Chapter 53
In life, there have always been more audiences than friends. The audience will only make people feel comfortable visually, but friends will move you inside. Friends don't see each other every day, eat, drink, and praise each other. It's about understanding you, spiritually, spiritually, supporting you, encouraging you, helping you. Correct you when you are lacking.
Concern does not need sweet words, sincerity is good, friendship does not need to be morning and twilight, just remember, greetings do not need to be beautiful, sincerity is good, love does not need some form, just warmth. A true friend is not to be left or right, but to pay attention silently, a thoughtful greeting, and a powerful encouragement. Whether friendship is not friendship depends on getting along, and it is never eternal, it depends on time. After a long time, those who have nothing to do with you will go away, and those who have a relationship with you will stay.
Friends, maybe not morning and twilight, maybe there are no sweet words, but they must be sincere, true, and love. Don't easily test your friend's heart, let alone doubt your friend's love, no matter how good your relationship is, you can't stand a suspicious heart. People always care about a love and the position in each other's hearts. Fate is not about the length of the relationship, but about the heart. In life, there are not many people who can become true friends. Cherish what should be cherished, and have what should be owned. So, be warm and well.
When a person lives, the circle should not be too big, and it is good to accommodate himself and some people; friends are not about how many they are, just be natural and casual. Some people can only look from afar, but not closely, and some words can only be said slowly, but not exhaustively. Friends, lightly made, slowly, in order to last; feelings, shallow, tasted, savored, only aftertaste. Friends are like tea, they need to be good, and fellowship is like water, they need to be light.
A good fate is casual, and a good relationship is casual. Don't force each other, don't ask for it, don't ask for it, and cherish it for a long time. Some people slowly disperse, and some feelings gradually fade. From nothing to talk about at the beginning, to slowly nothing to talk about, from no scruples at the beginning, to gradually scruples. If it comes warmly, it may not last long, and if it is not far away, it may not be separated quickly.
Affection requires understanding, getting along requires tacit understanding, and companionship requires patience. Hypocrisy can't be kept, sincerity will always be there. A love exists because of sincerity, and a heart never goes away because of love. There are only a few people who can become friends in a lifetime, and it is really rare to cherish those who will still be called friends after a long time.