I was asked to find a lawyer, but I didn't know where a law firm was. I don't usually go out much, and even when I do, I don't pay attention to the lawyer's affairs. I had no choice but to go online and look up where there was a law firm nearby. When I found out, I went.

According to the address he said, he found the office in an inconspicuous place. When I got there, I explained the situation and asked him to write me a reply and ask some questions about it.

He answered them all with me. and printed a copy of the reply for me.

When it was the day of the trial, it was morning, so I left early. I'm afraid that the car on the road will delay things, I am a person with a strong sense of time, no matter what I do, I am never late. It's better to be sooner than late.

When I arrived at the courthouse, it was more than forty minutes early, so I had to sit in the lobby of the courthouse and wait for the time.

Zhang Xu's time was very accurate, and he arrived when the court was about to start, less than five minutes in advance. He saw me sitting there and nodded to me, and I nodded to him, and he sat down and sat down in the chair across from me.

Although we were sitting facing each other, we all had our heads down, each playing with our phones, and neither of us was looking at anyone. When the time came, the staff pushed the door open and told us to go in.

The two of us walked in one after the other. They sat in the plaintiff's bench and the defendant's bench.

The judge first checked the identities of Zhang Xu and me. Then he talked about some court discipline, and when all this was done, the formal opening began.

The judge first asked Zhang Xu why he wanted a divorce. Zhang Xu said again what he wrote in the indictment.

The judge looked at me and said, "Defendant, what do you mean?" Do you agree to a divorce? ”

"I don't agree to a divorce." I replied firmly. Now my heart is full of anger, I will not divorce so easily to fulfill them. Even if he wants to leave me, he can delay as long as he wants. Anyway, I don't want to look for it anymore, I'm not afraid of delaying.

"Why?" The judge asked me.

"I think my relationship with Zhang Xu is still very good and has not broken down. So I'm not getting divorced. "I didn't ask me for a reply since I came to the present, and if I knew that, I wouldn't have asked a lawyer to write this thing in the first place, and I thought I had to hand it in. Wasted my 200 dollars in vain. At that time, I heard that it would cost 200 yuan to write a reply, and I was very distressed. But I still wrote it head-on.

"Zhang Xu said that you never go home, and you have a bad attitude towards his parents and are particularly unfilial, is it true?"

"Not really. I was very kind to his parents. Every time they were hospitalized, Zhang Xu's sister-in-law and I were the two of us. When Zhang Xu's father was alive, I often invited them to my house for dinner, and I would cook for them whatever they liked to eat. I made a lot of the clothes they wore for them. They thought I was good. We got along very well. Zhang Xu wanted to divorce me because he had an affair outside, so he wanted to divorce me. But we are remarried, and I don't think it's easy for us to get there, so I cherish this marriage even more. ”

After listening to my words, the judge asked me again: "Don't you care if Zhang Xu cheats?" ”

"I think he was confused to do it. We usually have a good relationship, so I don't agree to divorce, and I'm sure that one day he will break off with that woman. I'm sure there will come a day. ”

At this time, the judge said to Zhang Xu: "Zhang Xu, you have done such a thing, and the defendant is willing to forgive you, do you still want a divorce?" ”

Zhang Xu seemed to hesitate a little, but immediately made up his mind and said, "I want to leave." ”

"You said that the defendant was not good to your parents, but after listening to what the defendant said just now, he didn't have a bad attitude towards your parents as you said, and he was not filial piety? What you said isn't true? ”

Hearing the judge say this, Zhang Xu was a little speechless, and after thinking about it, he said again: "She has never gone home, she has been living in the factory since last year, and she doesn't care about this home." Now I'm doing everything in the house. I now have to build a house at home and take care of my 80-year-old mother. I don't want to live like this, and the defendant once said that there is no warmth in this home. Zhang Xu said.

"Is the lack of warmth in the home caused by the defendant alone? Is it true that she just said that you were having an affair? The judge asked Zhang Xu.

When I heard the judge say this, I was really touched in my heart, and someone finally said justice for me.

"It's true." I didn't expect Zhang Xu to admit it, which was beyond my expectations. But then he said, "Then you can't blame me?" She's not going home anymore, I can't keep guarding her alone, right? ”

"Plaintiff, you are unreasonable when I listen to you? Do you have to put your mistakes on someone else's body if you cheat? Aren't you wrong? You haven't divorced yet, so you've found your next home. ”

"I admit I'm at fault, but isn't that what she forced me to do? What should I do if she doesn't come home? Also, the store we opened in 16 years was closed when she said it was closed, and she didn't tell me a word. I invested so much money. During the Chinese New Year, she said that she would go home when she went home, and she didn't ask my opinion. If you say you go to the south, you will go to the south, and you won't tell me a word. Does she still consider this home to be her home? ”

Zhang Xu took out his vexatious skills again and began to talk nonsense.

What he said made the judge think that he was going to get a divorce because he lost money by opening a store. So he persuaded him: "As long as you invest, you will lose and earn, what is there to complain about?" ”

At this time, I really can't get used to hearing Zhang Xu make something out of nothing. So I interjected, "He's not telling the truth—" and I was going to go on and the judge said to me, "Don't talk without asking you." ”

"Okay." I'm shutting up.

Zhang Xu continued: "She and I live in the AA system, is this like the life that husband and wife want to live?" Also, she was too good to her son. "I really admire it, Zhang Xu can say what he has or not.

Our divorce is all about my son. Why didn't he say that he relied on my son's car in the first place?

After Zhang Xu finished all my so-called sins, the judge asked me again if what Zhang Xu said was true.

So I answered every charge Zhang Xu said one by one: "When we first opened the store, Zhang Xu had an awkward relationship with the landlord, and the landlord didn't let us get warm, so we closed the store without any way, not what he said, I closed the store for no reason without telling him." Also, he said that I went back to my hometown for the Chinese New Year. In the past, we also went back to our hometown for the Chinese New Year. He went back with me. But last year his mom was at our house, so he couldn't go back with me. But my father is sick, and I can't usually go back, I don't have the opportunity to see him, and it's impossible not to go back for the Chinese New Year. Everyone has parents, and his mother is around him every day and he can see it. But my father only sees me during the Chinese New Year. As for what he said about me going to the south, they all said that my son was there for pyramid schemes, so I must go and see it, not to mention my son, even if Zhang Xu's daughter went to that place, and some people said that it was a pyramid scheme, I would go to see it. There is also Zhang Xu who said that I am good to my son. I'm not just good to my son, I'm good to his daughter. Every time his daughter came, I cooked a lot of dishes. "And when his daughter first joined the job, we would give her money to spend every month, for fear that her living expenses would not be enough."

I said everything between me and Zhang Xu.