305 Consultation
Not long after taking my mother-in-law home, a light rain began to fall outside the window.
After sitting down, they started chatting, chatting and chatting, Wu Ping whipped Shen Yize again:
"You said that this child is really, how can you be so hasty in proposing such a big thing? If you are a student, it is reasonable to make a casual mess on campus, but you are a person who runs for three, and your career is quite successful, and if you are so small, people will think that you are not sincere enough.
Mom doesn't say that the grander and grander the better, but at least, your venue, costumes, atmosphere, oaths, and photography...... You'll have to put some effort into it! I've watched your proposal video, and to be honest, I think it's too hasty.
I can also understand that because Valentine's Day is still during the Spring Festival, it may not be easy to arrange. I hope that there will be a formal ceremony when we get engaged, and such a good girl is willing to marry into our family, I think we should at least do our best within our ability, what do you think? β
Seeing his mother's rare seriousness, Shen Yize didn't dare to smile facefully, and immediately said: "Mom, you're right, it's true that I didn't think it through." β
Yang Jiuan wanted to relieve Mr. Shen: "Auntie, in fact, you don't necessarily have to make up another one, we can make it more formal when we get married!" β
Shen Lingyun disagreed: "One yard is one yard, what are we called before we get married, it is called three media and six ceremonies, three books and six hires, when we get married, it is eight sedan chairs and ten miles of red makeup, these two parts are very important." Marriage is a big deal, not only for the couple, but also for both families.
So this ceremony, it's not just for the two of you, it's what those of us as parents want to see. β
Yang Jiuan wanted to say something more, but was suddenly grabbed by Teacher Shen.
Shen Yize preemptively said: "I know, Dad, Mom, I will make a formal marriage proposal for An An." β
"That's right."
Both Shen Lingyun and Wu Ping smiled with satisfaction.
Fang Qiong diverted the topic and asked, "An An, have you also made a marriage proposal video?" Why didn't you show me? β
"Mom, I didn't pay attention to me when I saw you, I posted it on the Internet."
"Which site?"
"Weibo."
Fang Qiong was stunned for a moment, and soon realized that this involved her knowledge blind spot, so she handed the phone to her daughter: "You install one for me." β
Yang Jiu'an downloaded the software for his mother, Wu Ping took out his mobile phone, clicked into An Yi's account, and introduced to his mother-in-law: "That's it, they will post some life videos every once in a whileββ"
["Hello everyone, I'm Shen Yize. βγ
Suddenly hearing his own voice, Shen Yize was stunned at first, and his toes immediately curled up.
Mom clicked on An Yi's first vlog and watched it with Fang Qiong, not only was it open, but her voice was also loud, and Shen Yize's scalp was numb when she heard it.
["You Director Yang just joined the group a few days ago, and now in a place called Yellow Code Village, you are making a documentary on the theme of the countryside - not the Real Madrid of the team, the color is yellow, the yard of the dock, I don't know if you have heard of it, in Huai'an, the yellow code and red pepper are still very famous......"
"Today, I will take you to visit Director Yang's class to see what kind of state she is in the crew. However, I didn't tell her about this operation, and we surprised her by killing her without knowing it. Okay, without further ado, we'll see you in the village! βγ
"Dad, Mom, Auntie, you talk, I'll prepare dinner."
Shen Yize found an excuse to hurry away, and originally wanted to go to the restaurant at night, but due to the rain, the elders said that they would eat casually at home.
Not long after, Yang Jiuan heard his own voice on his mobile phone, and hurriedly got up: "I'll go and give him a hand." β
After saying that, he slipped away immediately.
Wu Ping praised sincerely: "An An is really diligent, these days, there are not many girls who are willing to cook." β
Fang Qiong said with a smile: "She will also start to cook, or Xiao Shen can do it, I heard that he has learned from the master." β
Wu Ping "harmed": "It is also because of An An that he is willing to learn, not to mention cooking before, he doesn't even divide grains!" Since he was with An An, he seemed to have changed as a person, so it is too important to say that women are men's universities, and it is so important to find a suitable other half. β
Fang Qiong also said: "That's true, the two of them should support each other together, care for each other, work together, and make progress together, as long as this is the case, life can get better and better, and life will become happier and happier." After meeting Xiao Shen, An An has also changed a lot, this girl used to have no sense of security, and blame me for ......"
After praising each other's children, they began to talk.
Fang Qiong did not hide it, and told her in-laws about Yang Jiu'an's childhood experience.
