Chapter 639: Yuan Zhenxing
For the "kindness" of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Han Mingyu clearly and resolutely refused.
She would rather live in a small and dilapidated house for the rest of her life, and even go out to rent a house to live, and never live with her parents-in-law again.
Han Mingyu said: "It's better not to, since we have all separated, don't mix together anymore, besides, it's not convenient to live together, it's better to buy your own house and live your own life." ”
Lin Hongwei knew his daughter-in-law's thoughts, and he also knew that she didn't want to live with her parents-in-law. In order to live a quiet life in the future, he also refused his father's kindness, and tactfully told them that he wanted to buy a house by himself and did not need their help......
In other words, he didn't want to spend time with his parents.
Lin Hongwei's approach made Stationmaster Lin and his family very sad, they never dreamed that they would take out the coffin book to please them, but they were still unwilling to accept them......
It can be said that in order to make their son and daughter-in-law accept them again, the old couple thought of all the methods they could think of, soft grinding and hard bubbles, coercion and temptation, but no matter what they did, they just couldn't open the knot in their daughter-in-law's heart.
The daughter-in-law has identified a door, but she doesn't forgive them, she just doesn't want to live with them, and the two of them are very annoyed, and they also think about forcing their daughter-in-law to comply in extreme ways.
However, after a little try, I found that my daughter-in-law's personality is very different from before, becoming more and more like Xiaoxiu, and she is tough and assertive.
The reason for this is that in the past two years in the capital, I have been influenced by Xiaoxiu.
The daughter-in-law's temperament has become tougher, and they are trying to treat her the way they used to treat her. They didn't dare to go too far, after all, they didn't want to tear their faces with their daughter-in-law like this, otherwise, it would be even more difficult to do it in the future......
The old couple stayed in the capital for more than a month, during which they still cautiously looked at Han Mingyu's face and lived, and Han Mingyu was still like when they first came, with a straight face all day long, not talking or laughing, and not having any communication with them.
The advantage of this kind of cold violence is that there is no fierce conflict, and there are no obvious traces of conflict, but it can make people feel depressed and hopeless in indifference and alienation.
Stationmaster Lin and Accountant Yu used to be people of status and status, and they were used to being respected, but now they are receiving this kind of cold reception at their son's house, and no matter how they remedy it, they can't get it back, which makes both of them collapse.
In the end, they couldn't stand the cold attitude of their daughter-in-law, and they couldn't stand the indifference and alienation of their grandchildren, and finally, in early December, they offered to go back to their hometown in the northeast.
Lin Hongwei also wished that his father and mother would leave quickly. In the two months that his father and mother came, the atmosphere at home has been very sluggish, and the originally warm and happy little home has become dull and boring because of their arrival, and the children's smiles have decreased.
Obviously, not only the daughter-in-law doesn't want to see them, but even the children don't look down on their grandparents.
Children don't look down on grandparents, that's the children's business. Lin Hongwei is the biological son of Stationmaster Lin and Accountant Yu, even if his father and mother are not good, he can't deny his father and mother, so he can only bite the bullet and continue to keep them here.
Now, finally they offered to go back, and Lin Hongwei couldn't ask for it. As soon as his father and mother proposed to go back, he immediately ran to the station and bought them a ticket for the return trip. Stationmaster Lin and his family saw that their son wanted them to go back so actively, and their hearts were even colder.
The old couple silently packed up their things and went back to the northeast in discouragement......
It's not that Lin Hongwei is not filial, in fact, he also feels sorry for his father. However, he has always been a very fair person, his father and mother are at fault first, and his daughter-in-law is also forgivable for them to be so kind. Therefore, he had no way to criticize his daughter-in-law, so he could only wait for her to lose her anger and then think about letting her father and mother get along with her.
However, before his daughter-in-law was angry, he still hoped that his father and mother would try not to meet her, so as not to get angry with each other when they met......
got on the train back to his hometown, and the two stationmasters were silent all the way.
Unexpectedly, they rushed to the capital to find their son's family, and wanted to stay in the capital and live with their son's family, but in the end, they came back in a panic like a lost dog......
Han Mingyu used the method taught by her sister to clean up her father-in-law and mother-in-law without bloodshed, and she admired her sister even more in her heart.
It turned out that Han Mingyu thought that if he wanted to get rid of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, he would have to put a lot of effort into it, and even have to tear his face a few times, but he didn't expect it to be so easy.
