Chapter 157: It looks like life is easy, but you're actually trying hard

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It seems that life is easy, but in fact, you work hard, because in the thousands of confused corners of life, only following the love of your heart is the way out of happiness. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info and such a strong heart requires a lot of strength, so only by being relaxed can we last longer.

My girlfriend sent a WeChat message saying that she was going to move over the weekend, and she rented a house near the company, saving time on the road, and she could spend more time with her two-year-old daughter after work. My girlfriend said: "I also want to take care of the house, do laundry and cook as seriously as you do, so that my parents and daughter can live a more stable life, and now I am the support of my family." "My girlfriend has been divorced for a year, and I have watched her gradually move from panic and helplessness to calm and calm, and even if she doesn't say anything about the difficulties and struggles, I can empathize with her, and she is finally getting better. My girlfriend said: "This year, I deeply experienced the pressure of life, because I have no support, I can only choose to face it strongly, just like practicing yoga 'to look relaxed, in fact, you are very hard', you have always lived like this, right?"

Yes, I've always been like this, and at one point because of that, I had a lingering sense of loneliness, and writing is a very lonely job. But loneliness can also be a kind of precipitation in some stages of life, and it is necessary to accumulate strength when you are lonely, so that you can bloom your talents when you are not lonely. Those who are afraid of loneliness and look for a sense of existence in dinners, wine tables, song halls, and crowds all day long will surely be drowned in the crowd of living beings, everyone seems to be living hard, but the relaxed is never the heart. Loneliness will make you outstanding, not unsociable and difficult to get along with, a strong life does not need to be explained, many people are just our passers-by, when I am willing to be as gentle as possible, it must be to those who deserve it. I don't waste my emotions, my emotions naturally don't hurt, and I'm not busy because I always have time to enjoy life and emotions.

Everyone has had a particularly difficult time in their lives, and there is no good way to get through it, and sometimes it may last for a long time. I've walked into the deepest darkness and suffocated to the point of despair, but every now and then I tell myself, come what should come, and I've lost nothing anyway. I survived not to fall, exercised and didn't get sick, and I had to dress up to go to afternoon tea with my girlfriend, and then stand on the side of the road on a rainy night, waiting for the sunny day that belonged to me. You will definitely ask me: "Have you waited?" I will also tell you: "After passing through the sad life, I will show a smile, restrain the impulse to do it but can't do it, and the emotions will gradually get better, when I can face many troubles and calmly deal with the pain, my heart will slowly be warmed by my own innocence, it turns out that I am the sunshine in that sunny day, and it also brightens the eyes of others." ”

There is nothing in this world that can't be solved, only people who don't want to solve things, if there is really no way, we can also give it to time, we don't want to do anything ourselves, drag it and it will be yellow, it will be cold when it is dry, and it will be forgotten when it is cold. Many people are lamenting the heat and coldness of the world, so they all have their own sorrow for this, but how much of the world is really related to us? Those sorrows inevitably have their own prelude, or their own lifting stones. In other words, the more critical, calculating, and hypocritical you are, the more evil you see in human nature, the more you experience the heat and coldness of the world, and even if you are momentarily proud, the emptiness in your heart will follow. If we are replaced with "success obsessive-compulsive disorder", we are prone to live too hard, overemphasizing our abilities or proving our excellence, often because of the ubiquitous fragility and inferiority complex in our bones. Those who are crawling in the world but are not hot and cold, and seem to be unfazed, live really hard, even if they are in the wind and rain, they have to use the most beautiful appearance, so it seems that they will always live a relaxed life.

Being on the road will be in some success or failure, love and not love, go and not go between pain and sorrow, originally it is not a big deal, this can only prove that we have loved and persistent, the result is good and bad, there are gathering and scattering, in fact, we should have the ability to bear, after all, they are their original choice. And those figures who can't get up in the pain, what they lose is actually self-confidence and bravery, these two points, others can't give but can't destroy them, we can only save ourselves ourselves. In some disdainful pride, there is also the wisdom of survival, and the beauty of life also contains cruelty, if you are kind, it will be beautiful, and if you are dark, it will be cruel.

The power of words is only so limited, because we only look at what we think we need, and the reason why chicken soup for the soul has become chicken blood is because we are confused and always believe that hard work can lead us to success, but spelling the wrong direction talent is also a waste, and it seems that it is impossible for you to achieve what you want with a face that is eager for quick success. I don't think that simply empathy will get us out of the confusion, but it is important to realistically customize a short-term plan for yourself and finally start the first step into a new world. Many people seem to be living very hard, and even fight to the point of hypocrisy, when "hard" is flying all over the sky, and the word "busy" is always swiping the screen, what should be an easy life has become a puppet show for others to watch, and the home that should have been a harbor has become the most unstable hidden danger.

Many people ask me, "How do you get through the hardest time of your life?" I still don't have a good way to do what I can do at hand, but I can find the kind of good mood that can relieve my worries and loneliness. Tonight's Beijing becomes moonlit and starry after the cold air, it is a good time to go to the Forbidden City for a walk, the moonlight on the willows on the palace wall and the corner tower, the men and women walking and running in twos and threes on the banks of the Tube River, and the empty square in front of the noon gate, I have hope again when I walk, at least I can come here to touch the thickest and most feminine place in the city. I never felt that I was strong, I didn't cause trouble when I had nothing to do, but I didn't think there was anything to be afraid of, so I was not afraid of anything. It seems that I live an easy life because I don't want to live up to my years, I don't want to slow down my life, and I don't want to be emotional. In fact, I have been working very hard, because I am old and I still have to fight for my face, it is difficult to survive, I have to fight for talent, and my emotions are so heavy, I have to fight for my face and talent, so that I can grow into a tree that will bloom, and I will no longer look for it and no longer lose.

When you can be graceful on a not-so-beautiful day, and you can keep a smile in a not-so-decent struggle, you can feel that the warm sun on a sunny day is a very hard happiness, and waiting on a rainy day should be a very relaxed gesture.

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