very attentive, Ding Yun and Ding Chang are also very attentive, as for Taixi, she brought a lot of things over, and now she is busy in the kitchen at this time! No pretense at all!

"I heard there was a fight before?" Ding Yu is a little curious! At least in my impression, this is a situation that has never been seen, not that it is a bad thing, but it feels quite fun!

"It can't be said to be a fight!" Wang Xiaogang scratched his head, "It's just two people messing around with each other, and finally said it!" Became a very good friend! We've been playing together these days! There were some little impulses at that time! In hindsight, there are still some regrets! I'm getting a little heavy! ”

"Have you apologized?"

"Go! I went in person! Wang Xiaogang nodded solemnly, "Actually, that night, I went to apologize with a small gift!" In fact, at that time, we were already reconciled! But for my personal reasons, I think I'm going a little too far! ”

"You need to be measured in everything you do! Is there something that can be done and done wrong? Just change it! But something? There can be no contamination, because once it is contaminated, there is no way to remedy it afterwards! ”

"Uncle, I know!"

"Well done! It's still satisfying! At least from my personal point of view! You've outperformed the vast majority of kids! But I can only say that you are just a lot more children than your age, compared with other children, you still have a lot of shortcomings, these need to be slowly worked hard in the future! ”

Although these are just some big truths, Wang Xiaogang listened very carefully! Even keep it in your mind!

"Uncle, grandma said it earlier! If I have time, I will come to see me with my grandfather! ”

"Come on, come on! But your grandmother! Sometimes I'll spoil you! It's good to take care of this for yourself! ”

In the face of the uncle's small mention, Wang Xiaogang also laughed, and he completely understood what the uncle meant! Fool your grandmother right! As for other questions? There are no problems!

Grandma loves herself very much, this is not fake, but love is love, you still need to have a lot of attention, you can't just because of grandma's love, you think you have something to rely on, it's impossible at all!

Because love is not enough to become the capital for yourself to start a family in the future! It's like Jia Baoyu! Although I don't know the connotation so clearly, I still have a good understanding of the relevant situation and information! Even the history and culture have quite a lot of interpretation!

The more you know, the more shocking you become! There are a lot of things that can be dealt with quite well from yourself! Wang Xiaogang also has some fear and worry in his heart! If he really became Jia Baoyu, what would it be like?

This hasn't happened yet, but what will happen in the future? Hardly!

The situation in the home may be quite different from the Jia Mansion in the Dream of Red Mansions, but see what is said in the book! Let's compare it again! Wang Xiaogang's mind is really moving! Of course, there are also follow-up problems! I wrote it all in my diary, and I wanted to take advantage of the uncle's visit to ask for advice!

The reason why he didn't tell others was because Wang Xiaogang was really a little unconvinced, because others might not be able to answer these questions! Moreover, Wang Xiaogang also has some careful thoughts of his own, and there are some things he doesn't want to tell others! I don't want anyone else to know too much! It's not good, it's bad!

After eating, Ding Yu sat down in the living room, Taixi and Ding Yun! Ding Chang also sat next to him, and Wang Xiaogang sat next to him! It's a little closer to Ding Yu's location!

"Uncle, I recently read the impression of the Red Mansion! There is quite a feeling! ”

Ding Yu looked at the notebook in his hand! Uh-huh! But there was no immediate answer! I thought about it for a while! "The so-called less don't look at the water margin! Don't look at the Three Kingdoms! Men don't read Journey to the West! Women don't look at the Red Mansion, there is quite a moral in it! ”

Well? Not only the three children, but even Tae-hee expressed considerable interest! I also have a considerable understanding of Chinese culture, and there are quite a lot of classics in it, but I don't know a lot! But this makes me sound very charming! But how to interpret it is another matter!

"The so-called less don't look at the water margin! Water Margin is just like the old boy in Hong Kong films! You teenagers have not yet formed a so-called good outlook on life! Values and Consciousness Tube! The mood in the book and in the film will have a considerable impact on you! And once such guidance is firmly engraved on you, the effects will be fatal! ”

"The TV shot seems to be very good!" Ding Yun also argued!

"TV is TV! Television is nothing more than a form of expression! I have quite a reading of the books, and some of the questions are also obscure! If there is not a single adaptation! The scene that appears will destroy the psychology of the vast majority of people! You'd better not read it now! Even when I read it now, I feel that the methods are cruel, although I am not a good person, but I at least have a considerable bottom line! ”

"Dad, you're the best in my mind!"

