Chapter 38: There are two main points of being a man: not to live up to oneself and not to wronged others

Morality is used to restrain oneself, not to weigh others. Be strict with yourself and lenient with others. If you lose your temper for the sake of someone's words, or if you are fluttering, your heart is actually following the words of others. It's stupid to entrust one's happiness to someone else's casual word. "Being yourself" and being rude is often a line between that, don't call "rude" and "be yourself". There are three basic mistakes that people cannot make, one is to be virtuous and respectful, the second is to be small in wisdom and seek greatness, and the third is to be small in strength and heavy in responsibility. There are two main points of being a man: not to live up to oneself and not to wronged others.

Man cannot always be true, nor can he be false forever. A little bit of falsehood in many truths, or a little truth in many falsehoods, is moving.

Eggs, broken from the outside are food, and broken from the inside is life. Life is also the same, breaking from the outside is pressure, and breaking from the inside is growth. If you wait for someone to break you from the outside, then you are destined to be someone else's food, and if you can break yourself from the inside, then you will find that your growth is equivalent to a kind of rebirth!

The talker may not have a high opinion, and when he is silent, he may be contemplating. Successful people find a way, and those who fail find excuses; if you want to succeed, you can't have an excuse, and if you want an excuse, you can't succeed. If you like it, you will fight for it, if you get it, if you want it, you will forget it, life is actually so simple. Learning is the source of wisdom, and morality is the foundation of the cause.

Language has the power to warm people's hearts and the ability to make others feel so painful, it is not only unpredictable but also unpredictable. Learning to speak is not about flattery and sycophancy, "learning to speak" emphasizes caring for and understanding others, and expressing one's thoughts accurately and coherently, and it is a skill that can improve the quality of life. The ability to speak is the main external manifestation of emotional intelligence.