"I don't want to live on borrowing anymore. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info God, God, Lord, Buddha, come and help me, see what other resources I can use, can make me money, pay off my debts, even if I live a hard life, I am willing, I can sell a car or a house, as long as I can pay off my debts, I am willing to walk to work or ride a bicycle to work, I am willing to accumulate virtue and do good, not to mention doing one good deed a day, three good deeds a day. I am very content, don't make a fortune, don't want a luxury car, a big house, don't want fancy clothes and food, just live a peaceful and quiet life, teach good books, raise good people, get a good husband, teach good children, do more good deeds if you have spare energy, and make as much contribution as you can to the society......"

Endlessly, the thoughts in Kong Ling's mind surged wave after wave, there were what she wanted and what she didn't want, in general, as long as she could pay off her debts, she was willing to endure hardships or suffer, and give her a peaceful and undisturbed life.

She suddenly wanted to call Li Jun, a good friend of the Heart Association, if it wasn't for Li Jun's invitation some time ago, how could she have the money to participate in such a high-end hypnosis training. Li Jun is a well-known national second-level psychological counselor in S City, met at a mental health seminar, just in his early forties, three years older than Kong Ling, but his actual age is much younger, because he often practices yoga, his body shape, temperament and demeanor are excellent. Kong Ling really wanted to hear what advice this Sister Li, whom she admired very much, could give.

Let's talk about fighting, ask Li Jun to go to the coffee house attached to the S City Library at 4 o'clock in the afternoon, and talk to her about the economic situation of her family, maybe she can give good advice?

Li Jun came as promised, she wore a red cotton and linen Zen robe, black shawl and long hair, her face was fair and delicate, her seal hall was shining, and she walked into the café with a small handbag embroidered with white lotus flowers on a red background.

Kong Ling hurriedly stood up, stepped forward and held Li Jun's hand with both hands, "Sister Li, thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to go to the appointment, I am really bored in my heart, I have to talk to you." ”

"Okay, let's sit down and talk if there's anything to say." Li Jun took the lead in sitting down.

Kong Ling asked Li Jun what he wanted to drink, and Li Jun said, "Let's latte." Kong Ling ordered a latte for Li Jun and himself, and chatted while drinking. As soon as Kong Ling spoke, the boredom and thoughts that had been pressed in her heart for a long time poured out like a reservoir that had opened the floodgates, pouring out everything that had happened to her family in the past few years and all the sufferings she had suffered in front of this fairy-like eldest sister. After that, his eyes were full of anticipation and staring at Li Jun.

"Kong Ling, I heard you say so much, in fact, there is only one problem at the center of the expression, which is to pay off huge debts, right?"

"Yes, Sister Li, if it weren't for the debt problem, our family would be doing well."

"Your thinking and approach to economic distress have gone wrong, resulting in not only not only not reducing the debt in recent years, but even increasing, right?"

"yes, the pit is digging more and more, and it is almost unfillable."

"Then you know that the method is wrong and can't solve the problem, so don't you think of other ideas and methods?"

"I think about it, there is no other way of thinking and method."

"You also have a small supermarket in your family?"

"Yes, except for two employees who pay salaries, you can't make much money."

"I heard that your husband has a wide range of connections, if you can make good use of this network to increase the sales of your small supermarket, do you think it is feasible?"

"Of course it works, thank you for the tip. Sister Li, to be honest, we have both been busy and dizzy in the past few years, and we only care about borrowing and repaying the money, so we don't think about making full use of the resources we have at hand. In fact, my husband is very popular, and there are only two or three thousand people on the mobile phone address book, no less than that, if you don't talk about this, I really didn't expect it. The location of our small supermarket is located at the entrance of a living community, there are many residential communities nearby, it stands to reason that it should be profitable, but neither of our hearts are on it, and we have not done a good sales plan. ”

"We are clear about your husband's advantages and resources, but what about your own resources? Do you know yourself? Do you know what you can do? You have precious treasures buried in you that you don't know about, and I think that when you encounter such a predicament, it is actually the heavens that awaken you to explore your own potential. If this is not the case, your potential is likely to be buried, and a lot of resources will be wasted. I sincerely hope that Kong Ling you will look inside you, hypnosis you have also learned, you can try to hypnosis yourself, to see what kind of belief system is working within you, so that you can withstand the test of this dilemma. ”

"My resources? My strengths? My advantages? I don't really think much about that. I've always felt that I can't be ordinary, and I've always wanted to live an ordinary life, and my only strength may be that I love to learn. Psychology in particular, I especially like it. And reading, I like to immerse myself in books. ”

"Do you like to write?"

"Like. I kept a diary when I was in high school and college, but I stopped writing after graduating from college, and I stopped writing after so many years, and I spent so many years in such a mess. ”

"So have you ever thought about using your hobby writing to make money? Now is the era of national writing, you look at how many online writers make millions a month, if you can write a good bestseller, can your family's debt be cleared? ”

Kong Ling's eyes became brighter and brighter the more he listened, "Yes, I can write, so that I can take care of my hobbies and make money, which is really feasible." But I'm worried that what I'm writing will be read by readers? ”

"Kong Ling, you remember, everyone is a unique existence, no two people in the world have exactly the same experience, just like the world does not have the same two leaves, show your own unique side, I believe, as long as you write your own unique things, please believe that there will be readers who will support you. Please believe that I will be your eternal reader and support you! ”

"Thank you so much Sister Li. You are truly my nobleman, and it is one of my greatest blessings to know you. Talking to you about this, my heart is really much brighter, and I feel that I am now full of confidence and hope for my future life. When I go home, I will pass on this faith and hope to my husband, and we will both face the difficulties together. ”

Li Jun looked at Kong Ling with a smile and said softly to her, "Don't thank me, the person you really want to thank is yourself, and you yourself are your nobleman." If you don't want to change yourself, no one can change you. Remember, no one in this world can help you solve your own problems, it is your problems, and you have to face them yourself to solve them. When you feel like you don't have a resource available, it's best to turn yourself into a resource first. When you don't have your thighs to hold, when you're alone and without help, and when it looks like the whole world is failing you, the best way to break free and be sober is to ask yourself what you've done for yourself. And the transformation of life is not obtained by chicken soup, not by listening to reason, or even by the inspiration of the people around you, but by your own daily changes. Remember, there is no future, the present is the future. Start changing yourself now and create your own life. ”

Li Jun's words triggered Kong Ling's deep thought, and after returning home, Kong Ling tried to share the new thoughts he gained today with Li Sheng. Li Sheng's train of thought also seemed to be opened up in an instant. He said excitedly, "I'm starting to take action now, calling at least five friends every day to promote products, and if all my friends in my circle of friends buy one product from our supermarket every month, we will be rich." I'm too confident about this. ”

And Kong Ling also shared with Li Sheng that he wanted to write a book as an online writer, and Li Sheng also expressed his full support.

Li Sheng and Kong Ling's mood hadn't been so relaxed for a long time, the darkness before dawn seemed to have passed, would it be the coming dawn waiting for them, or another violent storm.