One

I was just about to lie down after finishing my busy work yesterday, and suddenly I received a call from a female friend.

After a few shush, she said I'll tell you a joke.

She said that a man came to Ningbo to invite her to dinner a while ago, and she also agreed in advance that the location would be decided by her.

When the waiter took the bill after eating, he took the bill, and when he heard the consumption amount of 268, the boy's face collapsed instantly, and he thought he muttered quietly: Damn, why is it so expensive, and then he took out his mobile phone and computer and began to seriously calculate the amount of the menu no less than 3 times, and found that he could not find a loophole.

At that time, even the waiter looked at him with disdain, and she sat across from her and watched a big man with a computer fingers flying, as if no one was around.

She couldn't help but say, either I'll invite this meal.

In the end, the boy reluctantly took out his wallet and said in front of the waiter that he would not come to such an expensive place to eat in the future.

After she paid the bill, the boy insisted on sending her home, and on the way home, the boy said to her, looking at your circle of friends, I think you usually spend a lot of money, girls, don't love vanity too much, you will not be able to get married like you.

Excuse me, do you know me, my friend was angry at the time, and they were introduced to each other by a friend, and they only met twice.

What gave her a headache was that the boy called her every day after that meal to ask about her whereabouts, and the tone on the phone was like that of a boyfriend.

The funniest thing is that once, he told me that there was a photo studio in his house to do activities to give couples rings to wear with her.

also said something that made her cry and laugh, you are a loser if you buy so many famous brand goods, you see how cost-effective it is given away for free.

At that time, my friend was about to cry, she was a makeup artist, earning tens of thousands of dollars a month, and the pictures posted by the circle of friends were also some big-name products, she had just bought a Cartier ring, why did she wear a giveaway ring with him?

In the end, she said to me with a wry smile: Lin Xi, is it wrong for me to make money to make myself eat good food and make myself look very expensive?

02

In fact, there are a lot of girls around me who come to complain about this kind of thing, I remember once, a fan complained to me that he spent more than 200 yuan to get himself a manicure not long ago, and he inadvertently talked to his boyfriend during dinner.

As a result, her boyfriend was angry and scolded her on the spot for being a psychopath, and it was a waste to spend so much money to get her nails done.

She often scolds her for her big expenses, so she has to spend so much money to buy these bottles and cans, and she has to go to the counter to buy the clothes on the Internet.

The more she thought about it, the more aggrieved she became, saying, I actually didn't think he could buy me anything, and all I wanted was to buy it myself, and I didn't dare to tell my boyfriend about my real consumption now.

In the past, when I was in college, I took a fancy to a piece of clothing that I liked very much, and I worked hard to earn money to buy that dress home, and I usually underquoted the price to my parents by a few hundred yuan.

But why do you start lying to your boyfriend now that you have grown up and have the ability?

Isn't the original intention of falling in love to respect each other and pursue a better life?

Many superficial men will insist that those women who look expensive at a glance are worshipping money and materialism, and feel that such women like money in their bones, and after falling in love, they are taught that they should save some money to live.

I think that as a man, if you can't make your girlfriend enjoy a better life in material terms, forget it, and count them if they are sick, so you can be sick.

You can't make a fortune with the money you save from your girlfriend's cosmetics and clothes, and you have time to take care of these things, so it's more practical to think about how to make money.

Girls who often have material requirements know how to manage themselves well.

03

I've been doing the official account for a long time, and there are a lot of female readers chatting with me, and I found that when they talked to me about the other half in the future, they didn't actually say how much hardware they wanted the other half to have.

Do you think that girls are materialistic? That can only show that they are financially independent and have requirements for the quality of life, but in fact, luxury goods are the driving force for them to make money.

And there will always be a lot of men around who like to impose their distorted values on others and spend your money?

In the eyes of some stupid men, it is time to let go of these luxuries and live a hard life with them.

Why?

An older sister I met from drinking said that she broke up with her boyfriend she just met a while ago.

I asked her what was wrong?

She said that although her boyfriend's economic conditions are similar to hers, his consumption concept is not at the same level as her, and she often complains that the things she buys are too expensive.

She said that when I used myself a Chanel bag, he gave me a fake imitation of LV, I used a Dior perfume and he gave me a cheap spray, and I used Armani lipstick and he gave me a Mentholatum lipstick.

After being together, he not only didn't give me a lot of love, but also let me save money everywhere, and finally I proposed to break up, and unsurprisingly he was called a gold worshipper.

You can't give a lot of love, you don't have a lot of money, and you have to talk about spending your own money.

04

I have never understood what is wrong with girls working harder, what is wrong with being independent, they work hard every day to make money, in order to improve their quality of life, to afford what they want, and to be worthy of better people.

Why after she followed you, not only did her life not get better, but you still had to find ways to educate them to save money and give up the life they should have.

Don't you think it's a cruel thing?

To tell the truth, as a man, it is indeed not a very glorious thing to let his girlfriend blindly save money.

The woman you love, you are reluctant to give her the life she wants, then your love is too cheap.

Every woman who raises herself very expensive is pursuing a love that is comparable, not for you to teach her to save money.