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Are you losing your dreams?

Growing up so big, there are a few people who like it from the bottom of their hearts, those who sit still in front of greed, those who are light in front of misunderstandings, and those who tremble in front of dreams. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

This kind of flower branch trembling will also turn into a dream at night because of the day's thoughts. "1. I woke up. 2. I found that my bank account became 9 figures. 3. I found out that the goddess I had a crush on for many years actually liked me too. 4. The investment bank, which the top students couldn't get into, stretched out an olive branch to me. "It's a pity that you all dream of changing the order, and you can't change the fact that it's still ironclad and backwards.

So, it is inevitable to complain on a cool night, it turns out that the world is like this. It turns out that being disappointed in the face of dreams is like eating and sleeping for eight hours, which is the main theme of the world. In fact, the world has always been like this, in fact, most of the time fate will not follow the direction of Chicken Soup Wen. It's just that, in order to prove the difference between you and a salted fish, you still have that thing called a dream in your head.

What is a dream?

From the moment it was born, it carried the mission of shining the lintel, and it was always mentioned repeatedly on a starry night, and people were in tears for it, and their hearts were surging and clenched their fists and said that they would go a thousand miles. People who chase it use various ways, romantic people will make it into a lock code, and serious people will use it to hang the beam and stab the strands.

Its actual size is elusive. It can be as big as the world of Harvard genius and Silicon Valley upstart, or as small as sponsoring a poor child in the mountains every year, which is all the motivation for you to sleep at night and smell the chicken.

Its content is extremely individual. When you really dig out the true face of it in your heart, you will understand that this "dream" is not a few books published after graduating from a prestigious school in the mouth of your parents, it is not who is financially free and who is on Forbes in the mouth of your classmates, it is not the mouth of your colleagues who are eating hot pot and singing, and the wife and children are hot on the kang, nor is it the world's blazing attention that Ma Yun has exchanged for half his life's hard work. It is your arsenic, but it is his honey.

Its efficacy varies from person to person. Sometimes it is a blood tonic or a heart-warming medicine. Sometimes it gives you unstoppable dopamine, and then throws you an acquaintance and cold slap in the face.

Even so, it is still an invincible public lover. If you are a young man who has just stepped into the ivory tower, you can't live without dreams, the beautiful test papers, the one-in-a-hundred internship and the girl's upside-down smile are all your midnight dreams. If you are a promising young man who has just entered the workplace, it is impossible for you not to have dreams, whether it is the ascension of entering the WTO or the wandering of birth, it is your red roses and white roses. If you are a middle-aged uncle with old and young, it is impossible for you to have no dreams, but the pretense on your face is transparent to cover up your inner impatience, or turn the river and the sea.

In the beginning, dreams always capture you with the best looks, without exception.

I was standing at the crossroads of Lujiazui. Neon flashes, trumpets roar, dreams flood.

The young people who work hard here range from the post-70s to the post-90s. They came from all directions, most of them walked a long way to get here, looked at the skyscrapers that could not be seen when they looked up, and then touched their chests, and found that the original heart with a dream was still pounding vividly.

The engineering man who has been programming for 6 years has always dreamed of changing careers and coming here, starting as an analyst and then as a fund manager in charge of investment. And the liberal arts girl who was tortured by financial statements in the small lattice day and night, always dreamed of saving enough money for the first pot of gold in her life, so she leaped across the ocean and began to learn the oil painting she loved since childhood.

The investment banker who is very popular has always dreamed of meeting a girl with a clear heart, but he is always hurt by the girl who approaches him with a strong purpose in reality. And the consulting woman who flew all over the world, faced with the pursuit of countless diamond kings, still did not find a fit in their heads stuffed with career and money.

Even the construction worker with an orange hard hat who often hangs in the air under the scorching sun, wipes the glass of the exterior wall of Tomson's first product, and for a moment fantasizes about having a nest of his own in this place where money is spent.

Also, there are countless long-tailed beings that you can see or can't see, like dust in the sun, sprinkled with dust. But it doesn't prevent Dongshan from making a comeback and the dream of a counterattack with Dick Si, so that they still look vivid and full of golden light.

It's like a deep and bottomless sea. All kinds of sturdy and weak fish seem to be busy in their own red sea, but they hold another heart full of blue sea.

The people on the outside want to come in, and the people on the inside want to go out, it seems like a collective crisis of our generation. In fact, this has nothing to do with the mountain looking at the mountain, it is nothing more than that after walking through the impetuosity of youth, I have become more and more aware that taking care of my inner needs is the most precious responsibility in life. He seems to be sitting on invincible wealth, but he only dreams of a romance of exchanging sincerity for sincerity. She seems to have experienced all the graces of life, but in fact, she only hopes to have a calm and calm heart. He seems small and inconspicuous, but in fact, he has the whole world in his heart.

However, the difficult thing is that after a few years, how many people have really broken out of the siege and embarked on the journey of searching for their dreams without looking back, and how many people have been smoked by the comfortable warm wind in front of them, and then pretended to be satisfied on a starry night and said that their dreams were nothing more than deceiving the hairy boys.

