235: I'd rather spend time cultivating my imperfect self than wasting my time expecting someone else to be perfect
Leaving with great fanfare is all temptation, and the real departure is not goodbye, quietly.
The older I get, the more I like to drink a little wine, because some things in my heart become more and more unspeakable. The longer I work overtime, the more I like to walk alone, because I wonder how long I can endure it. At first, it was a group of people on the road, and then they all needed to be alone. I have hoped that anyone would text themselves and pick up their phones but not know who to call, but only after this period can there be memories of jokes.
It is better to spend time cultivating an imperfect self than to waste time expecting perfect others
I hope all your persistence is because of love, not because of unwillingness......
Perhaps for life, acceptance is the best gentleness. Whether it is to accept the appearance of a person, or to accept the absence of a person.
The first button is wrong, and it is often not realized until the last one.
Kindness is precious, but kindness does not grow teeth, that is, weakness.
Don't take the hurdles that can't be over, and the people who can't forget should also come to an end, on the new journey, I hope that from now on, you don't love too much, don't sleep too late.
Autumn should be good, if you are still there. The autumn breeze is beautiful even if it is cool, and you fill my dreams in late autumn, just like falling leaves knocking on my window.
In the end, I am young, I don't know that in this world, it is cold and summer, sunrise and sunset, people gather, people scatter.
Even if we don't make it to the end, I won't have regrets, you have your bitterness and sweetness, I have my joys and sorrows, if we haven't met, there will be no good memories, since the time to meet is not enough for us to stay for each other, then I wish us in the future, dressed in their own pride, do not disturb each other.
The more people with stories, the more quiet and simple, and the more superficial and thin people are, the more impetuous and restless.
People who are too calculating are suitable for grocery shopping, not for falling in love.
It's best to find someone interesting to marry, which is much more lasting than the pleasure that comes with money and appearance. Of course, fun and playfulness are two different concepts. Fun is a kind of superficial liveliness, and fun is the fun hidden in a person's bones. Life will sink our enthusiasm with blandness, and only fun can make you draw with the tough reality. Interesting people, a bowl of porridge can also drink the smell of roses.
You only do it once in a lifetime. So work hard, what time owes you will be slowly returned in the days to come.
After so many years, I finally discovered the characteristics of people I liked, who are always vibrant, have things they like, don't interfere too much in other people's lives, understand the boundaries of interpersonal communication, don't show off everything they have, are gentle in speech, kind to others, and have a moderate ambition. It can tolerate the imperfections of life, but also withstand the bumps of the world, and root everything in life in life.
Insomnia is because there are two people talking in your heart, and you can't hear you. There are no regrets when time falls, and whose chessboard is beside you.
People don't take you seriously, and you're still sentimental!
I'm glad to be able to walk with you, but I'm sorry I couldn't get into your heart. The saddest thing is when you meet someone special, but you understand that you can never be together, and sooner or later, you have to give up.
If there is a miracle in this world, it is just another name for effort. The hardest stage of life is not that no one understands you, but that you don't understand yourself.
The older and more complex people get, the difficulty and cost of making friends are rising rapidly.
When making any decision, it is best not to wronged yourself or embarrass others.
In everyone's life, there is the most difficult year, which makes life beautiful and vast.
You have to accept that there are always sudden losses in this world, spilled milk, lost wallets, separated lovers, broken friendships, etc., and then learn to be strong. If you lose it, don't cry anymore.
If he loves you, he doesn't have to please, and if he doesn't love you, he doesn't have to.
It is better to spend time cultivating an imperfect self than to waste time expecting perfect others.
Every day I live now is the youngest day of the rest of my life. Please don't age too quickly and understand too late. Give yourself a hope every day, try not to worry about tomorrow, not to sigh for yesterday, just for a better today.
Kindness must have a bottom line, and generosity must have principles. Indiscriminately, just know how to be good to others, that will live up to your own kindness.
Don't dwell on the past and refuse to leave, don't rely on the past and not let go.