One hundred and thirty-eight
I'm very busy here, and I'm tired every day, so I want to have a good rest. I don't answer their calls anymore. They can make trouble as much as they want, Zhang Xu, I gave it to her. Let them love it.
Zhang Xu called me twice but I didn't answer again, I didn't want to hear a word from him anymore, because every time I heard him speak, I would be very angry.
Zhang Xu called me twice but I didn't answer, and he stopped for a few days. As soon as he stopped, I counted the days after a few days. Fortunately, now Xiaobo has also come back and found a new job, which is very comforting to me.
Didn't Zhang Xu say that he wanted a divorce? Then leave. I also made up my mind, and when he called again, I promised him a divorce.
Sure enough, it didn't take long for him to call again: "Ji Wenli, have you thought about it?" Do you agree to a divorce? β
"I agree." I'll be categorical
"Okay, then when are we going to the Civil Affairs Bureau?"
"Whatever you want, you can go whenever you want." I say. Now I finally understand that marriage is not something that I can keep going if I want to. An absent-minded person, even if I try to compromise it, it is useless.
"Okay, when I ask for leave one day, we will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau together."
"Okay, you can also let me know in advance when the time comes. I also have to ask for leave, because we are also busy with work, and we don't mean that we can leave, and we have to ask for leave in advance. I said to Zhang Xu: "But I have one request, that is, you can't tell my father first." β
"Okay, I won't tell him." Zhang Xu said.
So we all discussed and prepared for divorce. Zhang Xu didn't say that I should go to the Civil Affairs Bureau immediately, I knew that he would definitely go back and discuss with that junior, he had to make sure that Xiaosan could really marry him before he could let me go. It's not a foolproof thing, he doesn't do it.
That night, Zhang Xu called me again and told me that he had already asked for leave, and he would go to the Civil Affairs Bureau one day and ask me to ask for leave as well.
I said, "Okay, I'll ask the director for leave tomorrow." "After I finished speaking, I asked Yanqiu for leave the next day. Yanqiu asked me what I was doing, and I didn't want to tell her that I was going to get a divorce. So I made up another reason. But maybe Yanqiu saw that what I said was false, so she was not very happy, because I was busy with work, and I had just returned from the south and asked for leave not long after, so I only gave me half a day off.
I thought about it for a long time, and it was almost over. So I agreed.
On the day we went to get divorced, I made an appointment with Zhang Xu at a time and a place, because I would save some time by taking his car together. After I got dressed, I rushed to the station to take the train, and when I arrived at the appointed place, I got into Zhang Xu's car again.
He drove Duo to the Civil Affairs Bureau. When I went in, there were quite a lot of people, and we were lined up there. When our names were called, the two of us walked in together. The staff asked, "Are you going to get a divorce?" β
"Yes." Zhang Xu and I answered at almost the same time.
"Seeing that you are not too young, why do you want to divorce?" I didn't answer, Zhang Xu said, "It's a personality incompatibility." β
"Do you agree to a divorce?" Seeing that I didn't speak, the staff probably thought I would disagree, so they asked me again.
"I agree." I say.
"Okay, you can prepare according to the list above, and then come back to handle it when you are ready." After saying that, the staff handed over a list.
I didn't answer, Zhang Xu took the order and we walked out together.
When he got outside, Zhang Xu picked up the list and looked at it. It requires photos, divorce agreements, salaries, and child support. There is also the household register. Of course, there are no children between me and Zhang Xu, so there is no problem of raising children. And the divorce agreement or something is easy to settle. But I didn't bring the household registration book.
Zhang Xu asked me, "Have you brought your household registration book?" β
"No, the household registration book is with the child's father, I have to go back and get it. You wait for two more days, I'll go back and ask Yanqiu for leave again, and go back to ask my ex-husband for the household registration book. β
As soon as Zhang Xu heard that I was going back to get the household registration book. He said, "Can you take a leave of absence?" Will the director give you leave? "He also knows I'm busy.
"I don't know if I'll try it." When I say this, I really don't know what to expect. Because Yanqiu is not very happy to take leave today, if she goes back to her hometown to get the household registration book, she will not be able to come back in a day and a half, so I really don't know if she will give me leave.
"Otherwise, it's okay to wait, it's almost the New Year anyway, don't you have to go back to your hometown during the New Year? When the time comes, you can take the household registration book, and we can do it. "Zhang Xu called me a few times, just to let me go through the formalities with him. But now it seems that he is not so anxious.
"He's not in a hurry, I'm not in a hurry, anyway, I'm not in a hurry to get a certificate with anyone, and now I'm so busy with my life, I'm really embarrassed to open my mouth and ask Yanqiu for leave again. Of course, it's better to wait until the Spring Festival when I go home to get it, and I don't have to run back and forth. If I go back to get it now, then I will have to go back in two months until the Spring Festival. That's really a blind run, and it's really delayed making money.
"Then wait until the Spring Festival." I say. So we failed this divorce. After I came out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, I saw that it was not too late to go back and that I would not delay my work in the afternoon. Fortunately, I'm really afraid that I won't be able to finish it in the morning. Originally, Yanqiu only gave me half a day off, and if I couldn't go to work in the afternoon, it would inevitably be said by Yanqiu. She didn't believe my reason for taking a leave of absence.
When I returned to the factory, the canteen was closed, and I couldn't eat, so I went out to buy food again, and I made a fool of myself, and it was time to go to work, which made me Kun busy.
This matter is over for the time being. I didn't go home again. Because we have all discussed the divorce, he will naturally not come to pick me up, and I don't have time, even if I have time, I don't want to go back. What are you going to do back? Now we're going to go through the formalities. Why should I go back and beg for that boring? And I can also guess that now that woman will blatantly live in my house as a fiancΓ©e.
If I go back, won't I be looking for anger and fighting? Now that you've decided to divorce, don't meet again, right?
I've been busy working in the factory since I went back to work, so no one suspects me if I don't go home. It's just that Sister Li occasionally gossips and asks me why my husband didn't come to pick me up for so long. I told her, "He's on a business trip." "Because I don't want her to ask if she has something to do, whether it's intentional or unintentional, it will make me uncomfortable if she asks me.
Sister Li heard me say that Zhang Xu was on a business trip, so she stopped asking. The days passed. The orders in our factory are almost done. The workers are tired enough. So you don't have to work overtime. Our work is back to its former relaxed state. At this time, someone asked me: "If you don't work overtime, won't you go home Xiao Ji?" β
"If I don't go back, I'm on a business trip, and it's not interesting for me to be home alone, and besides, it's tiring to run back and forth."
I said so, believe it or not. I also know that they don't talk about me behind their backs. All sorts of speculations. Let them guess. Who is not told behind their backs? Who doesn't talk about people behind their backs?