Hehe! Ding Yu looked at his daughter and nodded, "Don't say it, your horse is very good, it sounds very useful!" But in fact? People are valuable in self-knowledge, whether I am good or bad! I know it very well in my heart! As for how to judge in the future, it doesn't matter! ”

"Uncle! When will we be able to watch the Water Margin? ”

"Ding Chang can! Ding Yun is two years away, as for you? It will take at least two years, or five years! Something that can't be said, Ding Chang can stabilize his heart very well! Ding Yun is a little too big! Although she is unaware of things, it is precisely because of this that if she has suffered quite a change, she can't stabilize herself! As for you? You're a little smaller, and you've experienced a little less! ”

Ding Yun's appearance is a little puffy! But Ding Yun was not shocked! I sat there very peacefully, and I didn't even have the intention of standing up with my little breasts! Sitting there is called a peace!

Tae-hee next to him was holding the water cup in his hand, carefully looking at his son and daughter, and did not deny that this was quite reasonable! I also have a lot of judgment in my heart! But now it's really not suitable for me to make any mentions, as for the evening, when I and the child's father are two, it is much more convenient at that time!

Wang Xiaogang glanced at his brother and sister! I didn't expect the uncle to suddenly talk about this matter at this time, in my impression, my brother and sister are very good to me! It's no different! My sister is very atmospheric! And the brother? There will be quite accommodating! But from the current reading, you can see such a big gap! Some are unacceptable!

Of course, Ding Yu looked at everything in his own eyes, "The reasons for personality are difficult to explain clearly, and it can't be seen from a single point of view, such as Ding Yun and Ding Chang's restaurant!" Ding Yun has done a very good job at this point, the relationship is harmonious, and the management is relatively in place! If you look at it from this point of view, it will take at least three years for Ding Chang to reach the point of Ding Yun, and this is still under the condition that Ding Yun has not made any progress! ”

Wow wow! Ding Yun also screamed strangely, and then crossed his little nose, looking very arrogant, as for Ding Chang and Wang Xiaogang? Completely his own highness's minister! That is, to lift your own shoes!

Ding Chang looked at Ding Yun! also made a look at his father, Ding Yu felt a little funny, this bastard boy! This is very much with my own imagination, I can see everything, but if I see it clearly, I will understand it, whether I want to say it or not, how I want to say it, this is another thing!

"Return to the topic just now, read about the Red Mansion! Now, if you really read through the Red Mansion, you will feel quite bored! There are even some people who don't understand! Let me first introduce you to a book called Red Mansion Dialect Food! If you read it, you will find it very interesting and very interesting! ”

Well? It's not just Sanxiao, but even Tae-hee is quite interested! Food, clothing, housing and transportation are inseparable from every family!

"But a lot of these things can't be done now! Of course, there are some things that are very easy to do now, but in those days, it was not just about luxury! When he said this, Ding Yu paused suddenly, "Mention a question, what do you think of China's luxury goods?" ”

"Dad, what does it mean by luxury? Like those foreign luxury brands? ”

"There are some errors in the interpretation! It's not that there are no luxuries in China, or even that there are quite a few luxuries, but few people mention them, in other words, some of them can't afford to play! ”

"It's like one of those treasures in the house, isn't it?"

"No, they should be a kind of witness to history! To say luxury? More like a culture and history! The so-called luxury, such as gold wire inlay! For example, gold lacquer inlay, and porcelain and so on! Although it is said to be a modern product, not too many people can afford to play it! Even with a good gold wire inlay, there is no problem in buying a dozen bags! ”

"Dad, are those things more expensive than bags?"

"Yes, if you think about it from a value point of view! More precious! And you can play for a lifetime! Even if it is passed down to the world, it will be possible for generations! But the so-called bags, or cars, etc.! Not to mention a lifetime! It's hard to say if it will be popular for more than ten years! ”

"Like a watch?" Tae-hee said a word!

"There are similarities!" Ding Yu explained indifferently! "It's all consumables! The so-called expensive watches, in addition to the expensive parts, the most important thing is the problem of handiwork! Because other people can't do it, even if you get on the phone, you can't do it either! It's like the so-called gold wire inlay! You know the principle, you can also make such a machine, or even have such a finished product, but it is useless! ”

The three children all looked at the watch on their wrists! Seems to make quite a sense!