It seems that my sister is still smart, and if there is anything in the future, I still have to discuss with my sister......
At this moment, Xiaoqiu was discussing a big matter with Han Mingxiu.
It turned out that Xiaoqiu had a target at school and wanted Han Mingxiu to take a look at it and help her check it.
Xiaoqiu's object is a native of the capital, and after graduation, he can also be assigned to the auto repair shop where his father works, as a formal worker.
This condition, in this era, is already very good.
The capital hukou, a formal job, how many little girls can't dream of it.
After Han Mingxiu listened to the young man's conditions, he asked Xiaoqiu about the boy's appearance, conduct, age, etc., and Xiaoqiu told her truthfully.
The boy is twenty-one years old this year, not very tall, only a little more than 1.7 meters, but his conduct is very good, enthusiastic and enthusiastic, and he is a lively and cheerful person.
When Xiaoqiu mentioned the boy, her face was red and shy, and she looked like she was in love for the first time.
Of course, Han Mingxiu is happy to help her check the gate, it is related to Xiaoqiu's lifelong event, even if Xiaoqiu doesn't come to ask Han Mingxiu to help check the check, Han Mingxiu has to find a way to see that boy and think of helping her palm.
So, one Friday, Han Mingxiu deliberately asked the teacher for leave, took a class in advance, went to the technical school to find Xiaoqiu, and invited her to have a meal with the boy by the way.
Xiaoqiu's object is called Yuan Zhenxing, and he looks quite energetic, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, a straight nose and a square mouth, and a standard Chinese face.
This appearance is very popular in this era, and it can be regarded as a standard beautiful man.
With his appearance, he can find a local girl in the capital without much effort, and she has to have a formal job, and she doesn't even have to spend money on the bride price.
Xiaoqiu is a rural girl who will not have a formal job after graduation in the future, and it is considered a high climb to find a boyfriend like Yuan Zhenxing.
After chatting briefly with Yuan Zhenxing, Han Mingxiu offered to invite them to dinner.
However, Yuan Zhenxing did not agree to let Han Mingxiu invite, saying that he would invite everything.
Han Mingxiu considered that he might be troubled by the self-esteem of a big man and didn't want a woman to invite him to dinner. Another one, he may also want to leave a good impression in front of Xiaoqiu's mother's family, so he strongly advocated that he invite him to dinner.
Since Yuan Zhenxing had to be invited, Han Mingxiu couldn't refuse his kindness, so he deliberately found a small restaurant that looked cheap, and after entering, he only ordered two vegetarian dishes, one was fried potato chips, the other was mapo tofu, and three taels of rice.
During the meal, Han Mingxiu intentionally or unintentionally inquired about Yuan Zhenxing's family conditions, but he didn't know if he didn't ask, and Han Mingxiu muttered in his heart when he inquired.
It turned out that Yuan Zhenxing's family had a total of four brothers and sisters, and their parents all worked in an auto repair factory. His father was a regular worker in an auto repair factory, and his mother was just a temporary worker, and the two of them relied on that meager salary to support their four children and Yuan Zhenxing's grandparents.
Among them, Yuan Zhenxing is the second eldest of the four brothers and sisters.
The boss went to the army two years ago and is now serving in a unit in the south.
The remaining three and four are all daughters, and now they have all taken a break from school and are unemployed at home.
Hearing that Yuan Zhenxing and their family had such a heavy burden on their life, Han Mingxiu was very worried about Xiaoqiu, such a family would marry in the past, and I am afraid that they would not even have a house when they got married.
However, if the younger couple admits to doing it, with the skills they have learned, they should be able to save a house after working hard for a few years......
After eating, settling the accounts, and walking out of the hotel, Yuan Zhenxing hurriedly took three steps and made two steps, rushed to the door and lifted the cotton curtain, and very gentlemanly let Han Mingxiu and Xiaoqiu go first.
Han Mingxiu smiled at Xiao Qiu, only to see that Xiao Qiu's face had already flushed with happiness......
The next day was Saturday, just when the school was on holiday, Han Mingxiu went to Xiaoqiu and told her his impression of Yuan Zhenxing.
"This Yuan Zhenxing is good overall, he looks quite shrewd, and he has a lot of eyes, but what kind of conduct, he can't taste it for a while, you should also pay more attention to yourself, observe him well, if this person has a good character, it should be a good choice, but if he has a bad character, no matter how good he looks, he will say, we can't do it!"