1966 Fit
"Feifei, you stay with Xiao Wan for a while, I'll answer the phone." The boy said goodbye and turned to go upstairs.
The meal has been eaten, and now that Tong's father is at home, even if Tong Fei wants to pull Fan Keqin into his boudoir and enjoy the world of two, it is a little embarrassing.
So the two of them came to the living room, Tong Fei turned on the vinyl record player and played a slow four. walked in front of Fan Keqin, imitated the appearance of a man, stretched out a hand, and said, "This handsome gentleman, I don't know if I can invite you to dance?" ”
Fan Keqin smiled and pulled Tong Fei's little hand, got up and said, "This is my honor." ”
Of course, this is Tong Fei's youngest daughter's mind playing tricks, and she can't go to her boudoir two-person world, but if she dances, she can hug each other in a bright and bright way, even if her father sees it, she can't say anything.
So Tong Fei's plan succeeded, and the two of them were very close to each other when they danced, and there was no difference between them and hugging each other. Tong Fei leaned her head on Fan Keqin's arms and put her hands around Fan Keqin's waist. Said: "I see that after you met my father, you didn't feel cramped at all, and you looked very confident. ”
Fan Keqin is also basically in a posture, and said: "Yes, but I am pretending, in fact, there is still some tension in my heart." But I feel too nervous and it will affect how your father feels about me. I've got to make your father feel like his daughter has found the right person to do so that I can get through and be with you above board. What do you think? I'm pretending to look like that, right? ”
"Uh-huh!" Tong Fei arched in Fan Keqin's arms and said, "Very good." When she heard Fan Keqin say this, she naturally liked it in her heart, which showed that Fan Keqin cared about herself very much and wanted to be with her, otherwise, there was no need to "pretend" in front of her father. However, Tong Fei also knows that her sweetheart is very good in her own right, even if she doesn't pretend, she will definitely be fine.
Fan Keqin said: "Fei Fei, do you think I passed the test with your father?" ”
"Well, it's passed." Tong Fei was really a little intoxicated, she felt that she felt so good in the arms of her sweetheart. In fact, she didn't know that this feeling was the so-called sense of security. And women, the need for security is very strong. When I was a child, maybe this feeling was given by my mother, my father. When I grew up, it was naturally given by my husband.
And if it can bring a sense of security to women, then women will naturally follow you with all their hearts. In fact, no matter how strong a woman is, the same is true. Who has a harbor and can shelter themselves from the wind and rain, and they will feel bad? It's just that strong women, especially those who are very strong, why can't many people find their beloved when they reach a relatively old age? It's not that they can make a lot of money to look down on men. Rather, the men they come into contact with do not bring them a better sense of security than the harbor they have created for themselves. Naturally, it will be difficult to find the other half.
A very simple example, a strong woman, self-made, created a net worth of tens of billions. This kind of woman is definitely a strong woman among strong women, right? However, if a man appears at this time, when she encounters difficulties, he can always give her care and deal with the trouble properly, and the problem will be solved. Even if this man's net worth is much inferior to her, then the possibility of this woman being with this man will be very high. Why? Because this man can give her a sense of security. That's the core.
Now Fan Keqin is like this, with his own charm, ability, and excellent quality, he directly creates a very warm and excellent harbor, how can Miss Tong not like it.
That's what's really scary about playing with psychology, especially for people who play psychology very thoroughly. It's not that what can hypnotize or anything is awesome. That's too pediatric.
At the end of the song, Miss Tong was still reluctant to let go. Very good solution for this problem. Fan Keqin's arms tightened slightly, and in this way, he maintained a hugging posture and hugged Tong Fei to the record player again. Stretching out a hand, he played a song again. That's all settled.
Tong Fei knew that his face must be red now. It's not about being shy or anything, it's an expression of emotion. Fan Keqin and Miss Tong slowly jumped four steps again, and talked about some things with Miss Tong.
At this time, you don't have to be afraid to ask. There is a concept in later generations, that is, when you come up to chat, it is very taboo to check the household registration-style inquiry, for example. Where are you? How old is it? What do you do? Did you go to school there before? These things, as soon as they come up, will definitely give the other party a very unpleasant feeling.
But like the current emotional progress of Fan Keqin and Tong Fei, you can ask this question. Why? Because, it means that you want to know your other half from the heart. If you ask, the other person will be happy because she will think that you want to know herself. and the heart will be more joyful.
At this time, Fan Keqin did this, for example, asking Tong Fei where he lived and where he went to school. Of course, you can't keep asking. After the other party answers, you can talk a little more whimsically around the answer. For example, when Tong Fei replied that she had studied in a girls' school, Fan Keqin would nod and say, "I heard that the campus of the girls' school is very strict, and men are not allowed to enter, isn't that the case?" What if your father were looking for you? Wouldn't it be useful if I used the ultimate trick of bribery? ”
Then wait for the other party to finish speaking, and continue to expand according to what the other person said. Otherwise, you keep asking questions, and that's not okay.
In short, Fan Keqin is doing a fit. It is to do all the things that fit the character of Miss Tong. It must be explained here that fitting and licking a dog are two different things. There is no bottom line for licking a dog, but there is an essential difference in fit. Be able to make your partner very comfortable with what you do. Licking a dog is not, licking infinitely, the other party will only think you are tired. Nothing interesting. Naturally, it's uncomfortable to do anything. That's why there is that sentence, lick until there is nothing left in the end. Because licking dogs don't know where the bottom line is, what can be done and what can't be done. Even after I finished it, I was moved first, but the result was not what the other party wanted at all.
Fan Keqin noticed that it was not a short time since Tong's father's phone was answered. After the two pieces were finished, it came down again. According to what the housekeeper said before, it should be a matter of work......