You remember that you don't need to feel guilty about your decisions back then, and you've done enough.

You have already entered the drama too deeply, why don't you lose your soul like Sister Fengfeng.

You remember that you don't owe them anything, they owe you.

If you continue to be so autistic, something will happen eventually, I think your mind is similar to mine, but you are immersed in your own world all day long, and if you continue like this, you will get sicker and sicker.

You can't blame yourself for someone's mistakes.

......

Lan Jiechen's every word, the tone was flat, but every word was fine, hitting the heart of the princess fiercely, everyone understands the truth, and someone once proposed to her, but she vetoed all of them, and there were not even any emotional fluctuations.

But Lan Juechen is different, Lan Juechen is too much like a person, like her, an old man who will never forget, in addition to this old person, only Lan Juechen's words can make her heart as quiet as stagnant water set off ripples.

Lan Jiechen's words were like stones, constantly thrown into the dead lake, and the ripples converged into waves, getting bigger and bigger, and the heart that was already dead began to beat and come alive.

"Why are you telling me so much? Our relationship has not reached the point where we are so concerned with private life. The princess said indifferently.

"Oh, it's just nice to look at you. "Lan Jiechen said indifferently, I will say all the words, I have done my best, as for whether you listen or not, it is your business.

The situation of the princess today is like that of the widow in ancient times, and the dead house now.

Don't think it's a good thing to stay at home all day, all living beings are social beings. It is impossible to be separated from other people of the same kind for too long, otherwise there will be physical and mental problems.

And not just ordinary people. Practitioners also have this kind of problem.

Lan Jiechen thought that something was wrong with the princess, not just because of the princess's moody mood. It's not just because she has been hidden in the secret realm of the Sacred Sycamore Tree, but because she has never left the Sacred Sycamore Tree many times, she is like the current otaku otaku dead house.

In fact, there are not many people I have seen and contacted, and slowly my heart has changed.

This is not alarmist, why is Xuanwu Fu Bo among the four divine beasts of the Immortal Trace Forest as a housekeeper in an inconspicuous family, except for Fu Bo, in fact, these four divine beasts are actually not the kind of masters who like houses.

They don't know how many times the incarnation has walked among the eternal stars, although they have not stepped out of the sea of stars, it is also a life of contact with the outside world. They will be able to maintain their physical and mental health.

Don't look at their appearance, most of them are approaching twilight, but in the eyes of Lan Jiechen now, they are full of vitality and have no signs of decay.

If it weren't for the fact that Wei Siyu was pregnant with Lan Jiechen's species, they didn't know which corner of the world they were wandering in now, experiencing a variety of different lives.

Self-cultivation, spiritual cultivation, and mental cultivation.

The harm of the house is very serious.

Nowadays, even if you are "at home". Oil, salt, sauce and vinegar can also be purchased online at home, and a computer allows you to know everything about the world. Recently, the People's Daily published an article entitled ""Home", it is difficult to have a "vast world". vividly portrays the state of the "otaku": "When two people quarrel on the street, one stops to watch, and the other dissuades: what is there to see." Go home and read it on Weibo. ”

The subculture of "otaku" originated in Japan and refers to those who prefer to stay at home. Young people who are addicted to personal hobbies and out of touch with society. The BBC has reported. Among the young people aged 18~30 in the UK, about forty percent are "otaku".

A survey showed that 70% of respondents considered themselves to be "home", and 22.4% of them were "home" at home for a week, except for eating in front of the computer. Wang Jianxin, a professor at the Department of Anthropology at Sun Yat-sen University, once pointed out that it is not uncommon for middle-aged "otaku" who are willing to study audio and mobile phones behind closed doors.

According to a survey in Tianjin, nearly 40 percent of the elderly in their 60s do not go out often. Lin Chun, deputy secretary-general of the Chinese Mental Health Association and associate researcher of the Institute of Psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, said that there are four typical psychological causes of "otaku".

1. Introverted. Introverts are sensitive and have low self-esteem, and virtual networks allow them to communicate more easily with people instead of worrying about rejection, and they want to build deep interpersonal relationships, emotional needs, and a sense of belonging.

