I know that Brother Rundong is the kind of person who doesn't vomit or be unhappy about anything, it's better to let him write it, it's better than wanting to be bored in his heart, even if this doesn't happen, I believe that he has been thinking about these things about marriage repeatedly during this time. Copy URL access

Brother Rundong, who is strong, although he has accepted his parents and no longer cares about his parents, does not mean that he thinks that his marriage 14 years ago was the right decision of his parents, he is actually still more energetic in his heart, and he still has to judge that matter, who is right and who is wrong, he is a more real person.

Although the past is in the past, at least he must have a conclusion in his heart, he is such a character, there is a hurdle in his heart that cannot be crossed, and he will be awkward with this kind of thing for the rest of his life.

Of course, at the moment he's willing to write it, and that's very good, I think.

In the past, Brother Rundong, he didn't mention anything about marriage, and he didn't want others to mention marriage and men and women with him, but now he dares to say or write about it, which is already a huge progress, which at least shows that he wants to face these things, and he dares to face them.

In other words, it was the death of his mother and his father's expectation that he would marry, which forced him to face the matter of marriage.

What he can't escape, he will have to face one day, he chooses the present.

I nodded, not bothering him, let him write it, it would also make him think about these things.

Go back to my room and continue to cultivate, meditating on my cultivation.

But before I had been running for sixteen weeks, I heard the sound of Brother Rundong next door slapping the pen on the table, and then he said aloud:

"It's written, Ling Feng, come and take a look, how about it?"

I really didn't expect it, I was busy with the work, I hope to see his attitude towards marriage from Brother Rundong's article, yes, I really want to know Brother Rundong's current view of marriage, so I immediately walked over to appreciate Brother Rundong's masterpiece, and I was also very curious.

I took Brother Rundong's article and read it.

At the beginning of the article, Brother Rundong first made a profound and sharp denunciation of the bad habits of arranged marriages handed down by the Shenghua Empire for thousands of years, and listed many harms of arranged marriages in the side, which can be seen that he used to pay attention to this aspect when he read the article, but he never mentioned these to people before, and now he finally said it.

In the middle part of the article, he devotes a large paragraph to explaining that arranged marriages are a deprivation of human rights and a shackle that restricts the freedom of young people.

In the end, Brother Rundong used the tone of a person who came over to persuade young people not to use suicide to deal with the situation of arranged marriage, even if it is running away from home, even if it is dying in the struggle with the family, it is better than committing suicide.

This is Brother Rundong's character, what he chose for marriage before was to fight, and it can be seen that this article is definitely what Brother Rundong wants to say.

And I can also see that Brother Rundong is still haunted by the incident of his wife's illness and not being treated, and that incident seems to have touched him quite a lot, he subconsciously thinks that his wife is equivalent to suicide, and now he finally makes a statement, although Brother Rundong also used suicide to blackmail Runren when he was a child, but today he has decided to resolutely say to suicide - no!

Suicide, that's the worst option, the stupidest option.

"What do you think of this article?"

Brother Rundong saw that after I finished reading the article, he was busy asking on the side.

"Oh... It's good!"

I replied, the article is very well written, the writing is very good, and there are a lot of big truths, but in this article, I didn't see Brother Rundong's own values about marriage, I didn't see his views on marriage, he was just desperately venting his attitude towards arranged marriages, which made me feel a little regretful.

"Okay, I'll send the article to the newspaper now, I hope that tomorrow the citizens of Changshengsha will see such a point of view, and I hope that such a thing as an arranged marriage will not happen again. ”

After saying that, Brother Rundong took the article and walked out in a hurry, anxious to submit.

Seeing the back of Brother Rundong walking out, I shook my head helplessly, I couldn't continue to talk to him about marriage again, but I was not in a hurry, I had been waiting for 14 years, and it wasn't bad for a few days?

Now that he's no longer shy away from marriage, that's a good start, so I can talk to him about it in two days, that would be better.

The next day was almost noon, before I went to talk to Brother Rundong, Brother Rundong took the initiative to walk into my room, with a steady gait, and holding a freshly written article in his hand, it seemed that he was going to submit to the newspaper again, after arriving in my room, he did not shoehorn the article into my hand as before, but took the manuscript, and said in a deep voice:

"Oh... Regarding the suicide of Ms. Zhao, I thought about it again last night and felt that yesterday's article was not sufficiently discussed, so I wrote another one today. ”

"Didn't you see the newspaper for the one you wrote yesterday?"

I hurriedly asked, I thought it was Brother Rundong who didn't get the manuscript fee for his article yesterday, so I wrote it again today.

"I've seen the newspaper and I've already posted it, but... I think the content I wrote today is more mature. ”

Brother Rundong said solemnly.

I nodded, knowing that Rundong is this character, a question he must think through before he gives up, obviously the content of yesterday's article can not fully express his heart, so today he continues to write, I think, he should think more.

After taking Brother Rundong's article, I read it seriously.

In this article, Brother Rundong linked arranged marriages with family interests, believing that a good marriage has become a link for the transmission of interests, and marriage is a tool for interest linkage, and arranged marriage is a form of social excellence, which is caused by the darkness of the social environment, and must be abandoned.

In my opinion, Brother Rundong's article is a bit idealistic and too nerdy!

The phenomenon of using marriage as a link of interests is too common in today's society, including my own marriage, there are some interest factors in it, and it is very difficult and unrealistic to completely avoid these factors.

