014. Dialogue between two civilized people

Rochard is a descendant of the Banya people, and it has been a long time since his ancestors arrived on the Mizhou continent, where the country of Mijian is located. His father is a native of the United States, who has been engaged in manufacturing all his life, and is a standard blue-collar worker, but he was lucky not to be laid off because of the shrinkage of the local manufacturing industry in the United States, and worked until retirement.

This was a very ordinary family in the United States back then, far from reaching the elite. But Rochard was the pride of his parents, and a year after graduating from college, he was admitted to the Faculty of Medicine at Hopford University. In the United States, you can't directly study medicine after graduating from high school, you must first go through undergraduate general education and get a bachelor's degree before you can apply for the exam.

The Faculty of Medicine at Hopford University has a four-year study period, the acceptance rate is quite low, and the tuition fee is very high, so it is not easy to graduate successfully. After graduating, Rogrid worked as a resident physician for four years, and then worked as a full-fledged specialist for another six years.

Rochand, who majored in psychology as an undergraduate, was in arrears with student loans, which his father helped him pay off before applying for medical school. However, the tuition fee of Hefu Medical College was too high, so he had to pay off his student loan slowly after graduation. Ten years after Rochard graduated and started working, he finally paid off his student loan once again, having become a specialist attending physician.

He was thirty-seven years old, married, had two children, a boy and a girl, had a dog at home, and had a house in the suburbs. No matter how you look at it, he belongs to the elite of the so-called middle class, and has an enviable happy life, but this year he encountered a series of changes.

The attending physician was busy, at least at the hospital where Rogrid worked, and he was constantly on duty. Perhaps because of this, he neglected to care about his wife, who got involved with the baseball coach of the local school.

After Rochard found out, his wife filed for divorce in a showdown and hired the best local lawyer for "performance". In the end, the judge awarded custody of the two children to the mother, along with the house and dog, while Rochard had visitation rights to the two children and paid monthly child support.

Rochard moved into a motel with his personal belongings, while his wife's boyfriend, the baseball coach, moved into his old house. The two lived together over there, but they were not married, and according to the law, Rochard needed to continue to pay child support.

Hua Zhenxing couldn't help but muttered to himself when he heard this: someone slept with his wife, lived in his house, and took care of his children, and he had to give people money to spend every month. It took him twenty years to get schooled, another ten years to work hard, and then it all ...... There is no worse misery in life than this!

But there's something even worse. This accident left Rogrid physically and mentally exhausted, his mood became very low, and his mental state was also very poor. In this situation, the usual advice you can give is to see a psychologist.

But it doesn't work, Rogrid's own undergraduate study of psychology can't change the status quo. He often felt mentally exhausted and unable to concentrate at work, so he started using illegal drugs.

At first, Rogrid didn't consider himself a mouth-to-mouther, and he used calming drugs that stabilized his mood, and his status as a doctor made it easy for him to get his hands on them. But the long-term use of such drugs will have more and more serious consequences, once he did not inject in time, as a result, he almost had a medical accident, and then everything was exposed......

It was a scandal for the hospital, and it was not disclosed to the public, but it spread throughout the industry. Rochard lost his job, no medical facility would hire him again, and he had to pay monthly child support.

Statutory maintenance in Rochard's state is not calculated on the basis of income level, but on the standard of living of the woman and the children before the divorce. With no income, he could not afford to pay child support, went bankrupt without incident, and of course could not afford to live in a motel, and became a homeless man sleeping on the streets, and his daily life was to pick up rags and receive handouts.

Hearing this, Hua Zhenxing sighed. Rochard was born in an ordinary blue-collar working family, was admitted to medical school, and became a specialist attending physician, which is enough to prove his hard work and excellence, and from a personal point of view, he can be regarded as the elite of the elite, but he ended up on the streets, becoming a luther of lutors.

After living on the streets, Rochard had already given up on himself, and he began to smoke other DU products, and for a time he was just waiting for death. At this time, his father, whom he had not seen for three years, found him and first sent him to drug rehabilitation. An old friend of my father's who used to work for Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) introduced him to Port Feso.

This is the story of Roshand. Speaking of this, the doctor sighed: "After coming to the port of Africa, I completely quit drugs. There are people here who need me every day, and everyone respects me, and there are still places like this in the world. You may think I'm here to save people, but it's also Philosophora that saved me – saved my life and my life. ”

Was it the place that saved Rochard from Port Feso? That seems to make sense. Rogrid is indeed very respected here, and in the eyes of the locals, he is a big man from the United States, and even more popular than the doctors who were born and raised in the country for several miles. But who would have thought that before coming to Porto Feso, he would be a homeless man waiting to die of poison and poison?