Later, execution is the watershed.

When I opened the circle of friends that day, there was news that another senior brother had resigned and started a business. In his letter of gratitude to his friends, he wrote that ten years after graduation, he was a reincarnation from a Wall Street investment bank to a Chinese-funded brokerage firm to a joint venture brokerage, and from Hong Kong to New York to Beijing to Shenzhen and then to Hong Kong. When he first arrived in Hong Kong, he was confronted by the Hong Kong financial crisis. At the beginning of his career, he also lacked robbing and less ammunition, and he was also a salesman, research, investment, and trading. Under internal and external troubles, he wandered alone on the beach of Victoria Harbour countless times late at night. But only by gritting his teeth, knocking out his teeth and swallowing blood, he can fight his way out. And now, he has erased all the past glories and started all over again. Ten years of ups and downs, but there is no next decade of life to squander.

And I remember that ten years ago, he was a figure of the year at Peking University, and he also gritted his teeth and fought his way out, and finally won the favor of an investment bank on Wall Street, and won a title that domestic students had never gotten.

It was also ten years ago that I read his thrilling story and saw his burning dreams. Ten years later, in order to expand the thickness of his life and for another blue ocean that is difficult to give up, he once again gave up the country he had laid down and went on an expedition to the sea.

Admittedly, he must have been met with skepticism and negative voices. However, finding what you really love to do is just as important as finding your true love. Those who talk bad about you behind your back, whether it is crackling spittle or unwilling yin and yang weirdness, will not affect your magnificent life in the slightest.

That kind of happiness of fighting for true love is an experience that those who accept their fate and question you by the way will never get it in their lifetime.

And those who have really decided to chase must also understand that winning a mediocre smile in the world is far worse than a dumbfounded secret praise.

You might say, it's a big price.

But you have to ask me, in order not to waste what I have learned, continue to be an engineering man who adheres to professional and diligent programming, continue to be a liberal arts woman who enjoys the baptism of financial reports in the lattice every day for the sake of high salary and halo, disarm and surrender for the sake of secular decency, find a girl who doesn't have too many feelings to relieve her boredom, or hold hands with a oily-haired diamond king in the Aegean Sea for a sentence that is better to do a good job than to marry, or, turn around gracefully, strip away the vanity and cater to the sense of performance, and want to show a little bit of loyalty and love it, take care of it and let it flourish, I will not hesitate to choose the latter。

In your life, you may meet a number of people you love, a number of temptations "in the eyes of others", but you will also encounter such a thing called a dream. Obviously want to but don't work hard, have no ability to execute, and suppress their thoughts, but to cover up their own incompetence, that is, they can't let go of the quiet years here, and they can't bear the pain of loneliness and stable withdrawal over there. So don't ask why there are so many people who complain and so few people who are happy, because the real warriors are such a small group of people.

And in the end, the result of pursuing your dreams is nothing more than one of two things: you reach the end, or you fall halfway.

When you reach the finish line, you can't be too much to wave colorful flags and shout hysterically, and what if you spill so many blood and tears. Others have seen your brilliance at most, but they will never understand your nirvana.

Halfway down, you look at your dreams from afar, but you are finally calm and smile in the tossing and turning of time. Because from the moment you walk on this glorious journey with all your heart, you will find that you have done a lot of homework, endured a lot of loneliness, and accumulated a lot of strength. These will become your steps in the future, the armor around you, allowing you to go further, and at the same time invincibility. Not everyone has the luck to hold the king bomb, the result is that in addition to relying on talent and hard work, it also depends on luck, but the process is a real gain. Only you know that no pilgrimage of your own soul will be in vain.

Only you know that it is better for you to fall halfway than to leave your dreams halfway. The biggest pain in life is not failure, but that I could have been.

Like all love, most of the time it is difficult to reach the end, and it is life that falls halfway. But we still have to try, work hard, be grateful for failure, and experience that complete, meaningful, uncompromising, and worth looking forward to, "own" life. Life is very long, so long that you can really at least have a dream in your heart and slowly plan to realize it, and life is so short, so short that you will regret it if you don't do what you really love, except for those who have no heart and lungs.

Think about when you were a child, didn't you think the most romantic thing was that you crossed the mountains alone, not afraid of jackals, and went to see the girl on the other side of the mountain that you dreamed of the most?

After more than ten years, you are still you, the girl has changed to your dream, and you have traveled a far, long way to come here. Even if it doesn't immediately wait for you with the warmest hug, it does not hinder this romance, in the fermentation of time, it not only notes the life you bravely chase, but also gives you the happiness of "having hope" forever.

I'd rather look at each other than be in the sea.

So, let me say it again, and I will always be grateful for the dreams that have brought you to battle again. It is they who seduce you and call you to become the most precious and unique version of yourself in this lonely world.

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ps: The real dream must be completed without saying a word, the ambition is in the distance, people are walking on the road, how can you sigh the desolation of this life without the vicissitudes of life.

Childe laments that life is bleak but sometimes helpless, what is life?

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