"Yuxin, in fact, over the years, I have thought a lot, about why I am so attracted to Ye Ling, why he always refuses to marry me" Ling Ran said slowly while stirring papaya snow clam juice, "I am so addicted to him, in fact, it is not because he is rich and handsome, but because he is an elite, and why he refuses to marry me is not because I am not white and rich enough, but because I am from a medium-sized family and have medium qualifications." ”

"The classmates in the class thought that I was sent to the door by myself to be played by Ye Ling in vain, because he was in good condition. I used to think so at one time, because he was in good condition, because I was climbing him, so I didn't have to be cheeky, regardless of shame, and used my body to seduce him to please him, in order to marry him and ascend to the sky. ”

"But in the five years of separation, I learned from the pain, and I was finally able to rationally review and analyze, I asked myself, what are his conditions, and why am I so eager to have him?"

"Ye Ling's parents are very status-oriented, but they are not rich. What they can leave to their son, in terms of assets, is far inferior to a small boss of a township enterprise; in terms of career, Ye Ling is indeed a young man with a bright future, but he is not a second-generation official or a third-generation official, not to mention that his parents are from other provinces, even if they have some connections, they are also in the local area. A person has to climb up by working hard, and he is so busy that he has to pinch the table when he gets in bed with a woman, and the first consideration for marrying a wife is who his father-in-law is, which means that he has lost at the starting line. ”

"In addition, is he handsome? Yes, he is handsome and dashing, and has a good demeanor, but in terms of appearance and figure alone, he is not as good as a special student; In short, although he has good conditions in all aspects, objectively speaking, that is, the conditions are a little better than me in all aspects, and marrying him will definitely not be able to ascend to the sky, on the contrary, I have to always worry about whether he will meet a girl who can let him ascend to the sky in one step and divorce me immediately. ”

"For 5 years, I have been asking myself, why is there a special student who is more handsome than him, a handsome white guy who is better than him, and although the conditions are slightly worse than him in all aspects, but he is also a graduate of a prestigious school, with a promising future, and Qi Junyi, who has a solid family background, can't give me the same feeling, in fact, they are all clouds on the horizon for me, whether they have been in love or not. And Ye Ling, five years later, is still the same hurdle that fell to me, thinking about it, I really want to tear him apart. Ling Ran began to lose her temper.

Li Yuxin was funny: "May all shameless cheap men in the world be HIV positive." ”

Ling Ran controlled her emotions and tried to sort out her thoughts clearly: "Yuxin, you see, I was born in a top middle-class family, I grew up in a superior family, with a good economy, plus I am favored, plus I am beautiful, since middle school, I have been chased and praised by others. Before I met Ye Ling, I had always lived a very unrestrained life, I wanted whatever I wanted at home, and I could do whatever I wanted outside, and at the same time, I was ambitious, willful and naïve, careless and squeamish. ”

"When I graduated from college, all my goals in life were two, one was to find a stable and high-paying job and make a living. So my mother arranged for me to enter the securities department under the state-owned bank, I was late for work, left early after work, dozed off at work, and easily got 8,000 a month. The second is to find a husband with good conditions and handsome appearance, the kind that I bully and pinch whatever I want, and the whole family, including my in-laws, have to hold me as a princess. With my conditions, it's really not too easy to find this kind of man, for example, ready-made, Qi Junyi is. ”

"A man like Qi Junyi, the biggest luxury in this life is to meet a woman like me, with good family conditions, good personal conditions, beautiful appearance, and poor temper, just like him, he can drink and train him, so that he can achieve his life goals, can satisfy his desire to be conquered, can devote himself to being a wife slave, can be willing to do all the housework from now on, and pay all the wages, he can whisper every day, endure his wife's picking, and make trouble unreasonably, so that he is satisfied, and his life is perfect”

Li Yuxin smiled: "Hey, don't say it, Qi Junyi is really this kind of person." Over the years, his girlfriend has changed one after another, all for the same reason: he can't find a feeling. It seems that he just can't find a woman who abuses him so fiercely. ”

Ling Ran rolled her eyes twice at the ceiling: "That's it, do you think it's easy to find a girl with conditions like me? Qi Junyi wants a woman with a little better conditions than him, so that he can suppress him, to convince him, to have a family condition that is a little better than him, to have a higher IQ and education than him, to pressure him a little bit with his work salary, to be a little more beautiful, to have a strong attitude, to have a bad temper a little bit of everything, how many people to filter out, where can he find it?"