2. Lack of social skills. Some people have not been able to develop perfect social skills since childhood, or have had the experience of social failure in growing up, and have anxiety or even fear of socialization, and would rather guard their own small world at home.

3. Lost inside. Some young people have no goals and feel that it is better to be at home and habitually take care of their parents than to work alone outside the home. Some people are not confused but have achieved nothing, they are tired, they feel inferior, insignificant, and they don't want to see people. Some elderly people who are separated from their children have lost their original social support system due to retirement, resulting in psychological withdrawal.

4. Too much pressure. People who are busy with work and stressed don't have the energy to socialize and will protect themselves by reducing social interactions. Sometimes even colleagues don't bother to talk to each other and use the Internet to communicate, which makes many people not know what real communication is, and forget how to get close to people, and it is difficult to establish the intimate relationship necessary for inner harmony.

After looking at the outside world for a long time, people need to look inside themselves. Staying at home for a short period of time gives the soul a safe "room", which can be a good self-reflection, adjust the body and mind, and calm down bad emotions. However, Lin Chun introduced that human beings are social animals, and their survival and development are to a considerable extent premised on cooperation and interaction with others.

People who have been "staying" for a long time will lose their curiosity about the unknown, and their sensitivity and thinking ability to real life will be dulled, resulting in physical and mental damage. According to a survey, 35 per cent of people living at home have lost social opportunities and affected their work, and nearly two adults have an autistic personality and are afraid of human contact.

The Korea Ilbo reported in 2009 that about 100,000 "otaku" youth in the country are unable to adapt to social interaction and have autistic tendencies. A number of psychological studies have also found that it is difficult for "otaku" to return from the virtual space to social reality, which will lead to deviation from the real society in the long run. Developing negative thinking patterns and bad personality traits can even trigger depressed mood or depression.

American writer Bloom reminds the "otaku" in "Towards a Closed American Spirit": Descartes before systematically presenting radical skeptical views. There is a big world in my heart.

Therefore, key-to-key cannot replace face-to-face. Only by talking face-to-face can you really feel the joys, sorrows and sorrows behind each other's smiles. If you want to get out of the "home" life, Lin Chun suggested that you must first maintain good living habits, not sleep when you want to, and get up only when you think of it, so as not to disturb the biological clock.

Secondly, you should maintain interaction with the society and give yourself some time to contact the outside world, such as meeting close friends. Share the ups and downs together, go out for a walk, and maybe a smile when you meet on the sidewalk can make you fall in love with the outside world.

Finally, everyone has a kind of self-growth power in their hearts, and they have various expectations for the outside sky, so they will not be satisfied with "staying" at home when they find their purpose in life.

Nowadays, there are a lot of otaku, so what does it mean to tell you that otaku? Such people are generally reluctant to go out. I only want to stay at home, but staying at home for a long time and not seeing the beautiful world outside will also have a certain impact on myself. What are the disadvantages of staying at home for a long time?

For this problem, male friends who like to stay at home should have some understanding and realize the disadvantages of staying at home all the time. Get out for a walk.

For people who like to stay at home, there are many such people. But staying at home for a long time is a bad habit. So what are the disadvantages of staying at home?

1. It will lead to cowardice and lack of will

If you live in your own world all day long, even if it is communication, then it is through the Internet, which is a limiting factor, so that when you go out, you encounter various things in life, you don't know how to solve them, because you haven't faced it, so you will choose to escape, get out of real life, and your own responsibilities, and become very cowardly.

2. Autism and isolation

But to put it this way, if you often stay at home, you can't see the wonderful world outside, and you can't understand the outside information, then you will have a strong sense of despair, and when dealing with people, you will also be overwhelmed, you will be autistic, and you will refuse all outside news, and let yourself part ways with reality.

3. The loser is very serious

Maybe you think it's good for otaku, so you don't have to worry about saving money, yes, such people are unambiguous even if they eat instant noodles at home for a month, but what about other aspects? They will also shop online at home and collect them, so it's not a money-saving phenomenon, in fact, people who stay at home like this are the most losers.

