Chapter 124: Always reflect on yourself, which is beneficial to yourself
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Do you have the habit of reflecting on yourself? If not, cultivate it as soon as possible, it can correct your way of behaving in the world and give you a clear direction. Introspection is the regurgitation and feedback of a mental activity. It turns the authority into a spectator, it turns itself into an object of scrutiny, that is, it allows itself to jump out of its limitations and observe itself and judge itself from another person's standpoint, perspective.
Reflection is not the same as review, nor is it the same as repentance. Introspection is the analysis and comparison of the whole life and even the entire course of human beings at the highest level, and it is the criticism of oneself. We not only need to think deeply and analyze and reflect on the trauma, but also need to remain calm in the joy of success.
In daily life, many people are strict with others and lenient with themselves, often thinking about the gains and losses of others, and forgetting to examine themselves. If there is a mistake, it is the fault of others, and yes, it is all your own right.
There is a fable about a young man who is willing to help others when he is in trouble, and he remembers that he has helped many friends, so he goes to his friends for help. However, his friends turned a blind eye and a deaf ear to his difficulties. He was furious, his anger was so intense that he could not discharge himself, and in desperation, he went to a wise man.
The wise man said, "It is good to help others, but you have done good things into bad things." Why? He was puzzled. The wise man said, "First of all, you lacked the knowledge of people from the beginning," said the wise man. Those who do not have a sense of gratitude are not worthy of help, but you help indiscriminately, this is your clumsiness; secondly, you are clumsy, if you cultivate their gratitude while helping them, so that they do not feel that your help to them is a matter of course, and things may not have developed to this point, but you have not done so; third, you have a turbid heart, when you help others, you should have a normal heart, do not always feel that you are doing good, feel that you are materially and morally superior to others, you should only think that you are doing a small thing within your ability。 You are poor compared to the richer, and mortal to the better. Don't feel like you have to credit yourself for helping others. ”
It is human nature to be willing to help others and hope that you will be helped by others when you need them. And people who are truly open-minded and wise are good at finding reasons from themselves, and will not blindly complain about others.
This requires us to constantly reflect on our own behavior and examine our own psychology. Introspection is a noble quality and should be a compulsory part of our work. It takes a lot of courage for a person to be able to unceremoniously cut off the cancer on his mind when he picks up a scalpel, and to pick up a faucet and often wash away the "spots" on his mind. If you have a little tolerance for yourself in your heart, introspection will lose its original color.
When a person sees bad behavior, he must ask himself with fear. If you have good conduct, you must unswervingly cherish it, and if you have made mistakes, you must feel disgusted as if you have been defiled.
If so, then wisdom will be attained, and there will be no mistakes in action. Although it is difficult to be perfect, we must continue to strive to improve it as much as possible. Being a person in three provinces a day, if there is a mistake, it must be corrected, it is early prevention, modesty and prudence, you can avoid making big mistakes, and go one step closer to a moral and tasteful person. If you strive for excellence in your work, you will be one step closer to success.
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