"A man like Qi Junyi is still very picky, he is very idealistic, and he is unwilling to marry easily if he doesn't find a woman who makes him cheap. The girls he has met over the years have enough personal conditions, not enough family conditions: family conditions are enough, appearance and temper are not enough: everything is enough, such as me, why are you looking for you Qi Junyi, anyway, you are not as good as me, you just want to be a spare tire, I will grab a lot of men like you, go, line up in the back" Ling Ran cocked his thumb and shook the back of his shoulder.

Li Yuxin laughed so much that her chopsticks were about to fall, and Shao Chengzhi was also smiling sullenly on the other side.

Ling Ran sighed softly and returned to the original topic: "Before I met Ye Ling, I have always been a beautiful, pampered, immature little girl, my life is rich and mediocre, I have always had a faint dissatisfaction, I feel that my life is very boring and boring, like a pool of stagnant water, but I don't know what I lack, and I don't know where to find it." So I have nothing to do with it, I went to chase the special admissions, thinking that he could give me a thrilling love, in fact, he is thrilling, after being with him, I have to add the greasy taste to him, and I am almost tired of dying. ”

Then Ye Ling appeared, both elegant and noble, but also domineering, both suave and shameless. Ling Ran smiled bitterly, "It is indeed very charismatic, attracting countless beauties to bend their waists - investment bank dogs like back-entry style." ”

"At first, I was really attracted to his playboy appearance, and I felt that only a man like this could show off his might in front of the special admissions. But if he is really just a playboy, then he is just a passerby who comes to me, how can I waste years for him. ”

Li Yuxin was slightly surprised: "Isn't he?"

Ling Ran couldn't figure it out: "Well, he, maybe, but this has nothing to do with my problem." Ye Ling's real lethality here is that he is an elite. He was the first elite man I met, sharp, alert, intellectually mature, logical, responsive, decisive in decision-making, and, of course, ambitious, selfish, and ruthless. This is the first time I have met a person, whether in terms of intelligence, will, perseverance, is far beyond my reach, and it is also the first time that someone has shown in front of me the elite thinking mode, analytical ability, work attitude I was indeed spiritually conquered by him, and his strong willpower pressed me. I'm obsessed with him because I obey him. ”

Ling Ran smiled bitterly: "Before I met him, I always thought very highly of myself, I thought that I was talented and good-looking, and the conditions were good, and all men in the world should line up to pick and choose with me, after knowing him, I realized that I was actually mediocre in intelligence and short-sighted, and the only thing I could do was my appearance and figure." But if you want to trap an elite man, it's really not enough to rely on your appearance and figure, and I finally managed to dominate his bed, but I still can't get a marriage certificate. The mind of the elite man is very clear, he knows what he needs, he also knows what he is most valuable, and he knows how he should exchange what he has for what he needs. Ordinary men will not be firm in their will because they are tempted, and they will give up halfway because of lack of perseverance, but elite men will not, and the reason why elite men are elite men is because they have a cooler mind, a stronger will, and more tenacious perseverance than ordinary men, so they can do things that ordinary men can't do. ”

Ling Ran sighed: "My brain is dry, and the agency calculates to win him, but in the end it turns out that it is useless." He wouldn't marry me because I didn't have what he wanted. Not only because I don't have a strong background, but also because I don't have enough qualifications, if I were a young female executive with an annual salary of millions, or a female private equity manager in the financial circle, even if I don't have a good father, he will marry me. Marriage is based on equality, family conditions or his own conditions, as long as I have one worthy of him, he will marry me, but I have none, only appearance and figure and being on call, so he is only willing to sleep with me, and refuses to marry me. for I am not worthy of his marriage at all. ”

Shao Chengzhi felt a pain in his heart inexplicably, and almost wanted to jump up and interfere: You are taking other people's selfish snobbery as your own fault, how can you belittle yourself so much, smart people will reflect on themselves later, but they should not overkill