An oriental garden full of the ancient charm of the West Lake garden and the classical beauty of the Orient is located next to the artificial lake, and a boulder in front of the door is engraved with the four big characters of [Baijia School].

Walking into the Hundred Schools Zhuge Jin, he saw that the pavilions and pavilions were overcrowded, and people were listening to something very quietly.

casually walked into the nearest room, Zhuge Jin looked at the old man who was sitting on the podium leisurely drinking tea and lecturing from a distance, was slightly stunned, and asked in a low voice: "Why did this old guy with a strange temper come to you?" ”

Xianyu glanced at the old man sitting on the podium and said, "You say loyal old man? Oh he! Originally, someone else introduced me to seek medical treatment and save his great-grandson. However, I heard that he was very knowledgeable, so I paid him to be a freelance lecturer at our village school. ”

"Freelance instructor?" Zhuge Jin smiled slightly and asked curiously.

"This old man has a very wild temperament, and he will not agree to be a long-term lecturer in the village. The agreement signed with our village was that he and his great-grandson would have the right to live in the village and be allocated a house, and that in addition to his salary as a lecturer, he would also be paid a salary for traveling. And he can do whatever he wants in the class of the loser's school, come as he wants, and don't come if he doesn't want to. What an uncle..."Xianyu held his mouth and complained, thinking depressedly in his heart: "Moreover, this kind of uncle, they have hired a lot..."

Who makes it difficult to find a mentor of literary thought who has an open mind and is well-informed in these years!

Listening to Xianyu's complaints, Zhuge Jin smiled slightly. Zhong Qixian is not an ordinary person, even a big family of writers like the Zhuge family has a high opinion of his whimsical thoughts and insights.

This is because the writers were born in poverty, and since they were young, they have been tempered by the eyes of others and life because they have no talent for martial arts and magic. But he was never discouraged because he had no talent for martial arts and magic, and found another way and embarked on a path of learning......

Zhong Qixian leisurely leaned on the Taishi chair and said lightly: "Today I will give you the way of the Qi family... Although everyone already knows that at home, we must know how to respect the elderly, love the young, and order the young and the old. But have you ever thought about getting along with the young and the elderly, teaching by word and deed? ”

"In the face of 'education', in fact, no matter how old or young, there will inevitably be times when they make mistakes. In my opinion, it is more difficult for adults, or 'elders', to be 'educated' than children to admit their mistakes and take action to do so. Zhong Qixian took a sip of tea and glanced at the bamboo forest outside the window and said: "There is a stinky boy who said that education is originally prepared for 'mistakes', and the courage to face and admit mistakes, and to change mistakes is not just for educating children. As elders and adults, you are a living role model at home. If you yourself lack the courage to recognize and face your mistakes, to a large extent, you are setting a vivid negative example for your backs. And under your long-term influence, it is inevitable that they will 'be close to Zhu and red and black to ink'. ”

"Sage Cloud: I save my body three times a day! The old man thinks that he is far from being compared with the saints, so he often admonishes himself with this, so what about all of you who do it again? Zhong Qixian's discerning eyes lightly swept over a group of people listening to the lecture and continued: "The ancients also said: there must be my teacher in a threesome, and in terms of education, everyone is a student regardless of age, and the family is actually a primary school. Learning is based on 'attitude', so the old man reminds you that you should think carefully when you get along with your family. ”

"Truth comes from practice, and education and life are more focused on that. In many cases, 'mistakes' are not scary, what is scary is that you are afraid of 'making mistakes'. Zhong Qixian took another sip of tea and said lightly: "For example, many people who are parents and elders spend money on the convenient way of educating their children. Many people will not give their children a lot of pocket money because they are afraid that their children will spend money indiscriminately, but in fact, although this practice is out of a kind of 'good intentions', in terms of practical effects, I think it is wrong. ”

"Because giving money to children and letting them manage and use it themselves is the most 'practical' way. The advantage of this is that it gives children space to express themselves, and it also gives parents and elders room to 'educate'. Zhong Qixian said leisurely: "It may be inevitable that children will make mistakes, but because of this, education can also be implemented." Give the children a sum of money, and the parents can loosen it first and then tighten it and then loosen it. Relaxed management is to give children the space for self-development, management, learning and mistakes, and the way of supervision, guidance and education is the center of the 'education' of parents and elders. It is also a process of learning and exploring education by the elders itself, and education is based on mutual understanding, not overnight. Giving children the space to make mistakes is also a process of knowing and understanding children, and it is also a space for yourself to understand, explore, and learn about the problems of educating children, as well as a space for mutual understanding. ”

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"It's exciting!" Zhuge Jin smiled slightly: "The person who writes and paints next to Zhong Lao should be the recorder!" ”

"Hehe, the words fall without a trace, and the pen is sound!" Xianyu smiled faintly.

"You really don't suffer!" Zhuge Jin smiled slightly.

Then the two visited a few more churches, and Zhuge Jin smiled slightly bitterly: "How do I think it would be better if that rich child stayed in your Autumn Harvest Village!" ”

Xianyu smiled and said, "Our village advocates a free atmosphere, and the same is true for education. That rich kid has a wild temperament, and if you don't manage it well in your family, it will be crooked! ”

Zhuge Jin smiled slightly and said: "By the way, you said that your trip to Wanhua City this time seems to be caused by that rich child, do you want me to take him back and rebuild him?" ”

Xianyu smiled slightly, and said with a cold light in his eyes: "No need, he is an adult." I have already discussed with Uncle Shen's aunt, and I will take him to exercise well......"

Zhuge Jin glanced at Xianyu, the corners of his mouth rose slightly, the bear child is estimated to be miserable this time...

Suddenly, there was a commotion that attracted the attention of Xianyu and most of the people in the Hundred Schools Academy...

"Where are you, ...... you?"

Xianyu frowned slightly, there has always been a rule in the Hundred Schools not to make loud noises! Who is so disrespectful to the number...

"Where are you, Xianyu..."

Listening to the voice, Xianyu was suddenly stunned, why is he? Over the years, except for the occasional time when this kid will bring a few friends back to fight the autumn wind in the Red Refining Tower for cultivation, it is rare to see him come back even during the New Year.

Xianyu cleaned up his mood and walked out, and then saw Zhang Hu's kid rampaging in the Hundred Schools Academy, shouting very anxiously...

"I'm here!" Xianyu walked a few steps forward and said lightly.

As soon as Zhang Hu heard Xianyu's voice, he immediately rushed over and said, "Quick, help me save people!" ”

Xianyu frowned slightly, and at this time, He Shen, who was following Zhang Hu, said with a black line on his face: "The village chief, I have repeatedly told Young Master Zhang..."

Xianyu smiled slightly, and thought slightly dissatisfied in his heart: This kid has really not grown up outside all these years!

However, Yingying didn't let herself interfere in Zhang Hu's affairs, and Xianyu didn't interfere too much. So he said lightly to He Shen, who was embarrassed: "Okay, I know." After speaking, he said to Zhang Hu: "Let's go!" Look at the patients you brought back! ”