Since people are here to apologize, Hua Zhenxing is not good at driving people away with a straight face, just like Director Niu said, he has to give people a chance to reflect and admit their mistakes.

Qiao Yugao is twenty-seven this year, if he listens to the accent, some people may think that Hua Zhenxing is his hometown. Although Hua Zhenxing opened the door and let him in and asked him to sit down and talk, he was still a little unhappy in his heart.

Is an apology that has to be made under pressure a real apology?

But no matter what, Qiao Yugao still came, which shows that the right and wrong judgment mechanism of a society is still normal, and people know that he is not doing it right, otherwise Hua Zhenxing would have no way to complain; It also shows that the social error correction mechanism is still running, otherwise no one will put pressure on him.

In the former country of several miles, the mechanism of judging right and wrong is no longer normal, and the error correction mechanism is no longer operating, that is, the hell of the people in the bottom block, so the new alliance will fight hard.

Hua Zhenxing couldn't help but think of Aden's experience, when the thugs on the plantation were free to let the dogs bite those slave laborers. Therefore, Hua Zhenxing cherishes the current country of several miles even more, and also likes the current eastern country.

Since I like Dongguo, of course, I am even more unhappy when I see Qiao Yugao.

If Qiao Yugao was sincere enough, he shouldn't let Director Niu touch the nail, but took the initiative to apologize to Hua Zhenxing first, at least he could come with Director Niu. Is it because Qiao is not smart enough to think of this? Of course not!

If Hua Zhenxing had signed the processing receipt yesterday, I am afraid that he would not have been able to wait for Qiao Yugao himself.

Hua Zhenxing has a quality that makes many people unpleasant, that is, the innocence and seriousness of an idealist. It was originally just a few sentences, but it didn't cause substantial serious consequences, and Qiao Yugao himself was beaten, so why bother?

But Hua Zhenxing knows very well that it is impossible for every student to be Shi Shuangcheng, let alone everyone is him Hua Zhenxing, and the probability of Qiao Yugao meeting people like them is too small.

In most cases, Qiao Yugao will neither be beaten nor punished, which inevitably gives him the illusion that what he does should neither be beaten nor punished. How could Hua Zhenxing give him such an illusion?

Qiao Yugao's mood was very uneasy, he was worried about something, which Hua Zhenxing could directly understand. Although Hua Zhenxing has not cultivated Buddhism, he still has the ability to sense emotions, and after sitting down, he said straight to the point: "Teacher Qiao, what are you looking for me?" ”

Seeing that Hua Zhenxing's attitude was acceptable, Qiao Yugao breathed a sigh of relief and said in a sincere tone: "Classmate Hua, I'm here to apologize to you!"

At that time, in front of Shi Shuangcheng, I really just accidentally said the wrong thing. I have already admitted my mistakes to the leader, and I will admit them to you today......"

It is impossible for Hua Zhenxing to ask, "What are you doing wrong?" "This is not a couple quarrel, and with the level of the department leader, when criticizing Qiao Yugao, he must have analyzed it very clearly.

So Hua Zhenxing just listened quietly, wanting to see what Qiao Yugao's purpose was?

After Qiao Yugao apologized, he took out the latest nectarine mobile phone from his handbag, put it on the table and said, "This is my little apology, please accept it!" ”

Hua Zhenxing smiled, pushed the phone back and said, "There is no need for gifts, please take them back, I will not accept them." ”

Qiao Yugao was anxious: "This is my apology, please accept my apology!" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "I accept the apology, and I won't accept it." ”

Qiao Yugao was pleasantly surprised: "Is classmate Hua willing to accept the apology?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "I've never been unwilling!" Why don't I accept what should be done? ”

Qiao Yugao: "So are you willing to forgive me?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "If you are truly repentant, of course I will not blame you now." ”

Qiao Yugao took out the receipt that Director Niu brought yesterday: "Then please sign this material, and you don't need to withdraw the complaint in person, but the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs still need you to withdraw the complaint yourself."

You need to make a separate trip, so please accept the gift! If you have any other requests, don't forget to bring them up. ”

Hua Zhenxing narrowed his eyes: "I accept the apology, but I can't accept the gift, I can't sign it, and the complaint can't be withdrawn." ”

Qiao was stunned: "Didn't you just say that you were willing to forgive me?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Is that what you mean by forgiveness?" ”

Qiao Yugao: "What else can that mean?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "It seems that you don't quite understand the meaning of the apology. The so-called apology represents an attitude of admitting that you have made mistakes. If people think they have not done anything wrong, but they have been unjustly punished, they can stand their ground.

