On Monday morning, Han Mingxiu rode to the county seat to pick up her clothes, and it was only nine o'clock when she arrived at the county seat.

It's work time at this time, the second sister is home alone, she is very happy to see Han Mingxiu coming, she is at home alone all day, she is about to suffocate to death, and she can't be happier to come to a dear sister to talk to her.

"Xiu, come, eat a few begonia fruits, this is what your second brother-in-law specially went to the orchard to pick for me, but it's crispy."

Han Mingyu pointed to a pot of burnt green begonia fruit placed on the coffee table for Han Mingxiu to eat.

Han Mingxiu looked at the green begonia fruit, and his mouth suddenly burst with pantothenic acid.

Although this green fruit is crisp, it is not sweet at all, it is more sour and sour, and before she can eat it, she feels sour water coming out of her mouth, and she really can't eat this kind of thing.

However, Han Mingyu thought it was delicious, picked up the begonias and took them one by one, and ate them rattlingly, as if he couldn't feel how sour the fruit was.

Seeing that the second sister can eat sour like this, Han Mingxiu secretly thought, they all say that sour and spicy girls, the second sister loves sour things so much, and this baby is a kid nine times out of ten.

Although Han Mingxiu does not have the idea of preference for sons, but for the sake of the second sister, she still hopes that this child can give birth to a son.

In this era, there are few people who are not patriarchal, the second sister has a soft temperament, and lives with her in-laws, if this child can give birth to a son, her parents-in-law will definitely be able to look down on her, just for this, she especially hopes that the second sister can give birth to a son.

It's just that she just thought about it in her heart, and she didn't say it on her lips, for fear of increasing the burden on her second sister's thoughts.

"Second sister, who will serve the child after it is born?"

Han Mingyu was about to give birth in more than a month, and Han Mingxiu looked at her big belly and couldn't help but think of the problem of serving the confinement child.

Han Mingyu said, "Of course, my old woman is serving the confinement child, but I will take care of the child by myself after the confinement, my husband and the old woman said that when the child is born, he will not ask me to go to work, anyway, there is no shortage of people at home who I earn ten yuan or eight yuan, so I will be asked to serve the child at home and give birth to a few more while I am young." ”

When Han Mingxiu heard the Lin family's plan, he frowned and said, "What about you?" Do you think so too? ”

Han Mingyu nodded and said, "I can do anything, whether it's going to work, or coaxing the children at home, it's okay." ”

Seeing the attitude of the second sister, Han Mingxiu sighed lightly and said, "Second sister, I don't want to interfere with your family's decision, but I still want to give you a suggestion, I think we women must be financially independent, even if you only earn ten yuan and eight yuan a month, these ten yuan and eight yuan are also a symbol of your independence, and it is the confidence for you to be on an equal footing with your mother-in-law." Second sister, don't be financially dependent on others, don't get your chin stuck in other people's food, and always maintain an independent spirit, so as not to be bullied and despised. ”

In her previous life, she had seen too many stupid women who sacrificed themselves for the sake of their families, and they also thought the same as the second sister now, thinking that there was someone in the family to make money anyway, and there was no shortage of what she earned, so she simply quit her job to take care of the family and children at home.

The idea was well-intentioned, but it didn't end well.

Once a woman loses her job, runs the family as her own, and is confined to the small circle of the family for a long time, she will slowly become boring and boring, and she will distance herself from her husband in terms of thoughts and knowledge, and once the distance is generated, family conflicts will follow.

Moreover, if you don't work for a long time, you can't make money at home, and slowly, a man will have an unbalanced heart, and he will feel that you owe him, and it is he who works hard to make money to support you.

Therefore, he will have a sense of superiority in front of you that you owe me, and the state of equality and mutual respect between you will slowly break down with his imbalance, and he will try his best to find balance in life, until you are down to the dust in front of him.

What's more, some men ruthlessly abandon their wives after they succeed, on the grounds that he has a distance from his wretched wife, and his wife's knowledge and experience can no longer agree with him, and he is not happy to live with such a wife......

All kinds of terrible endings are not something that a person with a fragile heart like the second sister can bear.

Although the second brother-in-law is kind-hearted and loves her second sister deeply, no matter how deep the love is, it can't withstand uncontrolled consumption and the corrosion of the years.

She doesn't want her second sister to follow in the footsteps of those women, and she doesn't want her to become that kind of mediocre housewife in the future, so she wants her to become more excellent, and continue to be excellent, so that no one in her mother-in-law's family can despise her, so that she will always have the confidence to be on an equal footing with them.

And the way to make her excellent is to let her not sacrifice herself for the sake of her family, let her go out to work, let her have the opportunity to grow and enrich herself, and don't confine herself to the narrow circle of the family.

Of course, this is just her wishful thinking, and whether it can be realized depends on the second sister herself.

Hearing her sister's serious advice, Han Mingyu also became serious, she said helplessly, "Xiu, what do you mean, sister understands, in fact, sister doesn't want monkeys to watch children at home, sister is still so young, why don't you want to go to work?" But there is no way, you see, there are only a few people in the family, there must be one person who stays at home to take care of the children, they are all regular employees, and I am a temporary worker, who do you say if I don't come back? ”

Han Myung-so said, "Then you can't find a babysitter or send your child to a nursery?" Do you have to confine yourself to your home? ”

Han Mingyu said, "Where can I find the nanny who knows the roots?" You don't know, I heard that some nannies are lacking in morality, on the surface they pretend to be very good, but behind the scenes, they always abuse children when their parents are not at home, and the children are too young to speak, how pitiful, I just thought, if my children are abused without my knowledge, I will definitely be distressed to death, so it is absolutely impossible to find a nanny. ”

"The nursery is even more unreliable, think about it, a teacher can look at a large group of children who can't eat, drink and Lazar? Besides, no matter how dedicated the teacher is, he can't catch up with his own meticulousness? And the child is too young to get sick, and if one of the children in the class is sick, they will definitely be infected, and I am reluctant to let the child suffer that sin. ”

Han Mingyu said very truthfully, and Han Mingxiu couldn't refute it, although his life is important, his child's childhood is equally important.

In her previous life, she hadn't heard of nannies abusing children, and kindergarten teachers beat children from time to time, and the second sister was right to think about it this way, I just hope that she can not lose herself in the process of taking care of the children and taking care of the family.