One day, Xiaobo came back to me and said, "Mom, I want to buy a car, do you have any money to lend me some, and I will pay you back when the time comes." ”

I heard Xiaobo say this, and I knew that the child said that I would pay it back. But now the store is stocking more and more, and I'm thinking about adding machines to hire people. Although I also have a deposit of tens of thousands of yuan in my hand, it is three years, and I can't take it out halfway, and if I take it out, I will lose thousands of yuan, which is a bit of a loss. On the other hand, he has only been working for a short time, and I don't want him to buy a car early.

So I asked, "Xiaobo, how much money do you have?" Are you going to buy a car? ”

"I have less than 30,000 yuan." Xiaobo said.

Xiaobo said, I really didn't expect the child to save so much money, it seems that he usually spends some money except for buying vegetables for the family, he may not be willing to spend money. I know that Bob doesn't smoke or drink, but it always costs some money to buy a snack, a piece of clothing, or go out with a colleague. It seems that this child is really reluctant to spend a penny in order to save money. Thinking of this, I feel a little distressed.

You don't even have 30,000 yuan, even if I give you another 20,000 yuan, it won't be enough? Moreover, you can't spend all the money, you have to keep a few thousand dollars in your hand for emergencies, right? Bob remembered that you can't spend any money until you don't have a penny left. I said, "Besides, if I give you 20,000 yuan now, I won't even have the money to buy the goods." So, you'd better stop buying it and wait a few months before buying it, right? When the time comes, you can save more, and I can get you some too. “

When Xiaobo heard what I said, he was a little deflated. But he didn't say anything

At this time, Zhang Xu heard that Xiaobo wanted to buy a car, and hurriedly said: "Xiaobo, you buy it, I'll get you 20,000 yuan." I don't want you to return it, but when we load the goods or need a car at home, you just let me use it. "I know that Zhang Xu has money in his hands, because all we have saved is salary, and his usual bonuses and bonuses during the New Year are in his hands, for emergency use, can't we save all the money on a regular basis? How inconvenient is it to catch up with some money? So I discussed with Zhang Xu about saving the salary, and the bonus was in his hands.

And Zhang Xu is a big man, he must have some liquidity in his hands.

Hearing what Zhang Xu said, Xiaobo said happily: "No problem, uncle." I bought my car, if you put it on the goods or if you have something, of course I will let you use it, but if you don't give me the money, I will let you use it if something happens? However, if you give me money, even if I borrow it from you, I will pay it back to you when I have saved enough. ”

"I said that if I don't let you pay it back, I won't let you pay it back, if you want to buy it, set a time, when to buy it, and I'll go with you."

Hearing the conversation between Zhang Xu and Xiaobo, I knew that it would be useless for me to say anything, the two of them said that they were okay, and they didn't need me to take the money, so what's the point of me objecting?

Xiaobo then said to me: "Mom, my uncle is better than you, you are too picky." It's not that I won't pay you back, you see that you are reluctant to borrow me. ”

When I heard Xiaobo say this, I said helplessly: "Hey, it seems that what I say is useless." You said that there are many people and cars in Beijing, and you have just learned to drive for a long time, and you have never touched a car after learning, can you drive in this place? I don't advise you anymore, just buy it if you want. However, you must be extra careful when driving when you buy it back. ”

"Okay, I know Mom, I'll be careful when the time comes, don't worry about it."

Seeing that I didn't say anything anymore, Xiaobo and Zhang Xu were very happy.

So the two of them discussed when to take leave, because they had to take leave at the same time. After discussing it, we started to discuss what car to buy. Xiaobo said: "Just buy a Jetta, I read it on the Internet, it seems to be less than 50,000 yuan." ”

"How can it be so cheap?" Zhang Xu said.

"It should be, let's talk about it then, if it's more, we'll buy another car, otherwise, I'll pay a down payment first, and the rest of the installments will do?"

In this way, the two of them discussed, and they both asked for leave from work tomorrow, and we went to the store to buy a car together the day after tomorrow.

There is a 4S shop not far from our village.

When it was time to go to bed at night, Xiaobo went to sleep in the Westroom. Zhang Xu and I both finished washing and lay on the kang to get ready to sleep. Lying on the kang, I remembered to buy a car again. So I said to Zhang Xu: "Zhang Xu, you said that Xiaobo wanted to buy a car, but you didn't persuade him, and you still supported him to buy it." ”

"Buying a car is not doing a bad thing, what is there to persuade? If the child wants to buy it, he can buy it. And you don't need your money. What's wrong with me getting him the money? Just don't need my pocket money. Isn't it 20,000 yuan? ”

"It's not about money. Xiaobo also said that he would pay back the money. I'm just afraid that he is too young, he bought a car early, and when he was driving, he didn't know how thick the sky was, and he touched someone again. ”

"You're just fooling around. There are more children who are younger than Xiaobo who drive. Where will you touch someone? Besides, how can young people in the future not drive? So don't think about it anymore. We've all settled on things, and even if you don't agree, it won't work. Zhang Xu said.

I also know that what I say now won't work. But in my heart, I just felt that I shouldn't buy this car.

So I said, "Hey, you're just fooling around, and you're what you say." ”

"Wen Li, you control the child too much, he is already old, he can't listen to you in everything, and you don't always treat him as a child. You can't follow him for the rest of your life. So there are some things that you have to let go of when you have to let go. If you think about it, even if we don't give Bob money now. But if he wanted to buy it, he would have saved up for a few more months. When the time comes, people use the money they earn to buy cars, can you still stop them? Get him some money now, it's just a matter of letting him buy it a few months in advance. He was also able to drive for a few more months. In this way, he will be faster when he comes back, and he will not have to crowd the bus every day. Zhang Xu said.

I know what Zhang Xu said makes sense. So I didn't say anything more. Because I also know that Xiaobo's child said that he wanted to buy a car, even if Zhang Xu didn't give him money, as Zhang Xu said, in a few months, if he saved enough money, he would buy it.

In that case, the two of them have discussed it, so what reason do I have to stop it? Think about it, the child squeezes the bus back quite late every day, if you really buy a car, you can get home a long time earlier, in fact, that is also very good, you don't have to spend time on the road every day.

Thinking about it this way, my heart is no longer entangled. But my heart is much brighter.

So I said to Zhang Xu again: "Zhang Xu, if you really want to borrow Xiaobo money, then you can't chase the child, when he saves enough, he will definitely give it to you." I know the character of that child. If he doesn't save enough, you chase him for money, and that's not okay. "I know that Zhang Xu shouldn't do that, but there is a case in everything, so it's better to say everything ahead. Especially a stingy person like Zhang Xu.

As soon as Zhang Xu heard me say this, he was a little angry and said, "What are you talking about?" Am I that kind of person? Besides, what I said was for Xiaobo was for him. Didn't I say it all? When we have something to do, just let me open it. ”