After walking around the village, Ding Dehua held another meeting after returning to the village department, and this time the meeting was mainly to survey the site of the old school and do investment accounting......

Song Ting is the representative of the donation unit of the school, he was invited by Ding Dehua to the front to speak to everyone, don't look at Song Ting seems to have traveled a lot outside and has seen the world, but she was a little nervous on this occasion.

Song Ting had a private chat with Tang Jun yesterday, and when she talked about interpersonal problems, Song Ting is very distressed now after returning from the coast, because she always feels that she is a little out of place with her hometown.

Tang Jun told her at the time: "Song Ting, interpersonal relationships are an emotional intelligence problem, if you want to learn to deal with interpersonal relationships, you must think about problems from the perspective of others, don't be preconceived, don't feel that you are awesome, in that case, your interpersonal relationships will not be handled well!"

You always talk about how simple the interpersonal relations in Guangdong Province are, how complex the interpersonal relations in our mainland are, and so on. All I can say is that if you think so, something goes wrong with your mind!

You feel simple doing business in Guangdong Province because you are just a little ant over there, and you are not qualified to stand in a higher position and contact with higher-level people, so you feel simple......

And when you go to the mainland, because the economic development of the mainland cannot keep up with the coast, a boss like you is revealed in a small pond, and then you have the opportunity to contact local celebrities, then it will naturally ......"

Tang Jun and Song Ting are more familiar, and the two are classmates, the key is that after the two went on a blind date, Tang Jun didn't have too many scruples when he talked to her. As soon as he said this, Song Ting was not convinced, and said:

"Tang Jun, I won't be convinced if you say that, why am I not emotionally intelligent? I don't have to say anything, I'm just a very low-key and ordinary thing, and I'm a down-to-earth person......"

Tang Jun smiled faintly and said, "I'll say one thing!" Let's talk about this mountaineering thing, all of us wear 3517 sneakers to climb the mountain, using bamboo canes for trekking poles, why are you and Boss Huang wearing mountaineering equipment and using luxury trekking poles to climb the mountain?

You think this is fine, and in fact it is not a problem, but from this subtlety, you can see that you still think about the problem simply, and your emotional intelligence may not be high, right? ”

Song Ting said: "Is this also a matter?" I know that you wearing the teacher's liberation sneakers to climb the mountain is to pat Chairman Ding's ass, but why don't I wear my own equipment, I have to wear that old-fashioned 3517 with you? ”

As soon as Song Ting said this, Tang Jun felt that he was really cheap today, why did he play the piano to the cow again? How much trouble it takes to talk about this to someone who doesn't have this emotional intelligence?

The key is that there is no right or wrong in this kind of thing, what is needed is life experience to experience and experience, and then to understand.

Tang Jun's emotions were keenly captured by Song Ting, and she was a little unhappy in her heart, and said, "Tang Jun, you should talk about it again, let me be convinced!" ”

Tang Jun said: "Song Ting, you are now a well-known entrepreneur and philanthropist in Yongping, and people like you are famous in Yongping." If you can follow what Chairman Ding says, and if you think about it carefully, how good will Chairman Ding's impression of you be?

There is no problem for you to wear your own equipment, where do the county leaders of Chairman Ding's family care about this? But I said that you should think about the problem from the other person's point of view, think more about the details, and you can understand it if you think about it carefully......"

Tang Jun said this, and then Song Ting thought about it and felt as if it was really like that. It seems that the way to get along with people is not just to make people not have a bad impression of you, but to make people have a good impression of you, which requires hard work.

The mountaineering problem that Tang Jun said was actually an opportunity for Song Ting to get closer to Chairman Ding, but Song Ting didn't have that awareness at that time, why is this? Is this not emotional intelligence enough?

Tang Jun obviously didn't want to talk about this topic anymore, and Song Ting couldn't understand it, but judging from the performance of the school construction site today, Song Ting still listened to a lot of words.

As a representative of the investors of the donation school, Song Ting behaved very low-key, willing to be Ding Dehua's green leaf everywhere, basically planning on the spot, planning Ding Dehua made every promise, and she had few objections.

After Ding Dehua presided over the general plan for the construction of the point school, Ding Dehua said:

"Now there is another problem, that is, there is no village department in Hongyu Village, and the village department still rents private houses! I don't think this will work, we will increase the length of the dormitory building here and make a few bungalows, and these bungalows can be used as temporary village departments!

It just so happened that there was such a large open space here, and after the school built a small playground, there was still an empty space, and the masses also had a place to sit for meetings, and the vision was relatively broad, do you think my idea is feasible? ”

Tang Jun said: "Chairman, you are thinking about us, we can't ask for it, the key is whether Mr. Song thinks it is feasible?" This may require an additional investment of tens of thousands of dollars! ”

Song Ting smiled and said, "Tang Jun, I can donate 500,000 yuan, is there still a difference of tens of thousands of yuan?" ”

As soon as Song Ting said this, everyone at the venue burst into laughter, and through this bold statement, Song Ting won the favor of many people. Huang Jianjun watched this scene from the side, very envious in his heart, thinking that it was better to be rich! Song Ting is a female streamer, and now she is sought after by so many people, and he Huang Jianjun is also the boss, but his size is much smaller, so he is not so tough......

In fact, Huang Jianjun has always had a good impression of Song Ting, Huang Jianjun has just divorced, Song Ting is a beautiful person, and the first time the two met, he fell in love with others.

introduced Song Ting to Tang Jun to engage in poverty alleviation, and then met Ding Dehua through Tang Jun, Huang Jianjun's original intention of doing so many things was to pursue others.

However, through this period of getting along, Huang Jianjun found that Song Ting's strength was much stronger than him. Also, Song Ting doesn't seem to have the meaning between men and women at all for him, so his mentality has undergone a subtle change.

thinks that Song Ting can earn so much money as a woman, so beautiful, he Huang Jianjun should also work hard to earn money, and being rich these years is a master......

The project of the school was finalized, Song Ting directly transferred 300,000 yuan to the account of Hongyu Village at one time, and she promised to sort out the relevant materials after the school started construction, and then took other bosses of the Chamber of Commerce to go to Hongyu Village in person, and then cash out all the remaining money when the time came......

Tang Jun received the money and immediately prepared a donation ceremony, Qian Chaoyang presided over the ceremony, Chairman Ding delivered a speech as a leader, and finally Song Ting took a group photo with relevant leaders, which can be said to have earned enough face, and her mood was very happy and happy......