Comrade Chen Dahong was obviously very interested in the question raised by Gu Yun, otherwise he would not have asked a rhetorical question with a little excitement.

This is expected by Gu Laogou, after all, the relationship between Chen Dahong and his daughter has always been very poor, and he must be analyzing and reflecting on the reasons for this situation on weekdays, so when he mentioned this matter seriously, it was impossible for Chen Dahong not to be interested in listening.

To put it bluntly, if Chen Dahong wants to know what his daughter has thought of him as a father in the past few decades, it is impossible to ask by himself, because Chen Fei'er will definitely not say, the only way is to find out through Gu Yun.

There is no doubt about it, after all, Gu Laogou is currently the closest person to Chen Fei'er in the world - how close? Not only is there zero distance, but it was also a negative distance for a while, and the duration adds up to at least 5 hours or more.

Don't show off, even Gu Laogou admires himself in this regard.

Of course, he also welcomes Chen Dahong to ask, because in this way, he can not only open the topic to protect himself, but also show his worth, maybe Chen Dahong can take good care of him as a little comrade in the future.

But to ask, you must have the attitude of asking.

Chen Dahong obviously wanted to ask, but when he came up, it was "you know a fart", Gu Laogou was not too happy, after all, it didn't mean that the prospective father-in-law could do whatever he wanted, compared to the next Cheng Zhongyuan, the prospective father-in-law sent money and invited him to eat, full of the previous generation's love for the next generation, even if he had a scandal, he just asked him to go home to explain coldly...... Gu Laogou felt that Chen Dahong should be on par with him.

So, he began to drink tea and was silent.

Didn't you say I didn't understand, so I wouldn't speak.

Gu Laogou is good at breaking ribs, but he prefers to break people's mental weakness than physical ribs, and now he has touched Chen Dahong's weakness, so he is not in a hurry.

It is said that Chen Dahong is holding a tea cup, but he has no heart to drink tea, he really wants to hear what Gu Yun has now, or what "inside information" or something like that.

Since retiring, Chen Dahong has been trying to bridge the relationship with her daughter and repay the feelings owed to her over the years, by the way...... also fight for the right to hold grandchildren and granddaughters in the future.

What else can people do when they are old, don't they just want to have a reunion, a neat family?

But after waiting for a long time, he found that this kid didn't even speak, and he was a little anxious at that time.

So I couldn't help but say, "Are you talking, dumb?" ”

Gu Laogou raised his head, his expression was still respectful, but he asked rhetorically, "Ah, what did I say?" ”

Chen Dahong glared, "Didn't you say that you know why Fei Fei has a bad relationship with me?" Did Fei Fei tell you something, I'll hear it. ”

"Oh, didn't you say I didn't know about your family, I think it makes sense, so let's not talk nonsense."

"If I tell you to say it, you can say it, and don't talk about those useless things. Say it! ”

Gu Laogou felt that Chen Dahong could almost listen to himself seriously and without interrupting, so he smiled faintly.

said, "Then I'll tell you, uncle, listen to whether this is the reason." First of all, have you ever wondered why Sister Fei'er has such excellent conditions and so many men who chase her, but she didn't really fall in love until she was thirty years old? Isn't that unusual for a normal person? ”

Chen Dahong frowned, pondered for a while, and then said, "You go on, I'll listen." ”

The tone is much better now.

"The only explanation is that she doesn't trust men." Gu Laogou sighed and said, "The influence of the original family on a person is huge. Because of your example in front of her, in her subconscious, she always thinks that men are unreliable.

All men are either unproductive, she doesn't look down on them, or they are promising, but she thinks that sooner or later, like you, such a man will have to throw his wife and daughter aside in order to pursue his ideals.

When I say aside, I don't mean leaving home and running away, but even if we live together, we are still separated. She vaguely revealed to me that the relationship she wanted was not like this. ”

Chen Dahong nodded slightly as he listened. Then, he took a deep breath and slowly exhaled.

muttered to himself, "I'm responsible, responsible......"

The old dog thought to himself, your responsibility is too big, listen to me slowly make it up for you...... Say.