Hua Zhenxing asked in a low voice: "Have you ever thought about how all this was caused from the roots?" What was the most important part of the changes that happened to you and changed your life? ”

Rochard was obviously still immersed in the past, and seemed to say to himself: "My ex-wife, she hired a good lawyer, what a very powerful lawyer!" ”

Hua Zhenxing was speechless for a while, and it was not good to continue to argue, and then asked, "How old are you this year?" ”

Rochard: "Forty. ”

Hua Zhenxing: "How long did you live on the streets before your father found you?" ”

Rohard: "For almost a year, he looked for me for a few months, and hired a private investigator for this. ”

Hua Zhenxing: "You said that you haven't seen your father for three years at that time, even if you wander for a year, why haven't you seen each other in the first two years?" ”

Rochard: "We don't usually see each other, but I send him greeting cards during the holidays...... Three years ago, my ex-wife and I went to my parents' house with our children. ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Do you only go to visit at Christmas, how many times have you met since you joined the work?" ”

Rochard: "There were three times, two of them with an ex-wife and children, after the birth of a son and daughter. ”

According to Rochard's account, Hua Zhenxing has the most basic understanding that an ordinary blue-collar worker's family has cultivated a high-achieving student who graduated from Hefu Medical College, and his father also helped the child pay off the student loan during his undergraduate years. After his son lived on the streets, his father specially invited a private detective to find him, then sent him to drug rehabilitation, and then found a relationship to introduce him to overseas as a doctor.

If this were not the case, it would not have been the turn of the port of Africa to "save" Dr. Law. Dr. Law has an enviable father, and many children in Philosophora do not have a father at all. However, in the 10 years since Dr. Law joined the workforce, he has only seen his parents three times during Christmas.

Looking at Dr. Luo's appearance, he thought that he was normal and is normal now, but it was not normal for a while. Hua Zhenxing didn't know what to say, Dr. Luo was a native of the United States, and he didn't have the three old men in the grocery store to teach him since he was a child.

Luo Chard is not stupid, although Hua Zhenxing didn't say anything, he can also taste it, squinted his eyes slightly and said: "I know what you want to say, my father has paid a lot for me, and I did ignore him, but you may not understand a real Mi Jian people, the cultural traditions of Mi Jian are different from your Dongguo." ”

Hua Zhenxing: "It's not something you understand, the situation is not that complicated, it's just a matter of whether you agree with it or not." Do you think that after saying this, you will be able to feel at ease? ”

Seeing that Rogrid didn't answer, he thought for a while and said, "Now that the network information is so developed, it's not that I don't know about the United States at all, at least not all the fathers of the United States can be like your father, and you are not as good as your father." ”

After all, he is a child, and he could not have said what he said later, although he was telling the truth, he was very faceless. Rogrid pondered for a moment before he spoke: "People often ignore those who have always cared about him, but tend to care about those who have not, this is called the threshold effect, which is a psychological phenomenon in the subconscious.

In principle, someone who has always cared for you is equivalent to a constant stimulus, and you need a stronger stimulus if you want to continue to feel satisfied. And those who don't pay attention to you, their attention will immediately bring you new satisfaction......"

Hua Zhenxing: "Well, this can also be called the cheapness effect, so what? ”

Rohard: "It's nothing, I just studied psychology and know that there is such an effect." ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Then do you want to tell me about the Franklin effect next?" People tend to have a good impression of the people they have helped, but tend to ignore the people who have helped them. Well, Old Man Yang called it licking the dog and the white-eyed wolf effect. ”

Rochard was surprised: "How do you understand this, did Yang teach you?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "These things are not cheats, you can learn from me." ”

As Rogrid said, everyone needs to have a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. Hua Zhenxing's biggest hobby since childhood is to understand the unknown, which is his achievement and satisfaction. There are only so many textbooks for primary and secondary schools, which are really not enough for him to read, and he has already read them all three years ago.

Hua Zhenxing usually asks Old Man Yang for advice when he has questions. Old man Yang would basically discuss it with him, and then recommend him which aspect to look at. Nowadays, the network information is very developed, but if you want to understand the problem, you must not only contact the fragmented information, but also take the initiative to learn systematically.

Uncle Mo and Ke Fuzi will do the same, they didn't deliberately train Hua Zhenxing in any professional direction, but just told Hua Zhenxing when he had questions: Many people have had the same questions throughout the ages, let's see how everyone solves or answers them.