From my standpoint, of course I think you are wrong, so you come to apologize, of course I am willing to accept it. I don't blame you for apologizing now, I'm complaining about your wrong words and deeds, and the two are not the same thing.

Admitting mistakes is not a punishment, but a kind of self-rescue, and it is impossible to correct words and deeds without admitting mistakes. If you do admit your mistake, you should accept my complaint instead of asking me to withdraw it.

Suppose you use apologizing as a means to force the people you hurt and offended to tolerate your hurt and offense. It's not really admitting mistakes, it's about getting the other person to accept your mistakes.

A real apology should not be demanded from the victim. Using an apology to force the victim to express his position, just to let himself escape punishment, is actually a secondary injury to the victim.

In reality, many victims may say, 'I don't ask for anything but an apology.'" This is often because they are powerless to punish those who hurt them, and can only hope that society's mechanism for judging right and wrong is still normal.

The so-called forgiveness means that only those who have the power to punish you are qualified to forgive you. I don't have any punishment for you, and I don't have the authority to punish you, so I'm not in a position to forgive you. ”

Qiao Yugao was a little confused, but he still keenly grasped the last sentence and said eagerly: "Why are you not qualified?" You can complain as a complainant, as long as you sign this acknowledgment and withdraw the complaint......"

Hua Zhenxing interrupted him: "My complaint just describes a fact. If you think it doesn't match the facts, you can point it out or refute it.

For example, if someone else's child does something wrong, his parents will discipline him, and it doesn't matter if I forgive him. It is the school that has the power to punish you, not because you have offended me, but because you have violated the rules of the school and the Ministry of Education.

I have no right to revise the discipline requirements of Primavera University for faculty and staff, and the regulations of the Ministry of Education of Dongguo, let alone for you, which is a matter for the Ministry of Education and the school.

The punishment itself is not a problem, but why and how the punishment is reasonable, this is the real problem. ”

Qiao Yugao was really anxious: "But if you don't withdraw your complaint to show your understanding, the school may expel me!" You didn't know that your complaint was taken seriously by that leader, and there is pressure on the school side now. ”

Hua Zhenxing actually laughed again: "Expelled you? It's not that serious. Sometimes the punishment also depends on the attitude of admitting the mistake, since the facts have happened, I will not withdraw the complaint, but I can write a note that you have come to me to apologize. ”

Qiao Yugao: "What if the school really wants to expel me?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "When you say that, it reminds me of a person, his surname is Ding, and he is a teacher I respect very much. Mr. Ding is very similar to some of your experiences, he used to be a teaching assistant and a full-time doctor at a major university.

Later he made a mistake and was expelled from school. I asked him about it, and he said it was the price he should pay. Mr. Ding, whom I know, is definitely a respectable person, and now he has made extraordinary achievements! ”

As he spoke, Hua Zhenxing took out an A4 piece of paper and wrote a note:

"On the evening of September 21, 2023, Mr. Qiao Yugao came to the dormitory to apologize to me in person for my inappropriate words and deeds. I accepted his apology and rejected the gift he brought (a nectarine phone).

After Mr. Qiao apologized, he asked me to sign the prepared school processing receipt (with photo), but I did not sign it. He also asked me to withdraw my two complaints to the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, to which I did not agree.

It is hereby clarified.

Hua Zhenxing, 21 September 2023"

After writing, he handed the paper to Qiao Yugao. Qiao Samarium glanced twice, his face changed, and he stared at Hua Zhenxing and said, "You just write me such an explanation?" ”

Hua Zhenxing asked rhetorically, "Isn't it the truth?" ”

Qiao Samarium threw the paper away with a shake of his hand, and said in a stern tone: "Hua Zhenxing, if the school punishes me, have you ever thought about what price you will pay?" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "Do you want to do it with me?" I suggest that you better dispel such thoughts. ”

Qiao Yugao: "You will offend many people, including teachers. Chunhua University also has a rule that if you don't get enough credits, you can't graduate, and if you fail too many subjects in the exam, you will be discouraged. ”

Hua Zhenxing: "You don't have to worry about it!" If I am disciplined and pass every exam, there is no reason why I can't get a diploma, right? ”

Qiao Yugao: "You think beautifully!" Your parents got such a nationality for you, and you finally entered Chunhua University, you must have tried your best, right? What happens if you are dissuaded from school?

