1. When you can understand a thing, it means that you have grown up, when you can see a thing clearly, it means that you have opened your mind, when you can see through a thing, it means that you are rational, when you can see through a thing, it means that you are mature, when you can look down on a thing, it means that you have let go.

2. Only when you are the most down-and-out will you know who is the stupid person who is always worried about you, and who is the bastard who is like a stranger. The so-called love is that when the feeling, passion, and romance are all taken away, you still cherish each other. Loneliness is the absence of anyone in your heart. Loneliness is when you have someone in your heart but are not around.

3. The older a person grows, the more accustomed he is to suppressing his true feelings in his heart, no longer crying and laughing loudly, and everything is just a faint point. It seems that there is more and more nothing to do, you can be so sad that you cry, and you can no longer find an outlet to release your sadness. If there is time to cry freely, it is always good, and if you can cry fiercely, it means that the heart has not dried up. Now I feel pain, but I can't cry freely.

4. There are some things that you can take care of, but don't go too deep, too much will wear out your mind and heavy your steps; some pain, you can immerse yourself, but don't take too long, it will reduce your fighting spirit and lose your direction for a long time. If it doesn't belong to you, don't refuse to give up, that's actually a kind of mind and bearing; if you are fated to do it, don't let it go easily, so that self-confidence and persistence become a kind of quality and connotation. If you care more, you will have less fun, and if you see it lightly, everything will be relieved.

5. If a person is asked if he has done something wrong, the first reaction is not to admit that he is lying, the second is to find a lot of reasons to justify himself, the third is to blame others, the fourth is to be silent, and the fifth is to say, I was wrong. This process is the process of magnifying the mistakes so much that there is no return, and even the opportunity for repentance is lost. Smart people will be the first to say, I was wrong. It's a pity that less than 1 in 10,000 people in life can first say that I am wrong.

6. Heaven is fair, we will always gain as much as we lose. Whoever doesn't have a difficult time and can't get through it, we don't deserve everything better. When life is easy, the further you go, there is no better way to go. My dear, don't let it down, you have a dream, the feelings of meeting in the water, and the beautiful scenery and good time.

7. If you want to do something, don't show off, don't publicize it, just do it quietly. Because it's your own business, others don't know your situation, and it is impossible to help you achieve your dreams. Don't show off because of vanity. Don't give up on your dreams because of a comment from others. In fact, the best state is to stick to your dreams, listen to the advice of your predecessors, and make fewer mistakes. Whether it's worth it or not, time is the best proof.

8. If there are too many directions in life, you will lose your direction. In the journey of life, everyone is busy getting to know all kinds of people, thinking that this is enriching life. There are always some things that make you see some people clearly without you noticing. But the most valuable encounter is when you meet yourself again at a certain moment, and you will understand at that moment: traveling all over the world is just to find a way back to your heart.

9. We sometimes mistakenly think that what we can't get is precious, and what we already have is cheap. It can't be obtained, because of the lack of in-depth understanding, it is just a beautiful illusion that shows us a gorgeous appearance. If one day, you get closer to it and know the truth about it, you will find that it is so similar to what we have. Don't look at your imagination, all you have is your happiness.

10. Life should be painful and happy. Learn to be content and not always suffer from loss, because loss is another kind of possession. Smart people know how to give up, true people know how to sacrifice, and happy people know how to detach. Being content with giving up and sticking to a quiet is where the value of life lies. "There is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves", we must afford to take it, but we must also be able to let it go. Delete yesterday's unhappiness, refresh today's mood, and the time to come will naturally come.