Chapter 146: Li Xin's support

Ah He wiped his eyes, shook his head and said, "I don't know what he planned to do, I said it before I came, and I discussed it with my father, and he agreed." "Ya-Wen * Yan + Love $ Shou @ Fa" Before he arrived at his aunt's house in the town, he hesitated again, saying that there would be people who would say that he was not filial or something. I've always known that he has soft ears, so there's no place to go. ”

"Brother-in-law is a fool, sister, you can't follow him like this!" Ah Xiu hated iron and said: "According to what you say now, my brother-in-law and his father and mother are going to my brother-in-law and his brother's family, and your concubine is a difficult person to get along with, and she takes advantage of you every day. If I were you, I'd just get into trouble with them, so they know who is doing things at home! ”

Li Xin didn't speak, the sisters said intimate words, she is a sister-in-law, in the end, there is a layer of separation, and she can't pick up her sister-in-law to break up with her in-laws, right?

Ah He just rubbed his eyes, sighed again and said, "I want to make trouble too, can I make trouble?" It's not that you don't know that your brother-in-law has a soft temperament, and I'm afraid that if I just say a few words, he will have to be yelled at by his father to cover my mouth and make me stop talking. ”

Ah He shook his head, "In my father-in-law's heart, a son and grandson are treasures, a daughter-in-law who has given birth to a grandson is a treasure, a daughter-in-law who has not given birth to a grandson is grass, and a granddaughter is also grass...... The eldest girl and the second girl are not improvising in front of their grandparents and grandmothers, and the children are only a little more than three years old and know who likes them and is close to them, who doesn't like them and is not close to them. ”

As he spoke, he moved his gaze to the faces of the two daughters and sighed again, and the tears fell down again: "As soon as I thought that I had lost the child, my concubine said in a weird way that I didn't know my own body, the fetus was unstable, and the girl baby was born in front of me, and this time it was definitely a female baby, and I was born to lose money by opening my mouth to eat, so I was angry." My mother-in-law began to take care of me, but when she heard her say this, she pulled her face again. They also stopped me from doing my business, saying that they wouldn't let my mother's family know about it, and that my mother's family had a happy event and spread the bad luck to gag my mouth...... In addition to the two daughters accompanying me, Brother Qiang also greeted me with warmth, so he only let me do my work after two or three days of rest...... I can't even eat a bite of the moromi ......"

Maybe it's really a grievance that has been backlogged for a long time, Ah He couldn't stop the tears as he spoke, and kept falling. Ah Mei had already cried with her, Ah Xiu also had red eyes, and scolded the Luo family for not knowing what to do, and the daughter-in-law who could do things and was obedient and filial didn't want it, so she gave birth to a grandson.

After crying for a while, Ah He felt better, took Li Xin's handkerchief, wiped his eyes, and his eye bubbles were swollen, and he said embarrassedly: "Sister-in-law, the first time we met, I made you see a joke." ”

"What kind of joke is this, you cry so sadly." Li Xin sighed: "You have such a hard time, if I still look at it as a joke, I am still not human." ”

As he spoke, he got up, carefully put Yang'er in it, let him sleep with the eldest girl and the second girl, and said, "You guys talk, I'll cook something to eat." Today is a busy day, and I feel hungry in the middle of the night. ”

So saying, he put on his clothes and went to the stove.

After a busy hour, Li Xin came over with a tray and four bowls of mash eggs.

The charcoal pot in the house was burning vigorously, and Li Xin added two more pieces of charcoal to it. The tray was placed on the dresser, and all four of them were served. "Ya-Wen * Yan + Love $ First @ Hair"

Ah He sniffed and said, "It's better to be at my mother's house, there are sisters who talk about our hearts, and my sister-in-law cooks something for us to eat." ”

"Sister-in-law's skills are good, third sister, you have to eat hard."

Ah Xiu drove the eggs in his bowl into Ah He's bowl and said, "I'll just drink some soup, and if I eat meat today, I can't wait to eat eggs again." Third sister, you eat more and make up for what you didn't eat in the little moon. ”

“…... Well. Ahho paused for a moment, then silently scooped up the egg and ate it.

After eating, the bowl was put on the dresser, and Li Xin didn't wash it and said, "It's very cold outside, I'll clean it up tomorrow morning." ”

Rushing the three sisters-in-law to bed, Li Xin suddenly had the feeling of being someone's mother.