However, after reading the article, I think that there are two good points in this article, first, Brother Rundong discovered the reality of society, he realized some factors behind arranged marriages, and many times arranged marriages do not want to rub men and women together, but want to link the interests of two families, so Brother Rundong said that this article is more profound than the previous one, in fact, Brother Rundong himself prefers this article.

In fact, I can understand it this way, Brother Rundong still thinks in his heart that marriage should be a beautiful thing, so he doesn't want his marriage to be interfered with and tarnished by other factors.

What I want to see most is these, this is Brother Rundong's true view of marriage, he has no rejection of marriage in his heart, thinking that it is beautiful and should not be defiled, isn't this exactly what I want to see?

So I immediately stated:

"Well, this article is better than the previous one!"

"Okay, you can do it, I'll send it to the newspaper now. ”

When Brother Rundong heard my words, he immediately walked out excitedly with this article and went to submit it again.

I am very happy, I finally saw Brother Rundong's heart, I saw his views on marriage, I am very satisfied, in this way, I can persuade him to find a wife when I have the opportunity, my heart is very comfortable.

At noon on the third day, I was cultivating in my room when I suddenly heard the sound of Suo Suo at the door, and I immediately separated my knowledge and looked at the door, and it turned out to be Brother Rundong at the door.

Seeing that I opened my eyes, Brother Rundong's face was a little embarrassed, and he walked in with a little cowardice in his gait, and said at a slightly sluggish pace: "Ling Feng, I have some new ideas about Ms. Zhao's suicide, so I wrote it out, or ...... Can you help me take a look at it again?"

"Oh! ah?...... Oh, wow!"

Unexpectedly, this matter made Brother Rundong think about it for three days in a row, it seems that he is really entangled, after all, he didn't think about it for more than 20 years before, and it is normal to think about it more now.

And I know that he is such a person, if you can't figure it out, he is tasteless, it would be good to think about it more, I should support it, so I solemnly took the third manuscript and watched it carefully.

In this article, he also wrote about the weak side of the woman in the arranged marriage, especially the machismo phenomenon, I feel that Brother Rundong is talking about the relationship between his parents, his father Runren is very strong, and Mrs. Run belongs to the kind and obedient character.

He wrote about the situation in his own family, and he couldn't bully women, which I agreed with and praised Brother Rundong.

So Brother Rundong sent the article to the newspaper again.

At noon on the fourth day, I wanted to have dinner with Brother Rundong, but before I could go out, Brother Rundong walked in with an article again.

Brother Rundong's face was slightly red, he didn't look at my eyes, he lowered his head, and said as if he was caring for himself: "Oh... , I have some new ideas about Ms. Zhao's suicide......"

I was speechless, I didn't say anything, I took it and immediately looked at it carefully, and he connected some social phenomena into it, this person... , he thinks so much, get married, as for it!

I really couldn't figure it out, but I still said okay, Brother Rundong sent this article away for submission.

On the fifth day, I found a freshly written article on my windowsill: "About Ms. Zhao'......"

On the sixth day, I found an article on Brother Rundong's dinner table that had not dried the ink "About Ms. Zhao's ......"

In the past few days, I'm really going a little crazy, I'm going to be messy, but I don't dare to do it, for fear of hurting Brother Rundong's beautiful view of marriage that he has just established, but I am even more scared in my heart, I'm afraid that Brother Rundong will directly get into the magic barrier, Brother Rundong doesn't really want to get into the tip of the horns!

How can anyone think about the problem like this, thinking about it for six days in a row, it will make people crazy!

Now it's not a question of whether he gets married or not, he really wants to be a demon, he wants to get married, which woman dares to marry him!

And even if he is strong in his heart and doesn't know how to have a magic barrier, then he cares about whether he cares about me or not, whether he cares about the reader, I will have a magic barrier, and the reader will go crazy!

On the seventh day, when I went out to dinner with him, he silently and quietly took out the article: "About Ms. Zhao......"

On the eighth day, he inadvertently dropped an article from his pocket "About Ms. Zhao......"

He didn't come to me on the ninth day, and I breathed a sigh of relief.

However, I saw a brand new article written by Brother Rundong in the newspaper on the tenth day, about Ms. Zhao's suicide, when I read this article, I almost collapsed, I was going crazy, I couldn't stand it, I really hope that Ms. Zhao can come back to life, or don't die, come and save people!

Otherwise, I don't know how many people will commit suicide, and they may have to follow in her footsteps.

Fortunately, I didn't see any more articles about Ms. Zhao written by Brother Rundong in the newspaper on the eleventh day, otherwise I would have to run away from home.

I don't dare to talk to Brother Rundong about marriage anymore, it's too torturous!

I'm about to leave a sequelae, and now every night in the dead of night, when I think about marriage, it's no longer the beautiful and tender pictures of the past, but always have the urge to scratch the wall.

Fortunately, Brother Rundong stopped writing.

Moreover, in the following articles about Ms. Zhao written by Brother Rundong, I can clearly see that Brother Rundong has a lot of advocacy for a happy marriage, and he has even repeatedly called on young men and women to declare war on traditional marriage methods by means of free marriage, advocating everyone to break the old social phenomena and use new social phenomena to break the old social forces.

Great! He's figured it out, otherwise he would have died.

(For an explanation of the nine articles that Rundong has written in a row, please see the author's column:)