In An An's past, Wu Ping and Shen Lingyun heard their son say that the second elder has always been open-minded and has no prejudice against single-parent families, but he loves her even more, and feels that she has experienced so many things, and it is not easy to maintain such a positive and sunny attitude now.
"Our family Yize has also changed a lot, don't look at him now, he seems to be very extroverted now, he used to be very introverted, he hid everything in his heart, and never told us-"
Fang Qiong was a little surprised: "Really? I can't see it at all......"
The first time she saw Shen Yize, she felt that this child could speak well and was very good at expressing herself, and she couldn't imagine the introverted and unspeakable Xiao Shen in her mother's mouth.
Wu Ping nodded and said with emotion: "It's hard to believe, right? Even his dad and I thought it was incredible.
This child loves to read books since he was a child, and reading itself is a good habit, but the bad thing is that he only loves to read, he spends all his free time on this, and hardly goes out to play with his classmates, and over time, he becomes less gregarious and less willing to communicate with others.
Later, he started writing, won a lot of essay contest awards, published on the Internet, and met a lot of friends on the Internet, at that time he gradually became more cheerful, but it was only limited to the Internet, in real life he was still very shy, very quiet, and did not like to talk.
About four or five years ago, there was a time when he was having a really bad time, his career, his relationship and his life were in shambles, and his dad and I were very worried about him, because he never talked to us about these things, and every time we called, he said, 'I'm fine, I'm fine, don't worry'.
It is very dangerous for a person to keep things in his heart for a long time, not to communicate with others, and not to vent to the outside world. We were very afraid that he would suffer from depression or other mental illnesses, but fortunately, he not only came out on his own, but also found a new direction and a new life.
It was also after that blow that he went from being taciturn to what he is now. It's good, his father and I are very pleased, right, old Shen? β
Shen Lingyun Zhengse said: "Frustration is the only way for a man to grow and mature, everyone will encounter countless hurdles, big and small, just like breaking through, every hurdle will become stronger, and you will better understand what is responsibility and what is responsible." It's like when I first joined the army......"
Wu Ping rolled her eyes to the sky, thinking that it would come again and again, I am afraid that this broken thing about Chen Sesame and rotten grain will be told no less than a thousand times!
"Mom, uncle, aunt, it's time to eat!"
Yang Jiuan beckoned the three of them to dinner.
On the table, the mother-in-law inevitably had to praise her son-in-law's cooking skills.
Shen Yize said: "I made these Sichuan dishes, and these Jiangnan dishes were made by An An." β
Wu Ping tasted An An's cooking and immediately praised her.
Yang Jiu'an glanced at Teacher Shen, his eyes were crooked, and there was a faint smile on the corner of his mouth.
said that she did it, but in fact, she just stirred it up a few times with a spatula, and she knew that Teacher Shen deliberately said this to make his mother like her more.
Although it is eaten at home, what should be discussed is still to be discussed.
The two most important things, of course, are when the engagement reception will be held, where it will be held, what to do, and when you plan to get married.
"Do you have any special customs over there when you get engaged?"
Wu Ping asked.
Fang Qiong shook her head: "To be honest, our family rarely holds engagement banquets when they get married, it mainly depends on you, there is one point, it is best to choose to do it on holidays, so that it will be more convenient for everyone." β
Shen Yize interjected: "After May Day, I will contact the planning company and ask them to come up with a few plans, and we will choose when the time comes." β
"Yes, the process is pretty much the same anyway, and we can discuss the details."
Regarding the engagement banquet, as a junior, An Yizi has no experience, and Fang Qiong has not experienced much either, so Wu Ping and Shen Lingyun basically have the final say.
"I've seen the time a long time ago, the Dragon Boat Festival is good, if my mother agrees, we will do it in Jiangzhou."
Usually the engagement is also carried out at the man's house, Fang Qiong has no objection, just asks: "What day is the Dragon Boat Festival?" β
"The 10th of next month."
An Yi glanced at each other, neither of them expected it to be so soon, and they didn't have time to prepare mentally.
Wu Ping explained: "After the Dragon Boat Festival, the next holiday will have to wait until the Mid-Autumn Festival and National Day, it's too late, and you can get married at that time." β
Shen Yize suddenly had a black line: "Mom, let's talk about marriage, let's discuss engagement first." β
Mom is really anxious......