"Because of you, Chen Fei'er is very insecure. Without exaggeration, I think she may have some level of depression. ”

Chen Dahong's eyes widened suddenly, and he almost got up from his seat, "Depression? How do you know? ”

Gu Laogou nodded affirmatively and said, "Others don't know, how can I not know?" I'll give you a few examples, but don't worry. ”

Chen Dahong waved his hand and said impatiently, "Hurry up, I can hold it." ”

Gu Laogou sighed and said very "distressed", "Sometimes, she is obviously lying well, but somehow she screams. Sometimes, she would call me brother and even dad for no reason. You know, I'm younger than her. ”

Well, this ...... Strictly speaking, it's not a lie, it's a matter of how to understand it.

In order to survive the catastrophe smoothly, Gu Laogou had no choice but to apologize to Chen Fei'er silently in his heart, and he didn't want this to happen...... But otherwise, it's hard to get this old comrade.

In order to atone for his sins, Gu Laogou decided to continue, in order to promote the reconciliation of the father and daughter, and make a good contribution.

Chen Dahong gasped, and his face became heavy.

It seems that the problem is more serious than you think.

Gu Laogou continued, "This shows that she is subconsciously, very eager for someone to protect her and take care of her, this kind of emotion has been accumulated for a long time, and she will naturally become depressed and may explode at any time."

To put it bluntly, in the entertainment industry, everyone knows that she is very independent and a strong woman. But how many people know that she was forced out? ”

Chen Dahong let out a long sigh.

Over the years, it has not been easy for my daughter.

Chen Dahong felt that what Gu Yun said made sense, and he was responsible for the reason why Chen Fei'er became like this.

Although he has countless reasons to justify, for his daughter, his only daughter, it is indeed ruthless that he can't grow up with her.

Men, admit what you should recognize!

After being silent for a long time, Chen Dahong finally said, "How much did Fei Fei tell you about me?" ”

Gu Laogou thought for a while and said, "Actually, it's not a lot, I only know that you are a soldier, and you have been separated from her since you were a child, and there are very few opportunities to meet." Later, because of certain things, you will be strangers. Sister Fei'er didn't want to say more, she didn't seem to want to mention you. ”

While listening, Chen Dahong stared at the teacup in his hand intently, speechless for a long time.

Gu Laogou felt that the time had come, and it was time to conclude his statement.

So, he said very pertinently, "I understand the significance of your duty, and I am proud to know a soldier like you." But at the same time, I also hope that you can look at the problem from the perspective of Sister Fei'er. ”

"For example?" Chen Dahong asked immediately, his face full of curiosity.

"For example, you should respect her choice." Gu Laogou said sincerely, "It took her thirty years to digest the shadows and perfect herself, and now she has finally opened the door in her heart and accepted me." I know I'm still very young, and I'm not good enough to be worthy of Sister Fei'er. But I'm going to try, try to be the kind of man she wants. So I beg you, give me a chance. ”

Chen Dahong looked at Gu Yun's eyes, and he asked himself that after staying in a leadership position for decades, no kind of person could escape his eyes, especially those who told lies.

But he found that the little comrade in front of him, from his expression to his eyes, had no trace of lying at all.

This is natural, because this time, it is not how superb Gu Laogou's acting skills are, but that he really wants to give Chen Fei'er a relationship that she wants - although Chen Fei'er herself knows and believes that this relationship may not be able to go far, but Gu Laogou must at least make sure that every second she is with her is the feeling she wants.

Chen Dahong didn't speak, but what he was thinking about was something else.

This kid is clearly lying.

He's not good enough?

He's just too good, too good to fake, too good to be conspicuous, and he can't help but chase here.

At a young age, he has just started college, and he has already made at least billions of assets from scratch, and the key is that he is not bad, and he is still a man of the hour in school.

With such a man, at this age, how many women have to worry about it? It's all people who have come over, who doesn't know who?

The point is that he is only eighteen years old, and his daughters are already thirty.

Chen Dahong has already summed up this matter, not to mention whether this kid has the heart to marry his daughter in the future, even if he can really get married, it will have to wait four years later, this kid is twenty-two years old, and he has reached the legal age of marriage.

