Chapter 169: Find the right direction before you work hard
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There is a kind of chicken blood in this world that is used to make you work hard - work hard, study, get more recognition for a higher score, for a higher salary. But if you ask, what is the meaning of all this, do you know? Because there is no best, only better, because only the first place can be remembered, because of dreams, because of struggle. There is nothing wrong with these words, but when hard work is just for the sake of hard work, when struggle is just for struggle, all this is like a strange self-hypnosis, dear, do you know what you are working hard for? It's like when we were desperately trying to get into college, but what is the meaning of all this? We complain, we learn useless knowledge, we complain, the hardships of the exams, we denounce, the education system destroys humanity, but we don't know where the other roads are, we ask what is the meaning of all this, but we don't know what the real meaning is, we don't dare to take the unusual road, we don't know what a breakthrough is. The most we are rebellious, telling me not to do anything seems to be free, as if to be myself, but you know, it's not. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that hard work is useless. Rather, the direction is not right, and the efforts are in vain. If you do that thing, just what you think you should do, for example, when your parents say you should study, you learn, not what you love to learn, that's the wrong direction. If you are miserable to do that thing, it is difficult to persevere, and you blame yourself for not having the willpower, it is in the wrong direction. Have you noticed something else? No one told you that you should do it, but you want to do it, you do it, and you do it happily, persevere? Please, you wish you could do it every day, you don't get tired for hours at a time, that's your direction. Your passion is your talent. Some people say that you, yo, really work hard, but you say, where, I'm very happy. We have always felt that hard work is bitter, not sweet, persistence is bitter, let alone happy, this is an inexplicable philosophy of pain, so that many people grit their teeth and insist on doing things they don't like at all, living a life without joy and dislike, but thinking that the ancients insisted on victory as a victory, so continue to work hard, continue to be inspirational, and continue to numb themselves with chicken soup. I never thought that I was going in the right direction, and I was born to be useful, but first of all, you have to find the right stage, and your passion will guide your way. But even if you understand this, you may not be able to let it go. We'll have a lot of reasons. One of them is not accepting who you really are. For example, I like to sing, but my appearance is really average, and I never thought about being a singer since I was a child, because of my education in school, music is a sub-subject, and I never feel that singing is something to be proud of, so although I have liked to listen to pop songs since I was a child, and I also participated in singing competitions in college, but I thought that if I became a singer in the future, it would still be quite scary, because it did not conform to my self-perception since I was a child. Since I was a child, my family told me that Tsinghua University and Peking University are the best, and you have to get high scores in addition to language, and nothing else matters, so even if I like to sing, dance, and want to buy a piano, my family does not support it, and even now, my mother does not support me to study music.
I also want to be a writer and want to publish books, but since I was a child, my writing has not been very prominent, and I have never thought that I can write anything good, but I know that I like to read books, so I read and write when I want to write, until I get the appreciation and affirmation of a small number of people, I find that maybe all this is the result of nature, you love that thing, you do that thing, after a long time, you will naturally do a good job, and this process, there is no pain of struggle. So now, I want to let myself do more of what I want to do, break the inherent perception of myself in the past, and the only dead end of the so-called correctness, and let my soul guide myself, do what I really want to do in my heart, life is too short, if I don't do it at this time, when will I do it? Sometimes we don't accept our talent just because he conflicts with the image of who we want to be, such as me, I hope I am an undergraduate student of Peking University, a top student, and later I found out that I prefer singing than in class, and I prefer to read inspirational books and other messy books like chicken soup for the soul than reading textbooks, I am actually the latter, but I wish I was the former, I envy others, they are my ideal self, but one day I compromise, I accept my truth, I just love music more, although this has been suppressed since childhood, I love writing, although no one has ever told me that your test-taking essay is well written。 Forget about this environment, be yourself, love you for what you really are, there will be people who will see you, this different flower, when you bloom, the whole world will applaud you, they don't care which way you go, which garden you come from, just because you are you, just because you are God's choice.
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