Chapter 56: When you're tired, give yourself a hug
When you are tired, give yourself a hug, no one will love you more than yourself, know how to make trade-offs, learn to be indifferent, there is only one time in life, you and I are passers-by, why bother too much, life is so beautiful to treat yourself is to enjoy life.
When you are tired and sad, you squat down and give yourself a hug. Because no one in this world can sympathize with you and have mercy on you. You wept, and the tears were your own; You hurt and no one can feel it. Then you can only smile with tears.
In a city with indifferent feelings, the heat of our past has long been ruthlessly drowned. All kinds of people and all kinds of things in life make you see the ugliness of this world, but you have nothing to say, and the only naivety you have to choose silence.
Sometimes, being hugged by someone is also a luxury. At that moment, how you wish that the person who was a little annoying to you in front of you would appear in the next second, and the person who was let down by you would appear at the moment when you looked back.
Sometimes, a glass of wine can forget a sadness, a tear can reflect an experience, a song can warm a heart, a failure can overcome a vulnerability, a mistake can learn a lesson, and a move can understand a gratitude.
When a man is tired, he rests; When the heart is tired, it calms down. When you grow up and mature, this society will see through it. After entering the society, I realized that the society was less innocent than the previous school. You can be sincere to everyone around you, but it doesn't mean that all people are sincere to you. Maybe when you are walking on the street, someone will come and get close, or maybe this person will teach you a profound lesson if you are negligent.
Life is a big stage, and we all perform our lives with the mask of hypocrisy. The person who can act, devoted, his life is colorful; can't act, before he enters the play, he is already scarred.
Many times, people are not tired but they are tired first. We complain about the cruelty of reality, about the unsatisfactory work, and about the ruthlessness of the people we have loved. Because there are so many complaints, the space of the mind is occupied by those clutter. Why don't you find a quiet time to renew your heart? Forget those memories that you can't bear to look back on, and remember those beautiful touches. Life is always wonderful because of yourself, and you are always lovely because of yourself.
In many cases, giving does not necessarily mean that there is something in return, but if you don't give, there should be no return. The person who made you give everything left you inadvertently. You can be heartbroken, you can drink to get rid of your sorrows, but you can't get too caught up in your sorrows. After crying and hurting, you may understand that there is no absolute unfairness in this world, only relative unfairness. When you're tired, give yourself a hug. Love, the breakup before marriage is lucky, because the person you love at least did not cheat on you until after marriage, then you still have many opportunities to cherish the happiness of the next stop. If you get married and have children, maybe you really lose the room to choose happiness, and you can only draw the ground as a prison.
When you are tired, find a beautiful music and forget the ugliness of this world. Pursue that innocent beauty. Many times we know that there are not so beautiful things in real life, but we still hold on. When you are tired, you only know where you stand crying, but you don't know that when you are tired, you can give yourself a hug.
When you are tired, give yourself a faint smile and a big hug, you can be stingy with your hugs to others, to be generous to yourself. Today's sunset is for tomorrow's sunrise, and after a sigh of relief, you will find that there is another beautiful landscape in front of you!