4. Marching towards a national treasure

Men who generally like to stay up late usually do not sleep at night and reverse their biological clocks, but they are not energetic during the day, and they are like night owls at night, so in the long run, they will seriously affect their own health, and even become the panda of the country.

5. There are communication barriers

In fact, this is the most obvious disadvantage of staying at home, often at home, you will lose contact with the outside world, so you will communicate less, even if you encounter something, or when you communicate with others, you can't interject at all, and finally go back to your own little nest to find fun.

6. Be negative about things

For the things around him, he has a kind of attitude of ignoring and watching coldly, and he has a feeling that everyone in the world is drunk and I am sober. There are even cases that will develop towards a predestined outcome once they occur, and whether you intervene or not, it will not affect the outcome.

Everything I think of is not to face it positively, solve it but to face it negatively, let it develop, feel that no matter how hard I subjectively try, there will be no results, pessimism is serious, and I am extremely lacking in self-confidence.

The princess is like this now, when Lan Jiechen heard the princess say that looking at the era of birth, the era is extinguished, the princess has always lived in this outdoor peach orchard, this perfect little world.

So when the princess goes out to natural nirvana, the rest of the time, the princess lives with complex emotions, and the whole person is negative energy, especially in the recent period.

The reason why the princess chose Yan Fengfeng as her next generation of princesses is because she already plans to turn into a path and doesn't want to live in the world.

Depression, typical depression.

The royal daughter's eyes flickered and were slightly confused, Lan Jiechen frowned slightly, his eyes looked directly at Yan Fengfeng in the demonic crystal pillar, he keenly felt that the soul fire in Yan Fengfeng's body was constantly weakening and crumbling.

"The situation is very bad, if Sister Feng Feng can't find herself again, Sister Feng Feng will never come back, and there is a shell left. Lan Jiechen said in a deep voice, his tone a little anxious.

"What should I do?" said Ayi.

Oh, yes!

What to do?

Lan Jiechen didn't know what to do, it was useless for the Phoenix Priests to have much stronger singing and dancing skills than him, and he was even more useless.

"Isn't there any other way?" asked Liang Huayu.

"Lan Beast, you ask the princess to take a look. Broken Waves spoke.

Lan Jiechen found that the princess was still pondering now, the situation was urgent, Lan Jiechen didn't have so many worries, and was about to speak.

"Ahhh......hh

Yan Fengfeng's body suddenly twitched violently for a while, and a terrible exclamation sounded from his mouth, but in a few seconds, it calmed down, but Yan Fengfeng's soul fire was already about to come to an end.

The princess was called back to reality by Yan Fengfeng's exclamation, her phoenix eyes were shining, and she quickly made a decision and said: "Lan Juechen! Feng'er needs your help, please shine your starlight to illuminate Feng'er's way forward, let her return to her original heart and find herself." ”

Lan Juechen and the others were stunned for a moment, they didn't know how to shine the starlight at all, the corners of the princess's mouth twitched, and she almost scolded.

"Raise your hands, face the stars to Feng'er, the hearts move the stars, the light of hope flashes, and the stars guide the way. The princess had done her best to speak calmly, but she was still angry.

Lan Jiechen didn't talk nonsense, they directly pulled up their sleeves, and pointed at Yan Fengfeng with the star pattern on the back of his hand, his eyes closed, and the divine power and spiritual power in his body quickly converged, and the star pattern flashed with starlight.

People only felt that their eyes were flowering, the sky and the earth suddenly became pitch black, countless stars dotted the dark night, the starlight shone, the star pattern was absorbed, and a series of white and flawless pillars of light shot out from their star pattern, until Yan Fengfeng's eyebrows.

Yan Fengfeng trembled, and a holy flame ignited from Yan Fengfeng's body.

"Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, Feng'er's fortune is not deep, let me help you again. The princess said secretly in her heart.

When the words fell, the princess's body trembled for a while, and the princess tore open a corner of her perfect realm and gave it to Yan Fengfeng, a corner of this perfect realm will become the foundation for Yan Fengfeng to reach the peak, an invincible seed, which will eventually grow and sprout. (To be continued.) )