"I've never been a big fan of forcing you to do anything! Persistence is a very good habit, but the so-called persistence, it is inevitable that there will be considerable fatigue, and even to a certain extent, it will show considerable boredom, which is a natural thing, but the interest is different! ”

Let them read the Red Chamber now, this is completely embarrassing, let alone them! Even if you ask him to read the Red Mansion, except for a very few people, otherwise the vast majority of them will be quite impatient, and maybe after two and a half days, they will be thrown on the bookshelf to eat dirt! There's no way around this, you can't read it!

But if it's a hobby! It's another story! Therefore, Ding Yu also took the lead in recommending Red Mansion cuisine to them! Arouse their interest, and then start with other aspects, such as architecture, clothing, etc.! After these are understood, let them read through it, which is naturally a different scene! It's going to get more and more flavorful!

And Ding Yu also gave two small explanations in person, so that they could understand the reason! There are some things that can be left untold, but there are some things that should be given considerable indoctrination right now! In this way, it will not arouse their rebellion!

"Uncle, Daddy gave me a lot of money! I'm a little confused! ”

Ding Yu waved his hand! "Keep the money for yourself! This and the place placed with me are completely different in nature! Let's put it this way! Whether it's your aunt or your brother or sister, I won't give them money, and they won't ask me for money, of course! Except for some playful situations, don't use individual examples, just point to face! ”

"Uncle, what's the reason for this?"

"Fiscal independence! will be independent of itself! Whether it's your aunt or brother and sister, they are all financially independent! I never interfere! I have all the financial power in my own hands, and I have to control everyone's expenses, can I do it, can I do it! But what will happen? For example, today your aunt asked me for 20,000 yuan to buy a bag, for her, this is what she has been wanting for a long time! But I don't think it's useful! I may end up paying for it, but I'm not happy, and neither is your aunt! After one or two times, a contradiction will arise, but in fact, this is not necessary at all! ”

"Then there are the two of them, Ding Chang and Ding Yun, for example, they have taken a fancy to a small gift, which is for your aunt! But I don't think it's necessary! Or maybe it's not practical, in the end, whether you give money or not, you will be quite unhappy with them and me! There is no initial emotion, and there is no last expectation! ”

"In the end, everyone has their own life, and everyone's life is different! All have their own many times colorful! You can't force people to like something, and they won't force you to like something! ”

Tae-hee's eyes couldn't help but light up a little! Obviously, the child's father's words really spoke to his heart! Originally, I really didn't know it was like this!

I have this considerable asset in Korea! But the child's father never had any intention of interfering, and even ignored some of them! I've more or less understood it now! I have a lot of independent financial ability! There will be no friction with the child's father in other aspects because of economic problems!

And such a question, he never even mentioned! Just sit silently! I really don't know what to say! Some things are too delicate, and when I think about it, there are still some little sweetness!

"Doing this way, can you also exercise some of their control?"

"That's right! There is a meaning in this aspect! The amount of money is completely in your own hands! The benefits of being in control are varied! They'll plan quite a bit, and they won't spend it indiscriminately! After all, it's your own little money! And even if there are other problems and situations, we can correct them! Didn't you see that Ding Yun and Ding Chang have been eating and drinking at home since they opened the store? It's out! I can't even afford to buy an ice cream! ”

"Not really!" Ding Yun said loudly!

And Ding Chang and Wang Xiaogang were snickering next to them!

"Naturally, they also know that it is not easy to earn this money! After understanding the difficulties, you will look at yourself! In the process of children's growth, there are some problems that need to be recognized! This plays a crucial role in their future adulthood! The important thing is that when they become adults in the future, they will be satisfied if they don't complain about us as parents! ”

"Dad, we won't!"

Ding Yu really has nothing to say about his daughter! But it's also nice to have her active atmosphere in the house! Ding Chang is a small stuffy gourd, as for what kind of medicine is in the gourd, ordinary people really don't know, and at the same time, they can't understand it!

If he sat with Ding Yu, the two of them might not be able to say a word for an afternoon! It's not that it's not intimate, but both of them are such personalities! There is no way to do it!