Chapter 535: The Door Is Right
"He! At the age of forty-three, his parents are still alive, and one of his older brothers has died, and he has no marriage history and no children, working at the Institute of Contemporary International Relations. Geng Mei said slowly.
"Ahem......" Hua Junyao was shocked and coughed.
"What's wrong?" Xiao Chubei asked worriedly, "What did Aunt Geng say to scare you?" ”
"Aunt Geng, you're right, he works at the Institute of Contemporary International Relations." Hua Junyao asked again uncertainly.
Xiao Chubei raised his eyebrows when he heard this, "Intelligence officer." ”
"Make no mistake, but he is engaged in technology, and is responsible for the management and research and development of detective technology and equipment." Geng Mei hesitated and said, "Yaoyao! What does this man say? When dealing with other people, you have to have a strong heart and tolerance, and this person's experience is somewhat complicated. But what! If a relationship is really established, he is very responsible for a man and is a responsible man. ”
"I see, thank you, Aunt Geng." Hua Junyao said with a smile.
"By the way, ask me more, who is it?" Aunt Geng wondered, who got the blue eyes of the guy who had been lifeless all day.
"It's Sister Jingshu." Hua Junyao said very simply.
"Huh?" Geng Mei smiled after being surprised, "Tie Han is tender, maybe only Jingshu's gentle and watery personality can make him turn into a finger twister." ”
"Thank you, Aunt Geng, I'm hanging, good night." Hua Junyao said with a smile, "By the way, don't talk about this matter?" Sister Jingshu hasn't told us yet, and this matter hasn't been clarified yet. ”
"Okay, I see, keep it secret! I'm hanging too, good night. Geng Mei smiled.
"Whose phone number?" Li Gensheng came out of the study and said.
"Yaoyao's." Geng Mei put down the phone and said.
"Call at this time, what's important." Li Gensheng asked casually, "Why don't you tell me to listen?" ”
Geng Mei told the matter again, and Li Gensheng smiled, "I didn't expect that stinky boy's peach blossoms to bloom." ”
"Sir, this matter is not yet clear, we will keep it a secret." Geng Mei reminded.
"Yes." Li Gensheng said with a smile, "Looking at Old Man Gan's jokes, it's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity." ”
Geng Mei shook her head speechlessly, saying that the old child is really good.
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Hua Junyao put down the phone, "I can let Aunt Geng know, it seems that my head is not small?" She scratched her head and said, "I'm getting a little worried now." ”
"Worried about what?" Xiao Chubei hugged the little girl in his arms and shook it gently.
"The other party's threshold is too high, I'm afraid that Sister Jingshu won't be able to adapt." Hua Junyao worried, "Although the man's character is very important, in married life, family background and living standards cannot be ignored. ”
"There is still some truth to the right door." Xiao Chubei suddenly sighed.
Hua Junyao raised her eyebrows lightly, and said with a slight smile, "Listening to this, it is obvious that there is a person with life." ”
"What's the life?" Xiao Chubei raised his voice.
"Tsk...... This is a void of heart. Hua Junyao continued to 'add fuel to the fire'.
"You!" Xiao Chubei poked her forehead with his index finger and said, "I'm talking about the gap between urban and rural areas, when I first joined the army, it was too different from the soldiers in the city." "It's embarrassing to think of the past.
Hua Junyao shook his hand understandingly, "'The right person' is not to dislike the poor and love the rich, but to put the objective facts." This traditional concept ostensibly emphasizes the economic and social status of both men and women, but it has its own deep-seated reasons: economic conditions and social status will largely determine whether the parties can have a common language and similar living habits, and whether the marriage can be sustained in the long term. ”
Xiao Chubei continued, "It's easy to fall in love, it's too difficult to get along, and the difference between love and marriage is simply and clearly. ”
"Hmmm! It turns out that when dealing with the object, people do blindly ignore the shortcomings and deficiencies of the other person. This is a kind of 'halo effect' in psychology, and the most typical representative statement is: I don't care about anything else, as long as our relationship is good. If this 'halo effect' can be effective for a long time, it will be fine. But in fact, when the enthusiasm of the other person decreases, many people will find that the other person has more and more 'shortcomings', and they will find that the other person does not feel that the 'shortcomings' are shortcomings. At this time, if the parties cannot reach a compromise, the marriage will break down. Looking back at these 'shortcomings', in fact, most of them are caused by the differences in life experience and living habits of two people - to put it bluntly, it is still a problem of improper doors and wrong households. My consumption habits are often scolded by my mother: a loser. Pouted and said aggrievedly, "Actually, I've been very restrained." ”
"Restraint?" Xiao Chubei had a strong smile in his voice, and if he didn't say anything else, he came back from Yunnan Province, and his daughter-in-law almost didn't empty the department store.
"Do you have an opinion?" Hua Junyao said murderously.
"No, no. It's enough to spend on it, I just don't want you to work hard. Xiao Chubei hurriedly waved his hand and said, "Who is so full of money like you in these years, and you can easily earn millions, I can't imagine it, it's really right to say that you are a money fan." ”
Xiao Chubei's idea is right, ordinary working families are not very sensitive to the concept of making money, and ordinary people's thoughts are enough to have food.
"Don't look at it too much, according to the head, there are not many, and everyone will share 100,000!" Hua Junyao put her hands on her cheeks and said, "When you look at it in a few years, it's all about money!" ”
One billion people, nine hundred million businesses, and another 100 million are opening. The popularity rate of personal entrepreneurship awareness among Chinese people is the highest in the world.
In order to maximize the value of the Chinese individual, in order to solve their own material or spiritual problems, or to get rid of the shackles of work, personal entrepreneurship, and being their own boss are regarded by many Chinese people as the golden road to reach the other side of the ideal.
"One hundred thousand, listen to this tone." Xiao Chubei hugged the little boy and patted it gently, "Money like you will become more and more worthless in your mouth." ”
"Her dad is right, don't you feel that prices have risen a lot in the past two years?" Hua Junyao said very seriously.
"My salary is going up, too?" Xiao Chubei said confidently.
"Ahem......" Hua Junyao covered her face in shame.
"Yaoyao, what's the matter, what are you doing covering your face?" Xiao Chubei asked puzzled, "Did I say the wrong thing?" Thinking about it, he shook his head, "No?" ”
"I'm ashamed, I spend my days instilling in my family the ...... of value-added and investment How did I forget my little girl's father? Hua Junyao put down her hand and looked at him solemnly and said, "Dad, you forgot that you were promoted, and your salary naturally increased, you see if the salary of the company has moved." Even if it rises, will it be able to keep up with the speed of price increases? ”
Xiao Chubei frowned in contemplation, nodded and said, "That's really the case." ”
"How does it feel?" Hua Junyao asked hopefully.
Xiao Chubei put away the smile on his face and said solemnly, "For the sake of our family, I have to continue to work hard and climb up." ”
Syllable...... Hua Junyao slammed her head on the desk all of a sudden, with a loveless face.