And at that time, my daughter was already thirty-four years old, what is this, this is an advanced maternal age!

It's okay to hold your grandson a few years later, but what if one is not suitable for production when the time comes?

Chen Dahong has many similar worries, and it can be said that he feels that these two people can't be together from the bottom of his heart.

He made a special trip this time, in fact, there were two purposes, one was to see who this kid was, and the other was to go crazy if he caught the opportunity, so that he would retreat.

It's too unreliable, judging from his 60 years of life experience, this relationship is too unreliable.

But after chatting in this circle, he felt that the words of others were irrefutable.

Originally, her daughter had a shadow on herself, but now she has finally reconciled a little, and she forcibly intervened in her feelings, can she forgive herself?

Having said that, this kid does seem to be different from his peers, and he doesn't feel the naivety of an eighteen-year-old child when he talks to him, on the contrary, everything he says exudes a mature and steady energy, which is easily convincing.

The logic is smooth, well-organized, reasonable, and not flustered at all, Chen Dahong even can't believe it, this is really what an eighteen-year-old kid can say?

But soon he came to his senses.

Maybe it's because of this that her daughter likes him and feels sure to be with him?

There is a fact that cannot be ignored, that is, with this kid's conditions, if he can really do it wholeheartedly, then his thirty-year-old girl will really fucking pick it up.

So what should you do?

……

When Chen Dahong drank the tea in his hand, the sweet and distant fragrance of tea made him feel that his eyes were clear.

He changed his mind.

The Great Mentor once said that the struggle should be based on ways and means.

Now himself, on the one hand, he can't judge what this kid thinks in his heart, and he can't rule out the possibility that he really has no other thoughts and just wants to be with his daughter, so he can't engage in unjust, false and wrongful cases - after all, if he can really be single-minded, then Fei Fei can really fucking pick it up.

On the other hand, even if I want to give my daughter advice, it is not this time - at least, after I am completely reconciled with my daughter and she re-establishes that trust in her father, right?

Thinking about it like this, the way he looked at Gu Yun was different.

Things are constantly evolving, and contradictions are not immutable, as long as they are not contradictions between us and the enemy, then we should unite all the forces that can be united for our use.

Thinking of this, he thought for a moment, and then said, "You kid is very good at speaking, and I also appreciate your courage to admit and take responsibility." But as the old saying goes, the road knows the horsepower, and this has been in the hearts of the people for a long time, right? What my attitude towards the two of you is not what you say, but what you do in the future. I'm her dad after all, you know that, right? ”

The old comrade gave Gu Yun a very strategic reminder first, that is, if you want to be good with Chen Fei'er, it is also very important to get rid of his girlfriend's father first.

Gu Laogou didn't say a word, and immediately nodded.

"I know, I know everything. Uncle Chen, what do you want me to do? ”

Chen Dahong picked up the teapot on the coffee table, poured himself another cup, and after considering the words, he said, "You probably know the situation between me and Fei Fei." As a father, I admit that I owe her a lot, so I want to make up for it now. ”

"Yes, yes."

"But after all, we haven't been together for a long time, and I don't understand the girl's mind, so I want to ......"

"Yes, I understand."

"Hehe, it's good to understand." Chen Dahong smiled with satisfaction, "After all, our goal is the same, which is to make Fei Fei happy and stop being depressed, right?" ”

"Unanimous, exactly!"

"So, we're like a united front now, so in order to better cooperate, I hope we can communicate with each other in terms of information. That is to say......"

Chen Dahong put down the teacup, looked at Gu Yun, and said, "Once a week, you can report to me on Fei Fei's state of mind, okay?" Or you can also send a running account, such as what she chatted with you on your mobile phone, what she did and what she ate when you met, the more detailed the better, and I will extract useful information myself...... Ah no, useful information. ”

Gu Laogou immediately smiled in his heart.

Is this talking about PY trading?

But old comrade, you are cheating and cheating, since you are communicating with each other, how can you pay unilaterally for me, and you sit back and wait for the harvest?