The four of them lay side by side, Li Xin was on the outside, next to Ah Xiu, and Ah He was asleep among Ah Xiu's sisters.

Li Xin leaned sideways and whispered, "Third sister, let me say something, don't you don't like to listen." ”

Ah He hurriedly replied: "What sister-in-law wants to say, just say it." ”

"Then I'll say it" Li Xin thought for a while and said, "If I were you, I would never be so easy to break up with someone." ”

Ah Xiu immediately said: "Sister-in-law, is it difficult to separate yourself like you and your eldest brother?" ”

"Of course, it's good to be in charge of your own house, but everything must be analyzed thoroughly." Li Xin appeased Ah Xiu and asked Ah He: "Third sister, now your mother-in-law's family, there are only your parents-in-law, your grandmother, and the little uncle and concubine, as well as the eldest girl and the second girl and the little uncle, just these people, right?" ”

Ah He hurriedly said: "Brother Qiang, his grandmother passed away the year before last." ”

"That means that the eldest elder in the family is your parents-in-law." Li Xin nodded and said, "And you are still the eldest son in the family."

Ah He sighed: "What about the eldest son, it's also that my stomach is not angry, and he is so tired that he doesn't care much about his father." ”

Ah Xiu said unhappily: "Third sister, what are you talking about?" If we women's families look down on women's families, who else can look down on us? What happened to my daughter? Some of them gave birth to a son and none of them became successful, but they were daughters, and if they married well in the future, they would supplement their mother's family and get close to their mothers. ”

Ah He just sighed faintly.

Li Xin said: "Ah Xiu is also good, first of all, you can't feel sorry for yourself. Third sister, the first time I saw you today, I felt that you looked bad, you were in a bad mood with you, how did you live a good life? If you want to say that there is no way to do it once and for all, since your parents-in-law want to hold their grandson, wouldn't it be good for you husband and wife to work hard to have a son? Who said that if you give birth to two daughters in the first child, all the daughters will be born in the future? Besides, if you hadn't been tired and you were in a better mood, maybe it wouldn't have been so easy to fall. ”

Li Xin's statement made Ah He stunned.

Li Xin continued: "Whether life is good or not, the attitude of the husband and wife is the most important. Don't care what kind of regulations your parents-in-law are, you know that your ears are soft. Do you just let him go soft? You yourself said that your grandmother told you before you got married, and those words are summed up in no more than four words - husband and children. You patronize your godson, but your husband can't be left behind. The head of the house has soft ears, you have to harden him, let him talk hard outside. ”

"But......" Ahbo interjected, "he ...... like that"

"People can't be instatic, especially men." Li Xin said: "He has become a family, and as long as he has a baby, as long as he can take responsibility, he will have blood and a sense of responsibility." I listened to what you said, when you sit in a small confinement child, he shush you and ask for warmth, and the two daughters are also intimate with you, which shows that you have a lot of feelings for you. You have been working hard all these years, living in a family, can he not know? ”

Ah He was stunned: "He knows...... I also said, wronged, wronged me......"

"Isn't that the end of it?"

Li Xin soothed: "He knows that he has wronged you, but he still lets you suffer grievances, and only compensates you where he can do, have you ever thought about why?" ”

He ...... He is filial, but he is afraid of his father......"

"You see, you get it."

Li Xin sighed and said, "Although marrying a man is a man, it is more important to deal with people around this man. His parents, brothers, sisters, friends, these people you have to intersect with, but at the core, that man is the real master. ”

Ah He was busy talking, but Li Xin stopped him and said, "Third sister, you listen to me first." ”

Ah He paused, and Li Xin said: "Your current situation is different from mine, you are also the eldest daughter-in-law, your population is simple, and things are simple, and there are many people on my side to deal with complicated things, so just divide the family and ignore many things." It's not the same as what you're in charge of. Your eldest brother is filial and soft-hearted to his family, but sometimes your father is too much, he will stand up and speak for me, and he can get to the point of splitting the family, which is really a mistake to divide the family, this matter is a bit complicated and entangled, and then talk about it slowly in the future, we will talk about your mother-in-law's family. ”

Ah He nodded and said, "Sister-in-law, you say." ”

"Let me say that you are in charge and you are a little too cowardly in dealing with these things. As long as you are more tough in charge and defend you a little more in front of your parents-in-law, you can't stand so many grievances. You're so feminine, why? It's because she gave birth to a son, but why can she take your dowry at will after giving birth to a son? You can't ridicule each other and say that it was reserved for your own son, is it possible that your concubine wants to say that you can't have a son in the future? You could have said that she cursed you for not being in charge of your family, and she was afraid that she would do something. ”