Do you really think you got in based on your skills? The school takes good care of you international students, and the teachers are generally not embarrassed, and usually give you a pass if they can pass, but this is not necessarily the case for you! ”

Hua Zhenxing: "You mean that if I don't agree to your request, you will go to the teachers of various subjects and deliberately refuse to give me a pass?" You don't seem to be able to care about this kind of thing! ”

Qiao Yugao: "You don't need me to do anything, don't you know what the situation is in your heart?" It's not me who offends you, it's the whole group of teachers, as long as you give you a grade truthfully, do you think you can pass and graduate? Not to mention scholarships! ”

Hua Zhenxing said with a smile: "I don't believe that Chunhua's teachers are all people like you, and I fully understand your intention to come today, are you threatening me?" ”

His appearance was simply too hateful, and Qiao Yugao said hatefully: "I didn't threaten you, I just told you a fact!" You are also from the East, you must know that you should leave a line in life and see each other in the future! ”

Hua Zhenxing pointed to the bed next to him, and there was a laptop with an open but black screen: "I will also tell you a fact, the camera of this notebook has been turned on all the time, and the conversation we just had was recorded." ”

Qiao Yugao panicked instantly, subconsciously stood up and rushed forward, reaching out to grab the laptop. He actually did it, and then there was a flower in front of him, and then he was dizzy for a long time.

When he came back to his senses, he found that he was lying in the green belt outside the dormitory building, due to the darkness of the sky and the barrier of the honeysuckle hedge, the passing classmates did not even notice that the bag containing the mobile phone case was also placed on his chest.

Hua Zhenxing's dormitory is on the second floor, if he falls from the window, although he may not die, but he will not be unharmed, the more critical question is - how did he lie here?

Qiao Yugao was inexplicably frightened, but he didn't dare to go to Hua Zhenxing again. At the same time, Hua Zhenxing dialed the phone number that Director Niu left for him last time: "Teacher Niu?" Qiao Yugao came to me just now...... I have a document to show you now. ”

In Hua Zhenxing's dormitory, after watching the recording in the notebook, Director Niu's face was dark, and when he looked up and saw Hua Zhenxing, his face was full of embarrassment.

Hua Zhenxing took the initiative to speak: "It's not that I don't give people the opportunity to mend their ways, I am even willing to give millions of people this opportunity." The reason why I didn't sign yesterday was because I expected him to come in person, even though I said I didn't need him to come to me to apologize.

He's not here to apologize! In fact, when I got that recording from Shi Shuangcheng, I just know what kind of character he is. I can guess what the purpose of him will be if he comes to me, and I have to let the school handle it clearly, right?

To reform oneself, we must first truly reform oneself, and then we can talk about reform. If he just sincerely apologized and admitted his mistake today, I would have responded to you truthfully. If that were the case, the school would not have punished him too severely. ”

This is the truth, Hua Zhenxing is a very generous person, there are so many gangsters in a few miles of country, didn't he also give him a chance to reform himself? Let them undergo re-education through labor, attend study classes, and then integrate into the new society.

Director Niu actually sighed: "Actually, even if he doesn't come to you to apologize, the school won't expel him." Speaking of this, he quickly added, "Of course, the punishment must be punished!" ”

Hua Zhenxing: "So now, do you need me to do anything more?" ”

Director Niu: "Give me this record, please rest assured, the school will deal with it severely." I'll say it privately, don't want his teaching position and degree anymore!

Xiaohua, fortunately I met you this time, if I were to be another student, I don't know how he would scare me. As for the things he threatened you, you don't have to worry, I can assure you that it won't happen......"

Hua Zhenxing: "Then it's hard for Mr. Niu, this big night, I have to make a special trip for you." ”

Director Niu remembered something again, and said with some unease: "Xiaohua, please believe that the school will deal with it seriously." As for these things, please don't post them to the media or put them on the Internet......"

Hua Zhenxing: "As long as the school can handle it according to the regulations, I don't plan to do that." After all, it is the school that is qualified and responsible to deal with this matter, not any online media.

The basis of impartiality is the judgment of facts, not which side has the right to speak, or is more powerful and shameless, don't you say? ”