My father was seriously ill once, and my second brother was always taking care of me when I went back. The second and fourth brothers are back, and they are not going to the south anymore. They are completely withdrawn.

When I went back, I replaced my second brother and let me take care of my father. In the hospital, my father could no longer walk. He has been lying down, and he can still struggle to go to the toilet by himself at the beginning, because he is a very strong and self-respecting person, and he doesn't want my daughter to carry him to the toilet. So every time I helped him to the toilet, I waited for him outside, and he went in by himself. When he was done, I would help him back when he came out.

Later, one time, he fell down in the toilet, and he didn't call me, I waited stupidly outside, and I didn't come out for a long time, so I hurriedly asked outside: "Dad, why haven't you come out yet?" ”

"I fell and couldn't get up." It wasn't until this time that my dad told me the truth.

So, I hurried in to help my father. Although my father was sick and not fat, he was not a particularly thin person, and he was very tall, so he was very heavy. And I'm a person who hasn't done much physical work, and I don't have much strength in my arms. It's past two o'clock in the morning, and I can't find anyone to help. So I had to do all my strength to help my father.

My father also used all his strength to cooperate, trying to stand up. But we tried several times but we couldn't get my father up. I was so tired that I was sweating, and my father was too tired to do it.

He was very annoyed and said, "I might as well die." ”

"Dad, don't talk nonsense, wait a while, I'll rest again, you can rest again, you will definitely be able to get up."

"Your fourth brother and your second brother are not here either, so you are here alone." In my father's mind, he loves my fourth brother the most, so the fourth brother has not come, and his heart is very unhappy.

"Didn't my second brother just leave for a long time? My fourth brother didn't have time to clean up the house at home, so he came after cleaning up the house in a few days. This comforted the father. Actually, I don't know if the fourth brother is cleaning up the house, but I just heard what my second brother said, because after I came back from Beijing, I came directly to my father and didn't go anywhere.

The second brother said that the fourth brother was cleaning up his father's house, and because his father had not lived in it, his house was no longer inhabitable. It needs to be renovated.

My eldest brother and third brother can't count on it. The two of them always make all kinds of excuses that they don't have time. So basically, now my father can only count on me, the second brother, and the fourth brother.

My father stopped talking, and after we rested for a while, I gritted my teeth again and grabbed him by the arm as hard as I could. Finally, after we had been struggling for more than half an hour, my father got up.

After helping my father to the ward, my father's clothes and pants were stained. I wiped my father's body again, and then changed into clean clothes from the inside out. Although the father has always been very traditional and conservative, and is ashamed to let his daughter do this, he is really too old to have a choice. If my son doesn't come, I can only do this as a daughter.

After I arranged everything for my father, I took all the clothes he had changed into to the bathroom and washed them in cold water over and over again. Because there is no hot water to wash clothes in the hospital. I can also use a kettle to boil, but I think it's too slow, and with so many clothes, I have to boil hot water many times, so I can only use cold water, although my hands are most afraid of cold, but there is no way. By the time I had washed all my father's clothes, I was so cold that I didn't feel anything. And the fingers hurt like pins and needles.

After that, I was afraid that something similar would happen again, so I didn't let my father go to the bathroom anymore, but sat on the potty. In fact, when the second brother took care of his father, he didn't let his father go to the toilet, but made it convenient on the bedpan in the house. But after I came to take care of my father, my father always felt that his daughter was not as convenient as his son, so he insisted on going to the toilet.

Let my father be on the potty in the house My father refused at first, but then I persuaded him bitterly: "Dad, I am your daughter, and I am not an outsider, what else are you embarrassed about?" After my persuasion, he could only reluctantly agree. It can also be said that there is really no way to agree. My father, who was strong all his life, didn't expect that when he was old, he could only bow to the disease. Bow to life. Can I guess how desolate and impatient my father was? Four sons, strong and strong, my father has always been proud of his sons, but at this moment, only my daughter can take care of him.

This matter is solved, but there is another headache, that is, my father has to go to dialysis once every three days, although dialysis is also in this hospital, but the dialysis room and ward are not the same building. The dialysis site is in the back building of the ward. So I had to push my father in a wheelchair from this ward to the back building. And the hospital where my father lives is an old-fashioned house without an elevator, with only three floors. My father lived on the second floor, but he originally lived on the third floor, and because my father was inconvenient to walk, the hospital arranged my father to the second floor. The first floor is an outpatient clinic, not a ward. So only on the second floor.

I'm going to push my father down a gentle slope on the second floor and up again after the dialysis is done. It's a gentle slope, but it's not something I can push. This is beyond my reach.

In the beginning, when it was time for dialysis, several of my brothers would come over and help push it. But when it comes to dialysis, it is very difficult for them to give in. The fourth brother has no time to decorate the house, and the second brother has just returned from his father for a long time, and the family is very far away, so he can only let the eldest brother and the third brother come, and the two of them always find various reasons not to come. I thought it was too hard and too angry, so I didn't bother talking to them at all, so I talked to a master who was cleaning in the hospital and asked him to help push it, and he happily agreed, and I would give him thirty yuan each time, and let him help me push it down and push it up. At the beginning, he said he didn't want money, and I told him that I couldn't let you help without money, because it wasn't once or twice, and I had to help all the time, so how could I be embarrassed to use you if I didn't want money?

When he saw that I insisted on giving it, he agreed. But you can't let the leaders of the hospital know, because you don't let it. I told him that you can rest assured, when someone asks, I will only say that you are helping, not that I will give you money. So that he can rest assured.

Although I paid the money, I was still very grateful to him, after all, it solved our problem, and he was very happy, because the cleaning money was not much, and he helped us push my father like this, and we could earn some extra money, and we could be regarded as fulfilling each other. And I only use him to help when I go up and down the slopes, and I can push my father myself on the flat road. He doesn't delay his work.

My father was also very happy, and he was very grateful to this master. How much does my father need help now? Eventually, these problems have been solved. I don't have to take care of my father in the hospital alone.