Chapter 104: Don't overdraw trust
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Be a person in advance and respect your own credibility. Don't live up to the trust that others place in you. Always remind yourself and encourage each other!
You have overdrawn your strength, and you will always recover after resting!
You have overdrawn your money, and there will always be a surplus when you open up and throttle!
But you have overdrawn your reputation, no matter how much physical strength you spend, no matter how much money you use, you can't exchange the trust of others!
It's like crumpled paper, no matter how hard you try, you can't smooth it again!
There are as many secrets as there are people in the world.
When someone confides in you a secret, it shows that they trust you and approve of your personality.
The most important thing for the person to confide in is confidentiality, even if it is unbearable, we just need to listen, understand, and comfort, and then forget - forget what he said.
I always believe that listening to secrets and then eliminating them is the most basic requirement and criterion of being a human being.
Being able to trust you and telling you your confidant words with trust is to recognize your character, and don't treat the trust of others as a tool that can be used.
The people who can believe in you are the ones who have cultivated their emotions for many years, don't let the friends who give you intimate words leave one by one! Don't let the people who believe in themselves become fewer and fewer!
Trust is a knife, you give it to someone, he has two choices: stab you or protect you.
So always be vigilant to yourself: be cautious in your words and deeds, be a low-key person, and control your mouth:
1. Before the matter is fully confirmed, don't say it, it's like the money is not yours before it arrives, and you will be embarrassed in case of variables;
2. Any secrets, digest them on the spot, until you end;
3. Don't exaggerate when you speak, for the sake of a temporary amazing effect, you have to pay an unreliable price;
4. Those who have no mouth to cover are just what they say, regardless of the mood of others;
5. Behind the scenes, there is no way to understand the length of right and wrong, and do not draw conclusions to others through superficial guessing, because the guesses are not true;
6. You always think that what you say will not be known to others, but in fact they will know.
People's trust is the same as that of credit cards, and if you continue to spend and repay regularly, the amount of money the bank will continue to increase, which is the accumulation of trust. If you spend on a credit card, do not repay the loan on the specified date, often delay or even do not repay, the bank will leave you with a bad record, and of course, you will have to recover the loan through the court, and at the same time, after you leave a stain on the bank, all future loans may not be approved.
Only by being a person in advance and respecting your own reputation can you enhance the trust of the people around you.
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