Human beings, who are always the subject of contradictions, are often in the confusion of hesitation and longing, caught in the worldly one-way street, and cannot go far and cannot go back. Many times, we are always naïve, always reverie about happiness in the distance. After the naivety, we realize that the future is far away and the reverie is boundless. We have designed the most perfect path in life, but we have rarely gotten there. So we know that what we experience is real, and what we have is our own. Imagination is like floating clouds, which can only be embellished in the emptiness of the heart, and cannot be dissolved in life. More often than not, what we want is not teaching, not encouragement, but care and understanding. In fact, we know what we should do and how to do it at this time, but we still need a little attention and warm companionship to give us strength. Man is really an inscrutable creature, and the only one who knows himself best is always himself.

Life can't be smooth sailing, happiness is a day, troubles are still a day, so why not let yourself live happily. In order to find happiness, we make some promises. But when it came time to actually do it, it turned out that some of the promises were hypocritical lies. Happiness is so ethereal, but it is also real. But if you think about it, it is these hypocritical and kind lies that fill us with hope and confidence in happiness. In fact, there is nothing to promise, and it is nothing if it is gone, everything has its own destiny. Happiness is your own feeling, and you need to experience it carefully. The distance of happiness, sometimes near and sometimes far, thought it was close at hand, but in the blink of an eye, it was still at the end of the world. A peaceful life is like a glass of boiled water, it tastes light and tasteless, but we don't know that it is its purity and immaculate that makes our lives happy, and people who know life will taste sweetness and happiness in the plain.

There are some truths that we should understand: gain and loss have always been entangled in our lives, and we are always gaining and losing. What you can get is always only a part, and what you get will inevitably be lost. If we can know how to make trade-offs, and we can stick to what we should insist on and give up what we should give up, how good it would be. Don't let yourself get tired! You should learn to think about it, look down, learn not to force it, and learn to hide deeply. Don't let yourself get tired! Relax yourself at the right time, find catharsis, and relieve stress in your tired mind. Whatever you get, you should try to cherish and care for it, once you lose it, you may not come back; if you lose it, you don't have to sigh and keep it, you can only get it if you lose others. What is gained is only short-lived, and in the end we will all lose.

There will always be something in life that is worth remembering, and something to give up. The courage to give up is a kind of atmosphere, the courage to persist is not a kind of courage, which is right and which is not who can say the clarity of the clear way? Don't care about the deep and shallow fate, and don't care whether it will leave scratches on each other's hearts, I think that since we are destined to know and love each other, life will be more wonderful because of the addition of each other. I don't want to be with you day and night, I just ask that in the days with you, every day is fragrant, sweet, happy, and happy, and let you because of my company, the long night is no longer dark.

In fact, the pain is not brought to you by others, and your own cultivation is not enough, and you do not have a certain ability to bear it. Look at the prosperity with a cold eye, treat the gains and losses calmly, not arrogant when you are smooth, and not depressed when you are frustrated. Memories seem to have been transformed into countless photos, but unfortunately I don't know where those happy and happy ones are hidden, and the rest are not recalled. It seems that formatting myself has become my only option. But even if you empty the past and use it as a new starting point, will there be no more troubles and sorrows? If you insist on taking simple things very seriously, and thinking about simple things too complicated, then you will be very miserable.

Learn to let go, let go of some so-called thought baggage, face everything calmly, and let everything go its course, so that you will make yourself at ease. Whether you are happy or not, only you know. In fact, everyone has an untold story, in fact, everyone will be fragile and want a stop, in fact, everyone wants to fulfill a promise with someone, in fact, everyone can smile and turn around and cry, in fact, everyone's life is somewhat bitter, experiencing wind and rain. I just want a little less sadness and a little more joy. I just want less loneliness and more happiness.

People's ** is endless, everyone is pursuing a high-quality life, everyone wants to get what they want, everyone is busy all day long for their goals, struggling, getting happy for a while, not suffering for a lifetime. There is no perfect thing in the world, imperfection is actually a kind of beauty, and happiness can only be found when we continue to strive for and continue to bear failures and setbacks. In the experience of life, cultivate a calm concentration, on the stage of life with the ebb and flow of the tide, lift the weight lightly, hit the festival and sing "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence, leisurely see Nanshan", and face the hustle and bustle of the red dust with a free and quiet mentality. When you suddenly look back, you will find that happiness is in front of you, and success has never been far away from you.

I once saw such a sentence: "Happiness is like a pyramid, there are many levels, the higher you go, the less happiness you have, and the more difficult it is to get happiness." The more you are at the bottom, the easier it is to feel happy, and the more levels you cross from the bottom, the stronger your sense of happiness will be. "Happiness is actually a kind of expectation, a kind of spiritual feeling. As long as we find out with our hearts and feel with our hearts, you will find that happiness is actually all around us, but such happiness is often ignored by us. Perhaps only by forgetting the past can all pain disappear, all troubles can be shaken off, no longer sinking, and smiles can be brought closer. However, even if you really forget the past, a new starting point is destined to be a pain, and how to face it. Do you really want to disguise yourself and live happily?