Chapter 626: The Golden Rule of Half an Hour
But this world is a world of intrigue, fists can only solve temporary problems, if you want to be stable, you must be convinced by others! If you want others to be convinced, you have to be strategic.
Isn't there a saying that is good? Since ancient times, it is difficult to keep people affectionately, only routines can win people's hearts!
Powerful force is of course the existence of open, but the reality is scheming and resourcefulness!
If you look at history, the history books we see are all about all kinds of strategy masters, not kung fu masters!
If you want to seek revenge on the Zhao family, you must follow the rules of reality.
Don't think about going beyond the rules, it's futile, even if you have the ability to go through the sky, you have to know how to follow the trend, not do whatever you want! ”
Li Yi nodded, and said with some understanding: "Jing'er, thank you, I won't be reckless in the future." ”
Zhao Xiaojing: "Man, remember one sentence, a strong person is not about competing for a momentary win or loss, he looks at the future, and what he values is to laugh to the end!" ”
"Have the last laugh?" Li Yi slowly savored these four words.
Zhao Xiaojing: "Yes, I have the last laugh." Do you know why Zhu Yuanzhang stood out among the many heroes at the end of the Yuan Dynasty and eventually became the emperor? ”
Li Yi recalled and said with a smile: "Isn't this because Zhu Yuanzhang's adviser Li Bowen proposed the strategy of 'accumulating grain and slowly becoming king'?" ”
Zhao Xiaojing smiled: "This is forced!" Forced by Chen Youliang!
At the beginning, Zhu Yuanzhang and Chen Youliang started at the same time, but Chen Youliang himself was the son of an official eunuch, so the scale and quality of this army were stronger than Zhu Yuanzhang.
Chen Youliang was keenly aware that Zhu Yuanzhang, who had emerged among the many rebels, would be the great enemy in the future, so he chased Zhu Yuanzhang all over the world, and this fight was three years!
It's just that Zhu Yuanzhang is like a destiny, like a Xiaoqiang who can't be killed, hiding everywhere, but he is not injured, and Chen Youliang is angry.
Once, Chen Youliang bought off Zhu Yuanzhang's personal guards, and while Zhu Yuanzhang was hunting, he used an army of 30,000 to surround Zhu Yuanzhang's guards, which were only a few dozen people.
After rushing down, the guards were annihilated, and Zhu Yuanzhang's armor was torn to pieces, hiding in a peasant woman's house like a beggar, and slipped away from under Chen Youliang's nose.
After going back, Zhu Yuanzhang learned from the pain, and then asked Li Bowen to make a move, and Li Bowen proposed to 'accumulate grain and slow down the king', which included a scene of bowing to Chen Youliang, which made Chen Youliang feel at ease and boldly go to fight with the Yuan Dynasty army.
Then, Zhu Yuanzhang took advantage of the time when Chen Youliang and the Yuan Dynasty army were stubborn, and the Yuan Dynasty army should cooperate with the outside to destroy Chen Youliang, which led to the later Ming Dynasty. ”
Li Yi nodded: "I understand, you are telling me to pay attention to strategy in doing things, and not rely on violent means alone."
Zhao Xiaojing nodded: "Yes, but only half of it is right, and there is more." When the Zhao family rose in Anzhou, they offended many families, how could they not have hatred? For example, the Qian family!
The reason why Zhu Yuanzhang won the world also lies in borrowing strength.
You have to learn to borrow a knife to kill people, didn't Zhao Xifeng issue a general order in Anzhou, asking all families to keep their distance from you?
Then you can find those families who have enmity with the Zhao family and secretly form an alliance, so that your situation will be much better, and it will also help you build a network of contacts in Anzhou in advance! ”
When Li Yi heard this, he patted his thigh and said with a smile: "Jing'er! You're really my helper! If I have a wife like you, what more can I ask for? ”
Zhao Xiaojing's heart was sweet, and he looked at the time: "Go quickly, now Dong Xiaonan is afraid that he can't wait outside, and it will be half an hour soon." ”
Li Yi was puzzled: "What half an hour?" What does this mean? ”
Zhao Xiaojing scolded with a smile: "Man, I really don't know how Dong Xiaonan fell in love with you?" You don't even know the golden rule of half an hour? This is the key point for men and women to get along! ”
Li Yi touched his head and smiled awkwardly, how did Dong Xiaonan get along with him? It can't be said that Dong Xiaonan was upside down because of Lushan fruits and vegetables, and then took advantage of the strength of the wine to ask for Dong Xiaonan, right?
