The story comes from a reader.

This reader wrote about his emotional experience in a book review section.

I won't repeat the specific content, the big characters are too troublesome, roughly meaning:

He has been in a relationship with a girl for two years, and the boy is ready to take the girl to meet his parents, and he also takes into account the stage of marriage. Everything was ready, but the girl finally proposed to break up. The boy is reminiscing a lot, keeping a lot of gifts from the girl, and he is very affectionate.

Lao Zhu, I uphold the principle of wishing that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and I think that if I write hundreds of them, if I can save a sincere relationship, it will be quite meaningful.

In addition, the girl mentioned breaking up, it doesn't mean how decisive the girl is, she is not a good girl, but she is gradually recognizing the real problem. Measured and thought in love and reality. This is a microcosm of the growth of women in modern society, the essence of which is social reasons.

Let me break it down:

Although the boy did not make it clear in the message, the reason for the breakup was obviously a real problem.

What is the practical problem, I guess, should be distance, economic strength, only these two points.

Let's talk about distance first: long-distance relationships are common, distance can produce beauty, because the other party is not used to being by his side, once this unaccustomed is accustomed, distance will produce distance, and the relationship will be difficult to maintain. Therefore, being together has become the best way to warm up and maintain relationships.

The problem is in the three words "together", the woman's family does not agree with the girl to marry, she herself does not want to come, you don't want to go, there must be. If you think you have to do it, try it on the impulse. To tell the truth, I got married first, and where will I be in the future, God knows, I don't count what I say now. If you have to think so much rationally, you're just making excuses for yourself.

Let's talk about economic conditions: it depends on whether you have the courage to share hardships, and everyone's life is getting better and better. If you don't try it, how can you know that it won't work? Men, when they are young, are still prone to impulsiveness, and when their minds are particularly mature, impulsive behavior is extremely difficult to produce, and they will be extremely rational.

To put it bluntly, money can be made, one is to give up in the present, and the other is to go 50 years later, depending on which one do you want?

If you can put it down casually, forget it. If it's really emotional, then be impulsive. If you lose, you don't lose, and if you win, you'll be comfortable for a lifetime. If you don't fight, you don't know you can be a madman.

One of the most profound problems I know is that the problem is there, and there are 10,000 ways to solve it.

Finally, let me sigh: love in modern society is always defeated by these things. When people grow up, they will recognize more and more realities, but in fact, they just lack the courage to gamble on the future. In fact, after gambling, the problem is really not big. Whether it's this boy or this girl, it's all about this problem.

Someone is accompanied by youth, who amazes whose time, who tenders whose years. How wonderful.

The premise is: you guys are really in love, otherwise, when I didn't say it.

It's written in general, but I hope you can recognize the facts and don't be destroyed by the poisonous chicken soup that modern society is full of.

Also, this boy, if there is a result, I hope you will go to the main station to read support. At the same time, ask for a monthly pass from a wide range of readers......

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