Rochard didn't know how Hua Zhenxing grew up, so he was surprised, and he asked, "Can you remember all this?" ”

Hua Zhenxing thought about it, and didn't dare to brag too much: "It's not about remembering, but about knowing." If I hadn't learned any of this at all, and I didn't agree with you, would you talk about the Newtonian effect or the Duck effect? These psychological effects do exist, but that's not how you use them, do you? ”

Rochard: "Hua, what do you want to say?" ”

Hua Zhenxing asked rhetorically, "Doctor Luo, what did you want to say just now?" ”

Rochard bowed his head and said, "I may not be good enough, and I know what you mean." I'm just analyzing what causes certain situations, such as the threshold effect, which is a kind of human psychological instinct and a part of human nature. ”

Hua Zhenxing blinked his eyes and quoted what Ke Fuzi said a few years ago: "There is a cause for existence, but for people, not everything is taken for granted, otherwise what is the use of wisdom?"

The heart of man is not nature, nor is it instinct, otherwise how different is it from plants and trees, and from animals and animals? Seeing a beautiful woman and lustful is instinctive, but when you see a beautiful woman on the street and pounce on it, that is a beast! ”

This passage of Kefuzi is to teach Hua Zhenxing how to interpret "self-denial and retribution for benevolence", which can be understood differently in different eras, but its ideological core is the same. When Kefuzi said this, he vaguely sighed that after many years and many eras, it seemed to be back to the beginning after coming to the port of Africa.

Speaking of this, Hua Zhenxing remembered another passage that Ke Fuzi had said, so he changed his tone and said: "Finding reasons for your behavior is called attribution in psychology, right?" The book talks about external attribution and internal attribution, but there is another kind of attribution that is not mentioned in the book, and which was also told to me by an old man, that is, in your case. ”

Rocchild wondered, "What attribution?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Attribute to God, or to the Creator, and attribute the problem to human nature, as if as long as human beings make some kind of mistake, God has created people like this." But is that really the case, when you can realize and analyze the so-called human nature, it is not like this! Otherwise, what is the difference between humans and paramecium? ”

Roshand: "You still know paramecium?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Why do you think I shouldn't know about the things in middle school biology textbooks?" ”

Rochard nodded and said, "You are still a child, and the words you just said were told to you by others or seen in books, but you can't say them yourself." ”

Hua Zhenxing: "It's true that others told me. I know what you mean, you know what it is, and then you know why it is, and then you can do it. That's what a couple of old men in my family said the same. ”

Rogrid suddenly laughed: "Are we discussing academic issues?" I thought I was on the run! ”

Hua Zhenxing also smiled: "Let's chat." ”

Rochard: "yes, chat! Being able to chat like this shows that we are all civilized people. You are young, but you give me the feeling that I think I have a treasure. ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Really? I think so too. ”

Luo Chard looked at Hua Zhenxing, and the more he looked at it, the more curious he felt, although the person in front of him knew a lot, he was still a child. The conversation just now is a child's eagerness to express his opinion, arguing with others and looking for recognition, and at the same time with a kind of show-off insight and eagerness to try.

Luo Chard is indeed very good at analyzing, at least he sees Hua Zhenxing's mentality at the moment very clearly. At this time, Hua Zhenxing asked again: "Doctor Luo, you haven't told me why someone wants to kill you?" ”

Rogrid lowered his eyes and said, "Let's talk about it tomorrow, you should rest." I'll keep vigil and call you in two hours. ”

Hua Zhenxing got up and walked to the tent: "Can I ask you one more thing, you have nothing in Mijian Country, what are you going to do when you go back?" ”

Rogrid raised his head slightly and said: "Who said I have nothing, I have found my life!" Where I was once abandoned, I am now going to conquer it and get back everything I deserve! His eyes seemed to glow with confidence in the night.

Hua Zhenxing was slightly stunned, it seems that Doctor Luo should have gained something in Feisuo Port, and he will become very confident after returning to Mi Jianguo, and he may have attracted a chase because of this. But since Dr. Luo doesn't want to say it now, he can't force him to ask, just wait for tomorrow.

When he returned to the tent, he did not immediately lie down to sleep, but still sat upright and stared, and called up the "system" in his consciousness to take a look, only to find that the progress bar of "Task 2" was actually about one-fifth complete.

The content of task 2 is to "investigate the inside story of the Big Heads trying to kill Dr. Rochard". It seems that this is a phased task, and progress has been made through a long conversation tonight, although the final truth has not yet been clarified.

The reward for task 2 is 30,000 meters of gold, and even if this stance is not completely completed in the end, you may get at least 6,000 meters of gold. Hua Zhenxing is now wondering, in what way will these rice gold appear, is it falling from the sky?