Who remembers their original dreams, perhaps they have been overwhelmed by the trivial things in life, the promises they once made, or the beautiful imagination of the future has gradually become blurred or even completely forgotten. Until one day, you see someone else holding your dream balloon, shining in the sun, particularly dazzling, at this time envy and jealousy are not enough to describe the mood, and the sense of loss in the heart, self-evident magnified thousands of times, at this time there is a voice repeatedly echoing in the ear: Honey, don't let others realize your dreams. ”

"Don't give up your dreams!"

I don't know why, but this sentence penetrated deep into my mind and triggered my infinite emotion. I suddenly remembered something serious: what exactly was my childhood dream?

Most of us don't take good care of our dreams. In fact, it's not just dreams, in life, we are really sorry for ourselves. Many times, we warm up the whole world, but we only snub ourselves. We have lost ourselves, neglected ourselves, and treated ourselves badly.

If you keep chasing your dreams, reality may not be able to shine into the sun, you may not have time to take care of you, and you may not have time to take care of you. Life goes on, but I can't get my former self back.

The material abundance and lack of faith in Chinese society today are no less than those of medieval Europe, which was "noisy and tumultous". Maybe you have achieved fame, are in a high position, and feel that life is infinitely beautiful; maybe you are still in a lowly position, tired and busy, and are always embarrassed and worried about life; maybe you are in the prime of life, with infinite longing, and occasionally a little at a loss...... No matter what kind of life situation you are in, there will always be a moment when a questioning voice will sound in your heart: "Who am I and why am I like this?" Nietzsche said: "The most difficult stage of life is not that no one understands you, but that you do not understand yourself." I said, "The greatest tragedy of life is not that no one loves you, but that you don't love yourself." ”

Therefore, understand yourself and love yourself.

Let yourself be "right" instead of "going against yourself".

Say "I'm sorry" and "I'm worthy" to yourself.

If everyone can take good care of themselves and take care of themselves, the world can reduce a lot of social operating costs.

Mr. Zhou Guoping, a famous scholar, said: "God has given everyone a life, a heart, take care of life, settle the heart, life is complete." To take care of one's life is to maintain the simplicity of life and cherish ordinary life. To settle the mind is to accumulate the wealth of the soul and focus on the inner life. Ordinary life ** shows the natural quality of life, and if these two kinds of life are lived well, the overall quality of life is good. ”

It can be seen that returning to the essence of life is a good medicine to solve this problem, that is, to be yourself, love yourself, entertain yourself, take care of yourself, and be worthy of yourself.

Of course, success is not how many people you have up and down, but how many people are willing to go up and down for you; happiness is not what you can control, but what you have to control; in the same way, the "worthy of yourself" here is not to have fun in time, not to indulge yourself, not to be selfish, nor to "travel and love that is desperate to go". People must have dreams and responsibilities. Life needs to be loosened, and it also needs to fly.

We hate yang and yin, but what kind of philosophy of survival is the most popular?

We despise seeing death and not being saved, but what kind of help needs to be advocated the most? Self-sacrifice is not for others, but self-interest for others.

No matter how big the dream is, it is not too big, and no matter how small the person who chases the dream, it is not too small.

Be a good person with the ability to be a self-righteous winner. Think about others and live for yourself. Whether it's a graceful turn or a gorgeous hit against the wall, at least we have to see the Yellow River. Peace of mind, not afraid of bad judgments, strong heart, not afraid of misunderstandings. Our little hearts have a big dream, and we are busy with it every day. Don't panic, have an opinion. Someday, time will prove you right, and someday, someone will understand your inflatedness. As long as you don't give up your dreams!