Zhao Xiaojing analyzed: "Man, listen up, I'll only say one side!"
The half-hour golden rule is an essential element for men and women to get along with, and is very suitable for resolving disputes between men and women who quarrel or have fierce conflicts.
Generally speaking, men and women will have the thought of remorse after a quarrel, and this thought is the strongest in half an hour, and they want to say sorry, but for the sake of face, no one wants to say it.
At this time, if either party takes the initiative to apologize within half an hour, and then add some soft words, then the relationship will not only not regress, but will continue to heat up.
Men and women often quarrel not to argue about right and wrong, but subconsciously ask each other to put themselves in an important position through scolding or excessive actions.
Therefore, after the quarrel, the most taboo is the Cold War. The Cold War only exacerbated misunderstandings and even emotional breakdowns.
Don't apologize immediately after a fight, this will make the other party look down on you, and even become more arrogant in your later life.
Don't go beyond half an hour, because after half an hour, the guilt of the quarrel disappears, and it is better to apologize than not to apologize.
Li Yi saw that the time was almost half an hour, and hung up the phone with a few perfunctory words, which made Zhao Xiaojing, who wanted to make porridge on the phone, depressed.
"You stupid girl!" Suddenly, there was a sigh from behind.
"Ahh Zhao Xiaojing screamed, looked back and saw that it was her father Zhao Shu, patted her chest in fright, and asked a little embarrassedly, "Dad?" When did you come in? You don't say a word either? ”
Zhao Shu covered Zhao Xiaojing with a quilt, stood up, and walked around the house a few times with some hesitation, his face was as cold as an iceberg, but he just didn't speak, Zhao Xiaojing looked at it with a hairy heart, this is obviously a prelude to anger?
Zhao Xiaojing was bold, squeezed out a smile and said, "Hehe, Lao Zhao, what's wrong with you?" ”
Zhao Shu wanted to turn around and scold Zhao Xiaojing loudly, he listened to her call with Li Yi just now, but he could also hear that his daughter actually made Li Yi small? Dong Xiaonan of a second-rate family turned out to be bigger?
But seeing Zhao Xiaojing's frightened appearance, her heart softened again, and she shook her head and sighed: "Jing'er, why are you doing this? What do you say that she is also my Zhao Shu's daughter, you ...... You are like Li Yi, don't you feel wronged? ”
When Zhao Xiaojing heard this, her face turned pale, Zhao Shu said it so clearly, the call just now must have been heard.
"Dad, you...... You know it all? Zhao Xiaojing lowered her head, like a child who had done something wrong, and didn't dare to look up at Zhao Shu.
Zhao Shu touched Zhao Xiaojing's head lovingly and asked, "I asked you one side at the end, do you regret it?" ”
Zhao Xiaojing didn't think about it, shook her head and said, "Dad, I have no regrets!" ”
A few words, revealing Zhao Xiaojing's determination, the father and daughter looked at each other for a full minute, Zhao Shu saw his daughter's persistence, nodded a little reluctantly: "Okay, since you have no regrets, then I, the father, will not say anything."
Jing'er, you have had your own ideas since you were a child, and this is a lifelong event, since you are so persistent, I will not hinder you.
However, as a father, I would say that no matter what happens, this will always be your home.
Later in life, your children may be far away from you, and your men may ignore you, but here! Always be your harbor, as long as your mother and I are alive, you will always be our little princess. ”
"Dad......" Zhao Xiaojing threw herself into Zhao Shu's arms in tears, crying heartbreakingly.
That woman has no vision of love? What woman doesn't have the desire to be pampered by a man for the rest of her life? But now she has torn up her good wishes with her own hands, like popping a bubble, piercing her good wishes since childhood.
To be small for Li Yi, how can she be willing?
But she also knows Dong Xiaonan's unshakable position in Li Yi's heart, so she makes unremitting efforts to help Li Yi and highlight her value. But as long as Dong Xiaonan doesn't die, she can't become bigger.
"Hmph, Li Yi! Let my daughter be small? Then I'll have to try your weight, too! Zhao Shu muttered viciously.
"Huh? Dad, you...... Don't you mess around? Zhao Xiaojing was so frightened that she hurriedly dissuaded her.
Zhao Shu shook his head: "Don't worry, the person my daughter likes, I won't mess around."
I just let him see that I, Zhao Shu, is not a vegetarian! Otherwise, in the future, you will not be deflated by Li Yi's side?
If the mother's family is not tough, this girl who married in the past will be angry! ”