Ah He was stunned, Li Xin taught her: "The second point, I only heard you say that your father-in-law is patriarchal, and I didn't hear you mention anything bad about your mother-in-law." Presumably, your mother-in-law is also a soft-footed shrimp, so she will turn around with your father-in-law, and your mother-in-law will listen to whatever he says. ”

Ah He hurriedly said: "Sister-in-law, how do you know?" My mother-in-law doesn't usually talk much......"

"Your mother-in-law is like this, she doesn't show her water, she either holds it back, or she really doesn't have any opinions. But you have to know that men will listen to the wind in their ears, and if you are more dazzling in front of your mother-in-law, and do your filial piety, she will naturally miss you better. Now that your concubine is above the top by relying on her own son, you can save the country and please your mother-in-law to win over your father-in-law. ”

Curve ......

"It's just to turn a corner and please your father-in-law." Li Xin said: "The old people like children, regardless of the girls and boys, they are all his grandchildren, right?" I'm afraid that if the eldest girl and the second girl don't come to him, he will be even more disliked. You can't tell your daughter how their grandfather is wrong, and if you have time to teach them to be closer to their grandfather and grandmother, in front of your grandchildren, maybe their attitude will improve? ”

Ah He squirmed his mouth, as if he understood Li Xin's words, but he still couldn't understand it.

"The most important thing is that you are still the head of your own family, and he is the one who can talk the most." Li Xin beat his neck and said, "You keep talking about your concubine, why didn't I hear you say that you are a little brother-in-law?" ”

"Brother Qiang, his brother is a good one." That's all he said.

Li Xin smiled: "You are really stupid, no matter whether you say that he is a good person or not, the brother and daughter-in-law take the dowry of the sister-in-law, which is a loss, even if she sues the government, she can also make her vomit without falling." As you said, if your brother-in-law is really good, you can mention him a few words and ask him to discipline his daughter-in-law by himself. If you feel faceless and afraid of incurring your hatred, it's simpler, just push your head out and let him tell his brother. ”

After a pause, Li Xin said: "Third sister, I still say that, the most important thing is that you are in charge." If he is tough, let alone your concubine, it is your parents-in-law, it is absolutely untenable if he can't take a single word, depending on how they use the elders to press you, your dowry is what comes out of the Guan family, that is your own, whoever wants you has the right to decide whether to take it out or not. ”

Ah He's eyes lit up, and Li Xin smiled again: "One more point, I'm afraid you don't do less work all year round, right?" When you go back this time, you will only do what you should do, don't do more of the rest, raise your own body and regenerate a few fat dolls with your family, whether it is a boy or a girl, there are more children and more lively, and you have more confidence here. ”

Ah He hesitated and said, "If you don't do the work, your father-in-law will talk about it......"

"You said that you are not feeling well, your back hurts and your hands are weak, and it will be bad if you smash everything at home." Li Xin smiled: "Besides, don't you still have a concubine?" Is he in confinement or what? ”

"No, the children are all brought by the mother-in-law."

"Isn't that the end of it?" Li Xin said: "She didn't have confinement, and she didn't let her take care of the children, she was the most idle." You can't be busy with your family's affairs, can she help her? You still have two babies to bring yourself! If she doesn't help, you won't do it, your father-in-law wants to ask, you just say, they are all daughters-in-law, why doesn't she eat all day long, you are tired and tired and you can't have a good face? If your father-in-law scolds you, it's simpler, talk to your boss, see what he says, if he doesn't help you, you take the children back to your parents' house, I'm afraid they won't succeed. ”

"This ......"

Li Xin smiled: "Of course, I just come up with an idea, and it's up to you to choose what to do." It's just that you yourself say that your ears are soft, and you can't be filial for the sake of filial piety, and you can't hold yourself back like a man.

You have been wronged for a few years, and that is enough, and you are in charge. You let them know that you know you know you are powerful. Third sister, you must know that sometimes a man's responsibility is forced to be forced. It depends on whether you want to deal with it gently or quickly. No matter what, you have to remember that the Guan family in Hehuā Village is your mother's family, your mother's brothers and sisters, and you can't watch you suffer and be wronged, and this place will always be your backing. “