As the women's director, Nian Juying has seen too many things between husband and wife, and she can't count them just through mediation. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Don't look at the emancipation of women every day, women can hold up half the sky, there is! But rarely, she saw more is, what is a woman? Give birth to children for men, serve them as a family, don't beat you or scold you, give you a bite to eat, and clothes to wear. Woman, you should be content! still thinking about sharing this piece of heaven on the man's head, he is really looking for death!

The more I think about Nian Juying, the more sad I feel, and the more I think about it, the more I feel that my daughter's future is bleak! Immediately, the circles under his eyes turned red.

"I don't know what happened to your father at your uncle's house." Nian Juying looked at Hua Junyao and didn't fight anymore, "Yaoyao, you really give your mother a long face, now I will never think of raising my head in front of my mother." The index finger poked her head and said, "You said you, if you can't get married, you can't get married!" As for not thinking about it? ”

Hua Junyao pursed her lips and smiled when she heard this, for her mother and Aunt Mai Xiang, it was true, since her mother married into the gate of the Hua family, the two began to compete!

The main reason is that the eldest grandfather is eccentric, and the poor second brother left Hua Laoshi as the only seedling, so he took a lot of care of her father and her mother.

Naturally, Mai Xiang's daughter-in-law was dissatisfied.

The pain comes from the comparison, it was nothing at first, Mai Xiang married more than ten years earlier than her mother Ju Ying, at that time, it was the warlord scuffle, it was you who sang and I appeared, it was very chaotic, as a low-level people, that is, a rootless wanderer, it would be good to starve and not die.

When Hua Laoshi and Nian Juying got married, although they were also in the midst of war, after all, the two of them were lively, broad-minded, and firm in their beliefs.

So the two of them are better than each other, everyone is poor, and there is nothing to compare.

It's like giving birth to a child, this mother is naturally no better than others, the eldest lady Mai Xiang started giving birth as soon as she entered the door, gave birth to seven, and lived to have four sons.

Her mother gave birth to five, and lived three, and one of them was that her mother gave birth to her, and her daughter was the only one.

They all have the pain of losing children and daughters, so they will not reveal each other's scars.

Seeing that her mother had the stinky beauty of her daughter, Mai Xiang couldn't give birth to herself, so she urged her daughter-in-law to give birth, but she gave birth to a grandson.

In the end, she gave birth to the second girl of the party's cousin's family and Hua Junyao are the same age, two months older than her, but their seniority is a generation lower.

In short, in terms of the number of children, the eldest mother is completely better than her mother.

The quantity can't be compared, and the quality must not be lost, which is obviously higher than the mother who has been struggling on the survival line and facing the loess with her back to the sky.

Her mother tightened her belt and sent her children to school, thinking that she was in the Women's Rescue Association back then, but she was envious of the scholars in the organization, and she also offered a college student, which was the only one in the village.

The eldest lady just doesn't understand, what's so good about reading, what's the use of reading so much.

You Juying and her second cousin are considered 'intellectuals' in the village! Don't you still beg for a living in the village like them.

After the liberation, the village also opened a literacy class, Mai Xiang, like most people in the village, should not be blind, can write his own name, know men and women, and go to the city to go to the thatched house to walk well.

And if Hua Junyao hadn't been in that movement, she would have been a college student, but Hua Junyao, who was a girl, had already graduated from high school in the village, and she was not the only one in the whole commune.

A girl as big as her in the village basically mixed up in the literacy class, and when she was seventeen or eighteen years old, the family arranged to get married and have children.

Hua Laoshi's family has confidence, not to mention the pension, the carpenter's skill in this hand, and the people can afford the girl and the boy to study together.

Mai Xiang's older generation said that reading was useless, but they couldn't stop the children from thinking the same way, they envied the literate readers, and the people in the city who carried schoolbags to school.

Of course, Hua Jianguo and his four brothers also want to study, but the four children have worked hard to eat, how can the family afford it?

Hua honestly came forward to argue and send his nephews to school, of course, the tuition fee was not given in vain, and the IOU had to be repaid.

Hua Junyao clearly remembered that Hua honestly looked at her nephews and said, "What about the situation at home?" You can also see that even if you smash the pot and sell iron, you can't afford to buy your father and mother. I can only fight for you to get the chance to go to school! Money can be lent to you, but you have to pay it back. What to do? Parents are not your long-term workers, don't think about how much help you will get from the family, think about what you should do for the family? Tuition fees and living expenses can be earned by yourself. If you want to go to school, you go to the city, pick up rags, carry sacks, do coolies, temporary labor, in short, teenagers, have a lot of strength, and are afraid that they won't be able to earn money. I think that when I was as old as you, I had already gone to carpenter apprenticeship, and it was a hard time! ”

I have to say that my father has a foresight, not to mention his own family, just to talk about the uncle's family, Jianguo's cousin is a barefoot doctor after graduating from junior high school, Jianguo cousin graduated from secondary school and is an officer in the commune, Jianjun cousin college students are assigned to work as a clerk in the district government, and Jiefang cousin was named Jiefang because he was born in 1949. After graduating from university, he was a buyer in a department store in a provincial city, and he often traveled south and north by train and car to purchase goods.

For many years, the two families have suffered a lot in order to provide for these children to study, so the cousins respect this second uncle in their hearts, because of his struggle, he persuaded his father and stubborn mother to have the opportunity for them to study, and they have today's achievements.

Hua honestly handed them a reason, that is, there are so many resources in the family, and they can be seen at a glance. If you want to jump out of the farm, you have to fight outward, instead of staring at the palm-sized place at home, knocking on the bone and sucking the marrow It can't pick out the 'gold', but fights and hurts the brotherhood!

On the contrary, in the years of work-study, everyone spit out their bitterness to each other, helped each other, and enhanced their relationship.

So Mai Xiang was even more angry, she could wake up with a smile when her four sons were promising, but she couldn't see her mother, and said that the second uncle's family was not at all. This...... This is still his own son!

There's no way to be angry, the sons are all older, and they all have ideas, and the children can't help it.

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Mai Xiang sat cross-legged on the kang, patted her thighs and howled in the unique voice of rural old ladies, "I have no face to live in the village, you go and listen to what is said outside?" There are all kinds of unpleasant words, it's really unbearable! ”

"Shut up!" Hua Laofu patted the kang table and said.

Frightened, Mai Xiang quickly closed her mouth and looked at her timidly, without a tear in her eyes.

Hua Laofu waved his hand to let the children leave, and only the two of them were left in the room.

"For a while, our men's family will talk, and women are not allowed to interject." Hua Lao said with a straight face, "Is there such a mother as you?" Don't talk about how to persuade the child not to do stupid things, just care about your own face. Do you still look like an elder? He stared at her and said, "Why can't outsiders gossip and force Yaoyao to death, but our own people are mean and despise the child to death." That's really a joke for outsiders. Remember, when we go out, we are a family, and we can't write two Chinese characters in one stroke. ”

"There's a lot of talk in the village." Mai Xiang glanced at him quickly and muttered.