Wu Ping said: "Marriage should also be discussed, and it is time to get married after getting engaged." β
Shen Yize muttered: "Then it's time to have children after getting married!" β
"That's right! You Chinese New Year's Eve today, An An is twenty-seven this year, and it is time to have a child. β
Fang Qiong echoed: "When I was twenty-seven years old, An An, you were about to enter elementary school. β
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An Yi didn't know how to pick it up for a while?
Shen Lingyun asked coldly: "You two are planning to have children, right?" β
Seeing that his parents and mother-in-law both cast inquiring eyes, Shen Yize had no choice but to say: "Yes, of course, I want a girl, An An wants a boy, so we plan to have two - it's too early to talk about this, let's talk about engagement." β
He wanted to get the topic back on track, but his mother said: "It's not troublesome to get engaged, we don't invite anyone, you just need to think about how you should propose, and you don't have to worry about anything else, leave it to your mother." In contrast, marriage is the most important thing, and it is not easy to meet each other, so we will take this opportunity to sit down and discuss it. β
According to her mother's meaning, she sincerely hopes that An Yi will get married on the National Day, and she will be pregnant this year, and she will be able to hold her grandson next year.
But Shen Yize and Yang Jiuan are not so anxious, just like Wu Ping said, marriage is the most important, especially An Yi's marriage, it is definitely not low-key if you want to, just thinking about who to invite is a big project, this kind of thing can't go wrong, and if you miss it, you will offend people.
However, there is one thing that my mother is right, he and An An are not young, and it is not the same thing to drag it like this, and he wants to give An Yatou a home, a home that is justified.
So he said: "Otherwise, I have a proposal, we are not in a hurry to do the wedding, but An An and I can get the certificate first, An An, what do you think?" β
It doesn't matter if anyone says this, you have to be willing to do it.
Do you have a certificate......
Yang Jiu'an didn't expect Teacher Shen to make such a proposal.
She glanced at him, and quickly withdrew her gaze, only to feel her heart beat faster, and said with a red face, "I think it's okay." β
and Teacher Shen to get the certificate, how could she not be willing?
Shen Yize looked at the slightly embarrassed An girl, and said with a smile: "Why don't we get the certificate on Qixi Festival?" β
"When is Tanabata?"
Wu Ping didn't hesitate: "August 10th." β
Before coming to Jiangnan, she had found someone to calculate these days, so she remembered it very clearly.
"Tanabata is good, suitable for getting a certificate."
Mom is serious.
In this way, they got engaged on June 10 and got their license on August 10...... It's really fast, Yang Jiuan suddenly was in a trance, unbelievable, three months later, she was going to be a wife.
After thinking about it, I felt that there was nothing unbelievable, she had been with Teacher Shen for almost three years, and she was very compatible in all aspects, not to mention her feelings, she couldn't do without Teacher Shen, and Teacher Shen couldn't do without him.
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Shen Yize was very puzzled when he received a call from the provincial Youth League Committee.
He also received the same phone call shortly after the Grammys returned last year, and he was awarded a provincial "Youth May Fourth Medal" in recognition of his contributions to the entertainment industry.
He has always had a good relationship with the Jiangnan Provincial Government, and after the establishment of Lexiang Technology, the province once asked him about his future plans. He knew what the other party wanted to ask, and bluntly stated that he would not move the company out of Jiangnan, and Golden Point and Lexiang Technology also enjoyed a series of policy support.
He has won a lot of honors in the province, and the May Fourth Medal is not the first, nor will it be the last.
What he wondered was that he had already won this award, so why was the Youth League Committee looking for him? You can't give him two in a row......
The other party quickly expressed his intentions: "The national May Fourth Medal selection activity has begun, and each province has two nominations, and after discussion between the Youth League Committee and the Youth Federation, it was decided to nominate you to represent our province in the national selection." β
"National?"
Shen Yize was a little surprised, he was not surprised that the province issued him a May Fourth medal, after all, there are many places, and all walks of life can take care of it, but there are only two nominations in the country, and in the end, he can be selected for his head, he is a little incomprehensible, generally this kind of award, shouldn't it be given priority to members in the system?
The other party's tone was very certain: "Yes, you prepare a written document, give it to us before next week, and we will help you submit it." β
After hanging up the phone, Shen Yize hurriedly checked the relevant information on the Internet:
"The 'May Fourth Medal for Chinese Youth' is the highest honor awarded to outstanding young people in China by the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League and the All-China Youth Federation. It aims to establish outstanding young people with political progress, noble moral character and outstanding contributions, and to reflect the spiritual character and value pursuit of contemporary youth......"
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